Life After Death: Are We Forgiven, Or Blamed?

By Afterlife Phil G

"Is my Mum at peace, now she has crossed over? She died when I was very young and living with my Nanna. Am I to blame? Does she forgive me? I need to know she's okay, watching over us and at peace". This question to "Afterlife Phil G" comes from England, and Phil shares his view on this.

Writes another [USA] "Weeks before my husband died (unexpectedly), a thought came in my head that he was going to die of a heart attack. Not long after this he died in his sleep (heart). Should I have taken this as a warning? Am I to blame? I need to know he forgives me. I know visits are possible. Should I have used this 'whisper' to save him?

Phil replies: "When someone crosses over, I feel sure they do not blame us or judge us harshly. So you need to stop thinking those things, and let that go. They accept us as we are, and accept what happened. I feel they have a greater understanding of things, and can see far more than we can imagine. Like a parent who understands their teenage child better than they think, and accepts some things in light of the bigger picture. I find this often in 'reading's.

Whenever I write an article or reply along these lines, there's any number of people who may laugh at my words, but I want YOU to be the judge, to be the proof. You don't need to take my word for it. On my web site I share much free information about contacting the afterlife. I have coached many in my simple technique, of recognizing the signs of contact from family in the Afterlife, and it is from this perspective that I help people to go a step further and ASK or share their concerns of guilt or blame, with the person they miss on 'the other side' and ask for verification to confirm they are not imagining it.

You see, you MAY say I wouldn't know, but you can't say that about yourself. You don't have to write to me, or see a psychic. Follow my advice on the web (philg.net.au). Once you've started understanding the contact you're already having with family and friends in the afterlife, then you can move on. You just ASK them your concerns.

For the lady who lost her husband, talk to him about your warning of a heart attack. For the lady who lost her mother when she was a child, talk to her about your feelings. You were just a child, so I am sure there will be a flood of emotions and thoughts. Talk to them about what's on your mind. In your head, or talk out loud, it doesn't matter. My video 'CoffeeTime' (see 'Afterlife Phil G' on YouTube) provides a good environment to do this, or when you're relaxed and lulling off to sleep, talk to them about what's on your mind. Share your feelings.

You will get caught up in the emotion, but that's fine. Let it happen, flow. Stay in the moment, and forget about the world for a few minutes. That's the reason we don't hear from loved ones in the Afterlife - we're too busy and rushed and concerned about things. Now you're in that moment, let it flow and shut everything else out. Don't worry about if it's real, or imagined.

You will find that, if not immediately, certainly gradually as you stay 'connected', that in between your own words and thoughts, you get images, words, feelings, coming into your mind, randomly, unexpectedly, from no-where. Don't block them. Don't try to analyze them. Don't ask what they mean. Just let those thoughts mingle. If it starts to make sense, go with the flow of the thoughts. Once you start doing this, it becomes really easy. A bit like having a conversation with a friend that starts with boats and ends up talking about cars, and you don't really know how you changed the subject.

Thoughts, images, words, or feelings that randomly enter your head are from the person in the afterlife you want to connect with. Prove it yourself (much information on my web site to help you). The thing here is to accept things as they come through, even if you're not sure or it doesn't make sense. In your cases, I am sure you will feel an enormous weight off your shoulders. You will feel forgiveness and calming, and you can feel it. Now follow my advice to confirm that feeling is real.

"Ghost", the film from the 1980's staring Demi Moore and Patrick Swayze, shows how Patrick Swayze's character still wants to be part of her life, to help her, comfort her, protect her, despite the fact he has died. He struggles to show her that he is with her, because she expects too much proof. Finally it's a silly random remark that shocks her into belief - but she nearly missed the chance. As shown in the film, certainly not all psychics are sincere, but there are some who want to help, and confirm that loved ones who have crossed over are with you - now. Anytime you want them or they want to warn you of something. And regardless of the issues, concerns, or words you want to share, they can hear you, talk to you, and you can verify the experience yourself. - Phil G

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Grieving? Mourning the loss of a loved one?? Family and Friends who have gone to 'the other side'are still with you. Afterlife Phil G shares comforting news on Life After Death and shares his simple method of Contacting The Afterlife to find understanding, comfort and answers,, yourself.

Identifying the Phases Of A Breakup

By Anne Torres

Shock and denial

This may be a combination of how dare they? And oh no!They did not. Whatever form this stage takes it can feel as though someone has dumped a bucket of ice cold water over your head. Denial can give the urge to engage in self-destructive activities or constant rounds of hang up calls to his or her voice mail. Avoid this like the plague. Instead don't call your ex, don't text, and don't email.

Anger

This is wholly normal and tolerable to feel after the end of a relationship. You may invest in voodoo dolls, think devilishly deceitful thoughts about her, call up your best friend and spend hours talking about all the things he or she did wrong, or only rip up and burn all your photographs. Either way anger is healthy to a certain amount but avoid tremendous or threatening behavior.

Depression

This is the best known of all stages of a breakup and one that can be the most critical if you allow it to be. While it is natural to be depressed if you are having thoughts of harming yourself during this time be sure to get help immediately.

Things you can do to evade letting things get too low is plan outings with friends, avoid spending time alone, begin taking classes, or join a relaxation group. Do anything to fill your hours and keep you from spending hours home by yourself thinking about your ex.

Acceptance

The final and best of the stages of a breakup is often referred to as acceptance. This is when you reach the point that you can view your relationship objectively and realize that there was no one person that was all good or bad in the relationship.

This is the time when you can look back on the happy memories and be glad you had the opportunity to love and be loved by this person. Perhaps this is the time when you decide that you were not all that bad together and you would like one more chance.

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Should you get back together with an ex? Or ever uttered these words? "I think we should get back together." That is definitely the broken heart syndrome.

I Have Been a Jerk, How Can I Win My Girlfriend Back?

By Ricardo d Argence

There are of course certain situations which occur from time to time that at best, could be described as a struggle. One such particular struggle is when we try to get our girl back after we've really blown it.

So what did you do? Did you cheat? Were you neglectful? Selfish? Or just unlucky? The questions could go on. Whichever or whatever you did, if you seriously want to get girl back, you're going to have to sort yourself out!

Because this advice which I'm about to share with you is for the most part counter- initiative, you may very well find it extremely difficult to do. Ideally, you should allow her some time to herself by leaving her alone. In many cases where this approach is taken, your ex will eventually realize just how much they miss you and as a result they will agree to give the relationship another chance.

Whenever you do, don't brush this possibility to the side irrespective of whether or not it appears that all is lost at present. If it works, it works and if it doesn't work, then it doesn't.

If however you would rather take a more direct approach at getting your girl back, then you really need to take some time out first. This will allow you time to get your head salted out while at the same time, you'll be giving her some time to think as well.

During this time out, you may want to spend time with friends or family. Whatever you do, you definitely don't want to be pestering her by sending her e-mails and text messages. Neither should you "accidentally" bump into in places where you know she's likely to show up. Rather than work in your favor, these tactics will more than likely drive her further away.

If you neglected her, missed her birthday, hardly ever took her out, then you need to seriously look at that behavior. No girl worth her salt is going to put up with such behavior.

Women love being made a fuss of, and they want their man to make them feel special. Also, they want to be sure that you want to be with them for more than just one reason, and if you fail to do that, they'll be on the way to look for someone who can.

Maybe you were simply spending a lot of time with your mates and as such, you don't really believe that you were doing anything wrong. Perhaps you were all perhaps you weren't, but the truth is; that's not the way one treats a lady if she's important to you. If you were guilty of this but you'd still like to win back your girl, then I'm not being funny, but you need to get yourself sorted out.

Essentially, in order to win back your girl, you need to behave in such a way so as to show her that you are capable of understanding her needs and desires. Whatever you do, don't waste her time or your own by trying to win her back under false pretenses. Even if you succeed, it won't last for long, and the next time she leaves, she'll probably be gone for ever.

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Precisely what to say and what to do to get your ex back on a date. Follow my advice and it will be easy as pie because it will seem so natural. This has worked hundreds if not thousands of times. web hosting mexico

Use Your Head Instead of Your Heart to Get Your Ex Back

By Ricardo d Argence

If you're serious about finding a way to win back love, then it means you're going to have to start using your head and stop following your heart! It really is that simple.

So let's look at this! Your heart is no doubt telling you to drop everything, chase down your ex and make them listen to what you have to say, whether they want to or not.

Your heart feels like all that needs to happen is for your ex to listen and understand how you feel and that your ex will just forget everything that may be wrong with the relationship and then just simply re-start the relationship. However, this is not the case.

To win back love your head would never tell you to do any of that, instead your head would say back off, get a grip and take your time. Guess which one you should be listening to! Yep, your head!

Leave your ex to himself or herself at this time, do not call, do not plan any accidental meetings when you know your ex will be some place particular and do not write love letters to them. Do not try to contact them in any way.

By contacting them, you're making yourself appear desperate, a pain in the butt and someone that no right minded person would even want to be around never mind consider dating again.

When it comes to your ex, you want to increase your value like that rare diamond that is worth more than any other jewel. Give your ex time to wonder where you may be, what you are doing and why you have not tried to contact them. Give this time and before you realize it, your ex will want to contact you.

If you're stuck with a problem and the first person you would usually call is your ex, then you're going to have to figure out how to solve that problem yourself. Not only does this enhance your standing with your ex, because they realize that you can cope on your own, but it also enhances your own standing in your own head.

If you figure out how to cook that favorite meal that your ex used to cook for you � you realize you can cope! If you figure out how to change the oil in your car � again you realize that you can cope!

You can win back love using calmness and good judgment. After doing so, your ex will feel more at ease about contacting you himself or herself. Allowing your passions to run rampant will only lead you to your own disadvantages of getting your ex back.

Tell your heart to hush up and listen to your head, if you want to win back your ex and resume your relationship.

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The techniques, principles and advice yourself will get in The Magic Of Making Up have helped hundreds of men and women just like yourself win back the mind, heart and soul of the ones they love.

Comforting Poem On Life After Death By 'Afterlife Phil G'

By Afterlife Phil G

Visitors to the website created by Afterlife Phil G have found much peace in his words of comfort poem. Opening with the beautiful lines: "I have not gone. My body is beyond your reach, but my soul is touching yours."

If you know of someone who is grieving the loss of a loved one, like so many others you may like to print a copy of the full poem from Afterlife Phil G's website on life after death.

"I was recently asked by Joe, in Australia, how to help a friend accept the loss of his wife. He asks: "Everything has been kept the same as if she was still living in the house. Is this wrong?"

"It depends on the age of the person involved. If we are talking about a younger person, who still has their life ahead of them, there is a point where they should move on, let go, but they don't have to live life without being able to contact them. Accepting of the situation, yes, but still being able to retain contact.

For parents who have suffered the loss of a child, or for older people who have lost their partner, it can be of enormous comfort to leave a room untouched, and be able to walk into it and feel as if they are still in the room. This is not just a wish but a reality, and if you follow my advice, you will be able to feel them in the room and verify it.

My 'CoffeeTime' video combined with my poem and thoughts about contacting the afterlife have worked well for many, to sit in a room untouched, or holding an object or photo, and feeling the presence of the one they miss. My website on life after death shares my poem, video and more to help you.

The poem came to me in a light dream a few years ago. Visitors to my site will know that I accidentally found a way for ordinary people to contact family in the afterlife and verify it, and not long after writing my book, I felt a strong need to have something I could share for free, to help a large number of people gain comfort from my simple technique on contacting the afterlife. The result is a poem which came to me one night, which I remembered vividly in the morning, made even more strange by phrasing I would not normally use. It truly is a gift I am pleased to share.

If you miss someone, I hope you will find comfort by visiting either of my websites philg.net.au or afterlifephilg.com and looking at my poem, video or other information. Don't Grieve - theyre still with you. Phil G

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Afterlife Phil G helps you contact loved ones in the Afterlife, and verify it. For Life After Death information visit Phil G'scontacting the Afterlife web site.

A View of Grief and Loss

By Maurice Turmel PhD

Grief and loss are typically associated with death and dying, usually involving the loss of a loved one. But the category can also encompass loss of job, home or relationship as additional dimensions of experience. Grief resources and recovery programs are subsumed under this umbrella and are usually designed to help us with all aspects of loss.

Losing a loved one is what we typically associate with grief and loss. But losses of many types can also generate powerful grief reactions. We include here broken relationships, loss of a pet and loss of employment. When the loss experience strikes we immediately want relief and begin seeking some kind of recovery help.

Today we can see grief and loss associated with divorce, relationship breakup, pet grief and loss of employment. We can also see associations with the loss of ones home, place of business and career aspirations as some hopes and dreams never materialize. We tend not to see these as grief and loss categories, but in fact they are losses that affect us in similar ways as losing a loved one.

The main point of this article is that dealing with grief and loss has a lot of common dimensions over all of its related categories. We mourn the loss of a loved one. We grieve the loss of a pet. We agonize over a broken relationship. We become depressed at the loss of our job.

What is the central point here? Why do we examine grief and loss from all these points of view? Because at the heart of every crisis is an emotional wound. We feel hurt, depressed and sad. We feel lost and afraid. Something we valued has been taken away. We feel pain associated with any loss and that usually elicits anger as a first response. These reactions are typical in every type of grief and loss experience.

It becomes obvious that grief and loss affects many aspects of our life experience. Acknowledging this and accepting responsibility for our recovery from such stress reveals itself as necessary. We can regain our energy and drive by working through the effects of grief and loss. Since the experience is more common than previously thought, any effort we make to deal with grief and loss will have benefits across the breadth of our lives.

The cycle of life includes gaining, losing and gaining again. For example, when a snake crawls into the tall grass to shed its old skin, it's because the new is emerging from underneath and pressing for release. Losses are typically categorized as devastating when, in fact, they are often a prelude to something better. Learning to let go, no matter what the cicumstances is a valuable life lesson.

Losing a loved one is a powerful and devastating experience and one we never solicit consciously. This is the most difficult of all losses and we acknowledge that it is hard to see any benefit in it. But losing and gaining are with us everyday in a great variety of forms. Learning to cope with all types of loss will help us when the big losses strike. Finding the right resources is essential to managing our grief and loss experience.

Dealing with our emotions is central to the recovery process, no matter what type of loss you encounter. Turning to each other for comfort and solace can bring peace and new found friendships. All times of trial have their secret benefits. That is the main lesson from grief and loss.

About the Author:

Dr Maurice Turmel is a veteran grief and loss therapist with 25 years experience. He is the author of "How to Cope with Grief and Loss" audio ebook that has helped thousands with their grief and loss recovery.

Past Life Regression - A New Life And Future

By Richard Frown

Many individuals have a definite interest to learn all about their past lives. Most of them want to know only out of curiosity about their past lives. Many different religions around the world have a deeply ingrained belief of ones past lives. But the fact remains that you can make positive changes in your present life by using it. Although many people who do discover their past lives do not think of using it that way.

What is the lure to most people to want to explore their past lives? The nature of it is intriguing. Perhaps just remembering our past lives is like being in a science fiction movie. Strange, unusual. However, the thing to consider are the benefits to our present life using Past Life Regression.

Research shows Past Life Regression has had good results treating people with emotional problems. And there is no doubt that positive changes can be made in your life by the remembrance of the disturbing experiences you had in that period of time.

The learning of your past lives requires you to go to a hypnotist who specializes in Past Life Regression. Self-hypnosis is another way, and there are also other useful things as well.Practicing simple affirmations helps the subconscious mind to prepare to accept and allow you to remember your past lives. The normal thing for your mind to do is block out these memories.

Here are some other things you need to understand before you embark on your Past Life Regression

Our present lives and our past lives are connected and all the memories of our past lives are buried deeply in our subconscious. It is necessary for these memories to be brought to the surface.

Just knowing of your past life does not change your life for the better. You need to know the way to put this information to use so that you may benefit from it in your present life.

Learn from your mistakes in your previous life and keep from repeating them in your present life. Using the knowledge from the past life positively, in your life today, will enable you to live better.

Those who dont believe in Past Life Regression or reincarnation are still able to be helped to live a better life. Some may consider these memories to be the product of an overactive imagination and can still use this information to avoid past life mistakes in the present. For individuals who wish to change their present lives, this is a great tool.

There are two reason for using Past Life Regression even though you may or may not believe in it. The experts believe the following are two main reasons to do this.

*When you make a positive change in your present life, its because of your experience with Past Life Regression. And this is because of your experience with a past life memory.

*If you think you are imagining all of this, its okay, you can still use this information to help better your life. The thoughts will clear your mind and will free you from everything holding you back.

What are the benefits of Past Life Regression?

*It can help in healing the emotional traumas of the past, that are creating havoc in your present life.

*You will be thinking more clearly and making better decisions.

*Knowing past hurtful treatment of others and suffering the consequences will enable you to change how you treat people in the present. Remembering indiscretions of the past will help you look at and change your behavior for the better.

*By exploring your past lives you can bring out your hidden potential which is unrealized by you in the present. You may find skills and talents and other attributes that are hidden deep in your subconscious and discovering them may change your life in the present forever.

*You will begin to understand yourself better and also find out why you do the things that you do and know why you have certain characteristic and a certain personality. These will no longer be a mystery to you.

See what Past Life Regression can do to help you. You do not have a thing to lose and may well gain a lot. This is a great tool for you to use to change your life to the life you have always dreamt of.

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The author Richard Frown writes for the popular http://www.past-lives-regression.com site. You can enjoy the incredible experience of past life regression and you can try it yourself when you get 29 Free past life regression Audios when you visit here.

I Broke up with Her, Now I Want my Girlfriend Back

By Ricardo d Argence

Dumped your girlfriend? Now you want her back. You will need to act quickly. But you dont want to make the same mistakes that most guys do when they are trying desperately to get their ex-girlfriends back.

In trying to win her back youve probably have been sending her gifts, expensive gifts. Your way of telling her how much she means to you and a desperate attempt to win her back.

Chances are none of that has worked, because to be honest it's pretty old hat and your girlfriend wants to see something more honest and much more innovative from you.

Its likely you will need to jump some hoops before your dumped ex-girlfriend will consider taking you back. Even if she is desperate to have you back. You did dump her and its going to be difficult to get over how she feels about that.

There is no question or doubt, you may seriously have hurt her pride and feelings. And she will act accordingly. It will depend on how badly you want her back which will determine how prepared you will be to accept the consequences.

You will need to explain truthfully the reasons for your actions. Its best you take some time to conclude your reason for dumping her. Sit down with her and explain honestly your reasons for your actions.

An apology will definitely be in order along with a promise that this will not occur again, ever. If you truly want her back this should be done with sincerity.

Maybe you panicked as you saw the relationship deepening and getting more and more serious. It's a pretty common feature for some guys and to suddenly feel as they are feeling smothered and overwhelmed in a relationship and instead of sitting down with their girlfriends, they panic.

Before you know it, you have a dumped girlfriend and you're living with regret. So perhaps this is the situation that you have to explain to your ex girlfriend. If it is, again, be honest.

What you must guard against in a situation where you were clearly in the wrong and you over reacted, is that you don't become her punching bag. Don't allow her to use you as an emotional vessel into which she pours out all her frustrations and anger just because she can. So doormat out, understanding and apologetic guy in!

Chances that you both have feelings for each other is good and you will get back together again. You may have dumped your girlfriend, but let her know that you sincerely want to start over again and are not reacting to guilt feelings about dumping her.

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I Sense Him Near - But How Do I Know? Phil G Talks About Life After Death

By Afterlife Phil G

Afterlife Phil G shares his mailbag to help Lisa from Britain to connect with her father in the Afterlife: "I lost my father, I sense him near, but my thoughts are so mixed up I can't actually know if it's his thoughts or mine..."

"Sensing contact with the afterlife doesn't mean you can easily understand or believe the contact is real or clear, especially if it's someone very close to you - you need to find a way to verify things the contact is real, and not just imagined."

I had the same problem (visitors to my website on contacting the afterlife will know my discovery was accidental, back in 2002) and it's why I developed my simple technique. Firstly, if you sense him around, then he's there. I know some would think that's a nave statement, but it's true and you can verify it yourself in time.

I assume you're past the stage of believing in life after death, and family and friends in the Afterlife are contactable. So we'll move on to knowing the difference between your own thoughts, and those of someone who's 'coming through' to you. The first step, even if you're pretty good at 'feeling' a connection, is to become relaxed. Like a deep meditation phase.

On my web site on contacting the afterlife, I share many ideas to help, most of it free, including instructions, a YouTube video, and a list of books and guides to help. But the starting point is relaxing. I find it hard to get clear detail if I am busy, rushed, or thinking about too many things. So the first step is to be very relaxed, to the point of not being aware of anything else around you. Whilst I suggest my own audio guide "Contact Family in the Afterlife yourself", any meditation will do.

In order to get clear messages or feelings is to discern the difference between the thoughts in your head, and the INCOMING thoughts. One key is to not ask for specific 'signs', but to accept whatever comes through. Maybe you won't get what you're expecting, but gradually you will get things clearly, becoming easier the more you try.

What you need to do next is separate your thoughts from those you are receiving those in the Afterlife. I find the starting point is to be very relaxed, but then to try NOT to get any specific thoughts, and accept whatever comes through. You may not get what you want right now, but you will start to sense things, often that seem odd or insignificant, but it will become clearer the more you try.

Lastly, you want to verify what just happened is not your own thoughts, and my suggestion is to ask for something you don't know, or something you're forgotten. Something you don't know can be anything. In my wife's case, the final 'proof' she needed to verify I was sharing messages from her father was for me to ask if she had knocked a round cylinder containing a bunch of pens and pencils off her desk today? Something I didn't know, and did not even know about the cylinder.

In my book 'Soul Matters " the Voice Within' I talk about my Grandma coming through (who passed away when I was about 7) showing me a plate with a 'scone' on it. I had no idea what this meant, until I heard her soft voice say "don't you remember the scones?' - then I remembered. I had asked my mum many times to make scones like my Grandma (who's British, and they make scones completely different from Australians!). I had completely forgotten that.

So ask, and trust the answer, even if what you get does not make sense - and over the next few hours or days it will, and it will verify your connection. In your case, I understand you already sense him near, and don't really need to know how to connect clearly with him, but I've shared these things because I feel if you do these small simple steps, you'll go from sensing he's with you to getting clear messages and being able to verify it's real.

I hope this works for you. Tell me how you get on in a few months by using the feedback link on the website (philg.net.au). I'm sure you'll get the clarity and proof you desire.

Phil G

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Miss someone special? Family who have passed away are still with you. Afterlife Phil G shares his views on Life After Death and on Contacting the Afterlife, giving hope to ordinary people around the world.

How To Win Back Your Boyfriend If He's Left You

By Ricardo d Argence

Has your boyfriend dumped you? Are you longing to get him back again? Well, if you are then you need to exercise a certain amount of caution in order to avoid scaring him away.

Firstly remember that just because you want him back it doesn't mean that he wants to come back. If you've broken up before and your relationship has become a breakup/makeup merry go round, pretty soon one or both of you will want to one day get off that particular ride for good.

Remember, there is always a chance that he's become sick and tired of the breakup and makeup routine and as such, how you feel and what you want may be of no importance to him any longer.

Secondly to get guy back you're really going to have to look at the relationship as a whole, not just the parts you're comfortable looking at, because only then can you begin to find out what's causing the problems.

It may be very much worth your while to seek help and advice from outside, particularly if you think it may help. Under such circumstances good, honest friends can be invaluable, providing they willing to tell you what you need to hear, instead of what you would like to hear.

You should also understand that to pull this off you're going to have to stop acting on whim and emotion and start working a well thought out proven plan. This is probably the most crucial step you will need to take, so get yourself under control.

Take some time out to formulate a plan in order to prevent yourself from making matters worse. In other words, don't be tempted to phone him all the time and don't text in either. Likewise, don't try to manipulate in such a way so as to get him to see you.

You'd be far better off occupying yourself with a meeting other people and going out socializing. In fact, do whatever it takes in order to regain a reasonable amount of clarity with regards to the situation.

Especially take the time to look at why you want to get guy back, because to be honest, too many people find themselves back with their exs only to discover a few weeks down the line that they have made a huge mistake. So just because you want to get guy back right now, ask yourself if you really should?

However, if you've made the decision that you definitely want to get your boyfriend back, and you're satisfied that you're in control of yourself, then you need to prepare yourself for the next step which will involve actually discussing it with him.

One other thing you should bear in mind is; he may not feel ready to see you yet and if that's the case is not very likely to want to discuss getting back together again. If you find yourself in a situation like this, rather than trying to force the issue, accept that he needs more time.

Instead, tell him that you understand completely and then tell him you will give him more time to think things through. Leave it at that and continue living your life and keeping yourself busy.

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If You Want Your Ex Back, Face Up Your Mistakes

By Ricardo d Argence

Let's face it; if you're hoping to patch things up between you and your ex, then you had better be prepared for the fact that you're going to have to face up to the truth.

As sure as eggs are eggs, making mistakes in relationships means you have to fix them and apologize for those mistakes before there can be any making up.

When you decide you want to get back with an ex, you must be ready to face not only what has gone wrong with the relationship, but also your part in the break down of the relationship.

If you made mistakes then don't beat yourself up for that. We all make them, it's what you do after the mistake that's important.

Rather than rush into anything, take some time out in order to analyze what went wrong and what it was that led up to the relationship breaking down. Additionally, try not to focus on any mistakes your ex made because that is something you can deal with in the future. Right now you're only need to worry about those things which you can influence.

Irrespective of what mistakes you made in the past, do you think it's possible that your ex will be able to forgive you for them? Whatever you do, don't be too quick to come down hard on yourself by being that your mistakes are unforgivable.

You would be surprised at the situations that couples find themselves in and that they later recover from. So don't think that your mistakes are beyond forgiveness. There is always hope!

Furthermore, you need to try and determine what exactly what's happening at that time that you made the mistakes, particularly if they were in contrast to your usual character. This is where you may need to come face to face with accepting responsibility for your mistakes.

By determining what events were taking place at the time, you may well come to discover that your behavior was partly due to outside forces such as stressed, family problems, or even stress at work. Of course, if you do arrive at such a conclusion then you'll need to discuss this in great detail with your ex.

If you discover that there were in fact no extenuating circumstances that that your mistakes were simply a result of selfishness or thoughtlessness, then you have still got a chance to fix things again. Of course it's going to take an effort on your part but if you're serious about getting back together again with your ex, than it needs to be done.

Once you get to a point where you manage to put things into perspective regarding your mistakes, then it's time for you to contact your ex in order to make arrangements to meet. You should bear in mind however, that is in your own best interest to meet face to face and also to meet in a public place. This is because they will be less chance that either of you will become emotional.

When you do meet, you need to do what ever you must in order to remain calm and focused on what needs to be said. When the opportunity arises go ahead and apologize and ask her to forgive you. Once you're done then of course you need to listen carefully while your ex lets you know what's on her mind.

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Lucid Dreams - Experience Every Fantasy!

By Paul Benson

Something which may amaze you to learn is that it is possible to be aware that you are dreaming even while in the middle of the experience and even begin to control the course of your dream! Such dreams are called lucid dreams and they allow you to sit in the director's chair and let you decide what will happen.

It's like having your own movie studio with an unlimited budget - anything you want to see or experience is within your power to make happen.

Unlike regular dreams which follow their own pace and their own internal logic, lucid dreams can be controlled by the dreamer. Your lucid dreams seem incredibly real, no matter how fantastic the events you decide to make a part of them.

One way to tell the difference between a regular dream and a lucid dream is to try picking up a book or newspaper in your dream. If you can read the words there and make sense of them, then this is almost certainly a lucid dream. In most dreams, you'd be unable to read the words on the page; they will either keep changing or be impossible to read at all.

When you're having lucid dreams, you can bring all of your dreams and fantasies to life. You can visit any place in the universe and speak with people from the past and present - if you can imagine it, you can make it happen!

If you don't like the way that a lucid dream is going, you can always turn things around. You can even relief events from your own life and make them turn out in a better way; many people find that this is one of the benefits of lucid dreaming that can help them to work through some things in their lives.

Lucid dreams are something which anyone can learn to do. While your body needs to rest to take care of essential biological functions like cellular repair, you can do so while a part of your mind remains conscious and active. This is what occurs in lucid dreaming.

You'll need to practice lucid dreaming before you're able to do it at will. This can take some time, so keep practicing and be patient; these dreams will come to you with time.

Starting a dream diary is a good way to start learning to lucid dream. When you awake from a dream, write down everything you can remember. Keep your journal by your bedside so that it is quickly accessible to you upon waking. With time, you'll improve your ability to remember your dreams and this trains your mind to recognize when it is dreaming. When you acquire this skill, you'll be able to start making your dreams lucid ones.

Creative professionals such as writers often use lucid dreaming to help them create their novels. Lucid dreams are a good way to try out plots and develop characters and dialogue even as they sleep! If you're a creative person, lucid dreaming offers you a great opportunity to try out new ideas.

When you get into the habit of remembering your dreams, you'll be able to return to your dreams when you go back to sleep and start controlling their course.

The last hour or two before the time when you normally awake are the best for lucid dreaming. When you awake a little early and go back to bed, you may feel like you have just been laying in bed thinking when your alarm finally goes off; however, you have actually been lucid dreaming!

With a little practice, you'll find that it's easy to bring yourself into the necessary mental state for lucid dreaming. Self hypnosis can help you get started by helping you to remember your dreams.

There is also a technological development in the field of audio which helps you to achieve the state where lucid dreaming happens easily. Binaural beats are frequencies which synchronize the hemispheres of your brain and tune your brainwaves to the frequency needed for lucid dreams to happen.

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ADD Symptoms Reviews & Guide

By Anne Durrell

Recognizing the different and understanding the different types of ADD Symptoms can help ensure that you or your kid gets the correct treatment.

Different Signs

There are three different categories for ADHD Symptoms, they are:

* Inattention

* Hyperactivity

* Reckless

ADD, on the other hand, only causes the inattention symptoms.

Handling a patient for ADHD when they have ADD and is overmedication could lead to further troubles. In most cases, the stories about Ritalin and other ADHD therapy medications that make a kid to be zombie-like are perhaps connected directly to medicating kids with only ADD with the incorrect medication or incorrect doses, assuming that the kids have ADHD.

Inattention Symptoms

With ADD the only type of warning signs that will be showed are inattentiveness symptoms, and they are include:

* No attention to details

* Offhand mistakes

* Easily sidetracked

* Poor listening skills

* Trouble following information

* Cannot finish the tasks

* Can't put anything in order

* Neglectful

Analyzing ADD can help a child get a grasp on stuffs as well as begin to be able to concentrate. A childe that is treated for ADD will start to do better in school as well as have better activities overall.

In most situations, parents always believe that their children could not be ADD since they can sit for many hours doing something they like without being distracted.

The truth is that a child with ADD can concentrate when they like what they are doing because it does not require them to put effort into paying attention and being focused like an activity they do not like does.

ADD will worsen, as the child gets older or at least continue to cause problems with school and other activities. By this time, though, it has progressed into something that is probably causing all around issues in the child's life.

It is actually a lot better to recognized ADD in younger children so that they can get used to taking medication as well as learn how to handle ADD symptoms.

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A Proven Plan to Get Back with Your Ex

By Ricardo d Argence

Once you've been dumped by an ex that you're still in love with then your main goal is usually to find some way to win back an ex who has broken your heart.

A lot of people have used hundreds of methods to try to get their ex back, but pushed them away instead. You don't have to follow their rules or try their ways; take a moment to get an idea of what you're going to do then start working on your plan.

In order to get win back an ex is to analyze your strategy. Approach the situation in a calm, relaxed manner so you can appear functional. Some ex's are turned off by expensive gifts or desperate attempts to get their attention when they don't want you. Take your time and make them want you instead.

If your ex broke things off with you by impulse, let the emotions settle before contacting them about the relationship. Sometimes people need a day off to get their thoughts together. To win an ex back effectively, you have to know what's going on inside of yourself than inside of their heads.

Concentrate on improving yourself by building your self-esteem as it should be. Do not get depressed, shallow, or develop anger towards your ex. Spend time with friends, family, or colleagues to work out some emotional issues or hard feelings by having fun.

It's important to consider having fun, but it's the only way to loosen your mind to get back the one you love. Take your time then move forward in trying to understand the problems you had.

For the same reason looking after your body is key. When you take the time to do some regular exercise and eat well, you begin to feel focused, less confused and defeatist about what you're going through.

Sometimes you don't have to join a gym if working out is not your thing; consider joining a book club, going out to a night club once or twice, and staying around people as much as possible. Do something that will keep your blood pumping and your mind off of the break up.

Review your current diet to see what's keeping you laid back. What foods are causing you to gain a lot of weight? What makes you feel bogged down during the morning hours? Learn how to eat better so you can function at your best every day. By taking care of yourself, you might win back an ex with little effort.

Combine all of these tips together and you will have a tested & proven plan to win back an ex by taking care of your own well-being for a while.

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Don't Let Your Friend Get The Hospital Blues..

By Brian G. Hall

People with poor health are doomed to spend a large amount of time in the hospital. No matter what the reason for their stay is one thing is for certain, your loved one needs your support. While at the hospital a person can feel alone and abandoned. There are many things you can do to help your loved one feel missed and appreciated therefore enlightening their mood.

When someone is staying at a hospital dont you forget to buy him or her gifts. This little gesture can greatly improve someones outlook. A nice card with a comforting message will always be appreciated. For small children you can purchase a stuffed animal or some kind of plush doll. Children will especially enjoy sleeping with their doll at night while they are all alone in the hospital room.

One should take full advantage of the hospitals visiting hours too. Make sure you schedule sufficient amount of time for your visits. A patient would much rather prefer if youd stay with them an extra hour rather than only showing up for a quick meet and greet. You can bring outside activities so bring a board game or at least a deck of cards so you can keep the patients mind off his or her health.

To greatly improve someones stay at a hospital you can purchase them a personal gown. What not many people realize is that hospital gowns are made of very strong fabrics and fibers. These fibers are chosen because they can endure the rigorous use the hospital puts them through. The fabrics endure multiple washes without fading or losing any threads. Despite being very durable these standard hospital gowns are very uncomfortable for the patient to wear.

Being made of such thick fabric the gowns can cause rashes or skin irritation in some patients. The fabrics werent designed for comfort so the patients wearing them are usually uncomfortable. Another problem with standard gowns is that the hospital usually doesnt offer a wide size selection. With only offering 4 sizes small, medium, large and extra large patients are usually stuck wearing a gown that is either too small or too large. One unforeseen problem is also the fact that anyone with a phobia of germs will have a hard time wearing the gown.

If you purchase a hospital gown you will drastically improve your loved ones stay in a hospital. Custom gowns come in a variety of sizes. Ensuring you can find the right fit. Also the fabric is more breathable and soft decreasing the chances of skin irritation. You can also purchase multiple gowns for your loved one just in case they dont feel comfortable only wearing one.

While no one enjoys being admitted to the hospital there are a few ways their loved ones can make the experience less stressful. The patient will truly be grateful for your extra support during their time of need.

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Proven & Tested Plans to Win Back Your Ex

By Ricardo d Argence

Do you remember how hard it was to get your lover? Now, multiply it by three times since you two have broken up. This is because they know you, don't really understand you, and you lost a connection along the line of being together.

What is usually the case though is that most people don't have a clue where to start and they either rush around sending expensive gifts or making a ton of phone calls all of which only serve to push their exs further away.

In order to get win back an ex is to analyze your strategy. Approach the situation in a calm, relaxed manner so you can appear functional. Some ex's are turned off by expensive gifts or desperate attempts to get their attention when they don't want you. Take your time and make them want you instead.

If your ex broke things off with you by impulse, let the emotions settle before contacting them about the relationship. Sometimes people need a day off to get their thoughts together. To win an ex back effectively, you have to know what's going on inside of yourself than inside of their heads.

Concentrate on improving yourself by building your self-esteem as it should be. Do not get depressed, shallow, or develop anger towards your ex. Spend time with friends, family, or colleagues to work out some emotional issues or hard feelings by having fun.

It's important to consider having fun, but it's the only way to loosen your mind to get back the one you love. Take your time then move forward in trying to understand the problems you had.

Consider your body's functions. Look after your health so you can develop a strong sense of self-confidence by enhancing your figure. Work out in a gym, spend time with your kids, and work hard on keeping your life on track.

You don't have to do anything you don't want to. Stop worrying about your ex and join some social activities to keep yourself up. Stay around people as much as possible so you don't have to stay alone. Keep your blood pumping and mind off the break up.

Review your current diet to see what's keeping you laid back. What foods are causing you to gain a lot of weight? What makes you feel bogged down during the morning hours? Learn how to eat better so you can function at your best every day. By taking care of yourself, you might win back an ex with little effort.

In fact, consider combining all of these tips together to win back an ex.

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Ideas To Make A Loved Ones Hospital Stay A Little Better.

By Brian G. Hall

Those who are unfortunate and have been cursed with poor health spend a large portion of their life admitted into the hospital. Spending so much time in the hospital can affect someones mood. They will start to become depressed and lonely. But there are many things you can do to help out a loved one who is a patient at a hospital.

One clear way to bring happiness to a hospital patient is to buy them presents. Often times people like to buy boxed candy but that is ill advised. Many patients are on a strict diet and candy can be harmful to certain patients. The best kind of gift you can purchase for a person is a nice bouquet (for women) or a nice house plant (for men). Or you can even make them a gift. A nice hand written card with an encouraging message will always be appreciated by a person who has fallen ill.

One should take full advantage of the hospitals visiting hours too. Make sure you schedule sufficient amount of time for your visits. A patient would much rather prefer if youd stay with them an extra hour rather than only showing up for a quick meet and greet. You can bring outside activities so bring a board game or at least a deck of cards so you can keep the patients mind off his or her health.

To make a persons stay at a hospital more comfortable, buy them a nice night gown. Hospital gowns are made out of very strong and durable fabrics. They were designed to last as long as possible, with numerous washes and repeated use. These design features are actually very practical but it comes at a cost to the patient.

While the gowns are very sturdy and durable, they arent very comfortable. The fabric is often times too thick and can cause a rash in any patient with skin problems. Also hospitals get their standard gowns in bulk, meaning they come in only 4 sizes small, medium, large, and extra large. With such a limited selection often times patients are left with wearing over or undersized gowns. Also many patients might have a fear of germs and wont be able to relax wearing the communal gowns.

If you purchase a hospital gown you will drastically improve your loved ones stay in a hospital. Custom gowns come in a variety of sizes. Ensuring you can find the right fit. Also the fabric is more breathable and soft decreasing the chances of skin irritation. You can also purchase multiple gowns for your loved one just in case they dont feel comfortable only wearing one.

With your love and support the patient will no longer have to suffer through the lonely and depressing feelings they are bound to feel while confined to their hospital bed. Keeping them happy is one of the best ways to make them feel better about their situation.

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Smart Methods to Win an Ex Girlfriend Back

By Ricardo d Argence

Just how long or how quickly has it taken you to figure out that you want to find out how to get your ex girlfriend back?

A lot of guys are not sure if they want their girlfriends, but it's evident when they first walk out the door. Other guys wait until they're dating someone else to realize the new girl is not for them.

How to get your ex girlfriend back under whatever time lapse, involves the same steps. It can be quick and it can be easy, if you follow some basic steps.

In the midst of the pain, try to get back in shape. Be upfront and take the situation at face value. You two broke up for some reason - it's time to find out why. But first, don't eat too much ice cream or drink beer for a pain suppressant. Take your health seriously because love is not worth self- indulgence.

Too much self-indulgence can add weight around your sides. Those 'love' handles would be developed from the anger you have towards your ex girlfriend. It's not worth it so hit the field with confidence and look for a way to get through the troubles.

If you really want to get your ex girlfriend back, consider chilling with the guys for a while. Go out. Change. Another way to get over the circumstances is to date someone else that you might like. You don't have to like her all the way, but you can chill out with the chic until you settle your thoughts.

Remember, you're not actually in a relationship with your ex, you might want to be, but until that dream is an actual, you're a free agent. But don't set out to hurt some other girl just because you want to make your ex jealous or just because you're thinking about yourself. Just make it clear to the girl that you're just interested in some fun and nothing more.

Think about your previous relationship and what it did to you. Do you want to go back to that or do you want something more? In order to get your ex girlfriend back without strings, make this clear in your mind.

Be original and fresh instead of old and boring. A lot of guys try to use flowers, cards, and candy to sweet their ex off their feet. This is not going to work if you don't have a plan. Don't spend any money on them, it's time for you to spend an afternoon or quality time that can help reinforce your love.

Keep yourself in the best condition possible - instill your security, keep your mind and heart open to changes, and work with your own problems first. Once you have everything together, contact your ex girlfriend for a brief hello.

Be open to simple conversation in the beginning. Do not pressure your ex girlfriend back into the relationship because it may make her uncomfortable.

Depending on what you deduce, you either ask for a second chance or you retreat and give it more time.

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My Boyfriend Broke Up With Me, is It Possible to Get Him Back?

By Ricardo d Argence

Did your boyfriend break up with you? This is a rough time in your life. You are probably hurting and want to know what caused your boyfriend break up.

First and foremost, while you may want to do a bit of soul searching to assess where you are, avoid playing the self-blame game about your boyfriend break up. The truth is that your ex has his own issues to deal with. Remember the phrase "it's not you, it's me" when it comes to the reasons why your relationship ended.

You can spend time trying to get your ex back. If you are going to go down this route, you need to know the following things:

Don't bug your ex after a boyfriend break up. If he's ended the relationship, then he wants his space, so don't call or text him several times a day.

It's okay to flirt with other guys in his presence. It may even make him want you back more.

When you do get back together for a "trial date" be cheerful and friendly but don't pressure him for more than he can handle.

If you truly feel deep down that your boyfriend break up is final and the relationship can't be saved, then you need to take steps to move on.

One of the first things you can do after your boyfriend break up is to sit down and write a long letter to him pouring out your heart. You can talk about the good times and bad. You can tell him what a jerk he is and call him all sorts of names. But, don't mail the letter! Instead, take a candle out and burn it. This is one of the best ways to get closure after a boyfriend break up.

The next thing you need to do is do a property exchange. Give him back the t-shirt that you love to sleep in. Get the econ textbook you lent him. If there are things like toothbrushes that are too trivial to exchange, throw them away. Don't have anything around that reminds you of him. If you have gifts that he gave you, box them up for the time being. If you have any money issues to resolve like debts to the other or a joint checking account, get them sorted out.

After the property exchange is completed, make an agreement that you won't communicate with each other for a period of thirty days. This can be a challenge if you typically see each other every day. This is a difficult but necessary part of getting some much needed space after a boyfriend break up.

A boyfriend break up is very painful, but it doesn't mean that your life is over. In fact, you might even consider it a good thing because it frees you up to meet your true soul mate.

Of course, you shouldn't jump to the conclusion that just because you've gone through a boyfriend break up that all of the doors are firmly shut. If you think you have a shot of winning him back and that's something you want, you should by all means take the opportunity to do so.

After all, true love can't be squashed by a boyfriend break up.

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How to Handle a Marriage in Crisis

By Ricardo d Argence

Handling a marriage in crisis is not easy because once it was blossoming with love and life and now your marriage is floundering and about to die. When the two of you were dating, love seemed to be in full bloom and it had a life of its own. The two of you had begun a new life as a couple.

When you get married, it seems like everything just falls into place and everything makes sense. When times get tough, though, and the marriage begins to struggle it can seem like the new life is starting to get old and may die out. If you aren't ready for your life together to die, your marriage in crisis may need to get C.P.R.

Get Counseling: If you are serious about saving your marriage in crisis, then you may want to think about going to a marriage counselor. This tool is not utilized by many people. If you are seeking a resolution to your problems and want to find little ways to help the two of you grow closer then you should definitely think about marriage counseling. You will be able to understand your partner better and find ways to show your affection towards your spouse.

When utilizing marriage counseling, you will find better ways of self-expression without coming across in a manner that will be perceived as an attack.

Did it ever occur to you that one of you is dealing with some serious issues that is putting your marriage at risk? If you happen to be one of those people, then it may be best to get therapy on your own. This may be a hard pill to swallow because your pride tends to rear its ugly head and get in the way. However, if you are serious about saving your marriage that is in crisis, you will want and need to seek out a good marriage counselor.

Get Perspective: For a marriage in crisis, one of the most important thing that needs to be done is to get some perspective on what is happening. This is one area that a marriage counselor will be helpful because it will help you to look at things and situations from other perspective.

From where you are standing things may look pretty clear. However, once you are able to see from another angle, things that you couldn't understand before may make a lot of sense. Getting perspectives from other angles and vantage points will really be helpful in helping you fully understand what is happening so that you can then save the marriage in crisis.

Resolution: Now that you have been able to get a better handle on the crisis you are now faced with and you are able to get some good marriage counseling, you will have a great deal of knowledgeable ideas and information to make use of. All of these things will help you to repair any damage that has been done to your marriage IF you are willing and able to act on it. Knowing is half the battle. However, no battle that was half fought was ever won. By applying this saying to your marriage in crisis, you will surely come out as a winner.

If you happen to see someone who is drowning and you know how to swim, perform CPR and have been trained in first aid, you possess all of the tools necessary in order to save a life. Knowledge by itself will not save that person. However, by acting upon the knowledge that you possess, that persons odds of surviving is quite high.

The same thing is true with your marriage. It not only takes you acting upon it and getting issues resolved that were killing your marriage. You can only save a marriage in crisis by acting in order to make things better.

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A Cartoonists New Philosophy Of Cartooning

By Rick London

I started my odyssey into learning cartoons in the late '90's. I hadn't a clue what was to come. Before I embarked upon this mysterious venture, I decided it would be to my advantage to talk to America's most visible cartoonists. I was surprised how many of them were open and available to speak with me were. Fortunately, I was both too young and naive to know NOT to bother the masters. I was able to track down "Peanuts" creator Charles Schulz through his art dealer, Marc Cohen. When Schulz picked up his phone, I started asking the five journalistic Ws (Who, what, when, why, and where). His (and others) advice turned out to be exactly what I needed to know. My "cartoon philosophy" had begun. It has since evolved, but I can look back and easily see Schulz knew "what was to come" in the world of cartooning. He knew the Internet was the key as was/is merchandising.

Why did Schulz become a cartoonist? Like me, hed tried just about everything else and didnt do it very well. I asked him if there was any money to be made in such a venture. I could almost see his smile on the other side of the line. He assured me there was plenty, but not to expect it in newspapers. He told me that even if you do get syndicated, the money is still just pennies per newspaper and that the smart way to approach it, that is, to look at it as a career, is licensed merchandise, such as tees, caps, mugs, etc. He told me he made millions more in licensing than in publishing.

I told him I did not draw very well (which is true) and, that I wanted to try something very new and different. It was to be a color cartoon in which the artwork, for the most part was more fine art than cartoon art, and that I wanted a different look and feel to each cartoon, but a theme, focused on wordplay and picture-play in which, at times, the viewer might have to take a second or two to get it.

Schulz assured me that nearly 20% of all cartoons we see in the newspapers are team efforts that is, an artist and writer, and that if I did not feel my own artwork was up to snuff, to recruit an artist to draw my concepts. He also encouraged me to read as much as I could about Walt Disney because what I was about to attempt was actually a Disney model without animation; he actually called it Disney meets Gary Larson, which was a bit flattering to say the least.

I also spoke with several other cartoonists, most of whom created in the same genre as Gary Larsons Far Side, such as Leigh Rubin (Rubes), Dave Coverly (Speed Bump), and Jon McPherson (Close To Home). I was amazed, again, at how open and available they made themselves. In fact Leigh and I became good friends and talked regularly on the phone. He was already one of the worlds leading cartoonists, and I was just starting. That didnt matter to him. I will never forget that kind of generosity and his willingness to lead me in a direction that made it work for me. And of course the same is true for Charles Sparky Schulz (Sparky by the way was what he liked to be called. That was the name of his favorite dog, a Schnauzer; and I knew I liked him right away. I have a tendency to hang with fellow animal lovers, and Schulz also had an uncanny biting wit, often held back in Peanuts, even though it was always funny, was meant for family audiences, his target. In real life, he displayed a sense humor that reminded me a great deal of some of my British favorites such as John Cleese of Monty Python.

There seemed to be a common thread regarding the philosophy of cartooning, amongst all of the masters. That is, Sure, you must make a living in this world, but keep the day job. Cartooning is a labor of love, and, only 1% or so actually end up doing it for a living. One must approach it with a very open mind and a love for making people laugh, and to be flexible, as the Internet at the time, was changing the whole nature of the cartoon business.

Pragmatic advice is hard to find. How did "Sparky" know the Internet was changing? How did he know it would change how we perceived cartooning? I knew about "vision" and that some people "saw" things others could not, but could he be this brilliant? He was. Licensed merchandise became even more of the key to making it work than Sparky Schulz had felt; and he had seen it coming. Today, though my cartoons appear in publications worldwide; mostly trade magazines, college textbooks and on websites, the majority of my take is from the sales of funny gifts and collectibles. When I look back over the past twelve years it has all becomes a blur. I have had the opportunity to work with some of the world's top illustrators of cartoons. I wrote/they rendered.

By a luck of the draw (no pun intended), I have been one of the few (of which Schulz and the others had told me) who has been able to "make it" in the world of humor and cartoons. I know though, that even if I had not been one of the lucky ones, I would still be doing "something creative" as that temptation never is diffused. It becomes as if to be an appendage, and, it gives one the thought, that, even if not so, if one person laughed, the purveyor of the humor left the world a bit nicer and more peaceful.

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Did He Broke with You? How to Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back

By Ricardo d Argence

If you are dealing with a boyfriend break up, chances are you are emotionally raw. You may have a hard time dealing with constant questions, like "Did your boyfriend break up with you?" and other nosy inquiries. What you really need is to understand the cause of the break up.

First and foremost, while you may want to do a bit of soul searching to assess where you are, avoid playing the self-blame game about your boyfriend break up. The truth is that your ex has his own issues to deal with. Remember the phrase "it's not you, it's me" when it comes to the reasons why your relationship ended.

If you really want to, you can spend time and energy to try to get your ex back. But, there are some important things you should know before setting out on this path:

Avoid trying to stay in constant contact with your ex after a boyfriend break up. After all, he's broken up with you, so he needs some breathing room. Don't text or call him multiple times every day.

Flirting with other guys when he's around is okay. In fact, it might encourage him to want you back!

If you do end up on a "trial" date to see if you can get back together, do be friendly and accommodating, but don't lay on too much pressure.

But, if you have a feeling in your gut that the relationship is over when your boyfriend break up with you, then you need to start moving on.

One cathartic thing that can help you after a boyfriend break up is to take the time to pen a long letter that spells out your feelings. You can remember all of the good and bad times you shared. Vent your anger, and call him all the names you want. But, instead of sending the letter to him, burn it. This is a great way to get some much needed closure after a boyfriend break up.

Next, you'll want to trade back your property. That ratty T-shirt of his that you enjoy sleeping in? Give it back. Retrieve the econ textbook he borrowed. If there are items that are too small to exchange, like toothbrushes and other personal hygiene items, just get rid of them. If you have gifts from him, avoid the temptation to throw them away and just store them for now. You want to eliminate anything around you that might remind you of him. Also, make sure to sort out any money issues if one of you owes the other, and separate any joint checking or credit accounts.

After you have completed the property exchange, agree that you won't have any communication for 30 days. This may be hard if you are used to seeing each other on a daily basis, but after a boyfriend break up it is necessary to give yourself some space and distance.

A boyfriend break up is perhaps one of the most painful things you can go through, but it isn't the end of the world. In fact, you might think of it as a new beginning and realize that you are now free to meet the one who will truly be your soul mate.

Of course, you shouldn't jump to the conclusion that just because you've gone through a boyfriend break up that all of the doors are firmly shut. If you think you have a shot of winning him back and that's something you want, you should by all means take the opportunity to do so.

True love can even survive a boyfriend break up.

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What Do I Have to Do To Get My Ex Boyfriend Back?

By Ricardo d Argence

Understanding the steps to take to get your ex boyfriend back can sometimes be a hit and miss affair and it's no surprise because we are usually not taught this stuff. We usually have to figure it all out as we go along or we try to have our friends help us out.

There is something wrong with relying on our family and friends though. They're no better equipped to help us than we are to help ourselves. What is needed is a no miss plan and the initiative to take action on the plan.

The first step you should take is to put some distance between you and your ex. This simple action will preserve your sanity as well as make a clear statement to your ex boyfriend. This is an important step and will put an end to fixating on your ex boyfriend. You will be able to concentrate for a change on your requirements and need to get you through this very stressful time.

Make a serious attempt to reconnect with your family and friends and accept any help that will undoubtedly come from those who love and care about you. If you're serious about figuring out how to get your ex boyfriend back it would be a huge mistake on your part to isolate yourself.

With people around you it means you're not sitting at home crying and obsessing about the breakup of your relationship or your ex boyfriend.

Since your now spending time with your friends and family, ask them what they think caused the breakup of your relationship. There is probably no doubt that your boyfriend gave you the reason he was walking out the door, and you probably have your own ideas, but an outside opinion can be helpful now.

Sometimes the perspective of another person is very helpful when trying to make some sense out of the situation. If your really want to understand how to get your ex boyfriend back then ask for the opinion of others.

Your next move is to make sure that given what you've heard back from family and friends regarding their take on the breakup, that you now think for yourself. You either agree or disagree with what's been said and of course you're doubtless going to get different opinions from them all.

Take the time that is needed to weigh what has been said and understand that the final decision is yours. You may have started out trying to figure out how to get your ex boyfriend back, but do you still want him back? Maybe you have heard some real truths and there may be some questions and doubts. Maybe you have come to terms with your breakup and are able to readily accept it now.

No matter where you are in the healing phase, be perfectly clear about what you want before you make another move.

If you're still determined to go ahead and win him back, then your next move is to call him and to do so calmly and without emotion and drama and talk to him about the way you feel.

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How To Improve Someone's Stay At A Hospital.

By Brian G. Hall

An unfortunate truth is that many individuals spend a large amount of time in the hospital. Staying at a hospital can be very depressing for someone. There are many things a person can do to help out a loved one who is admitted to the hospital. Even the smallest of gestures can help lift someones spirits greatly.

One clear way to bring happiness to a hospital patient is to buy them presents. Often times people like to buy boxed candy but that is ill advised. Many patients are on a strict diet and candy can be harmful to certain patients. The best kind of gift you can purchase for a person is a nice bouquet (for women) or a nice house plant (for men). Or you can even make them a gift. A nice hand written card with an encouraging message will always be appreciated by a person who has fallen ill.

Spending time with a patient during visiting hours can also cheer up a person. Your loved one is probably feeling lonely and detached from the world. When you spend some quality time with the patient you are reminding him or her that they are loved and very missed. You can bring some movies on a portable player, video games on hand held players, or even play a board game with them. Ideally you would want to do a group activity, something to keep the patients mind focused on your presence rather than being in a hospital.

To greatly improve someones stay at a hospital you can purchase them a personal gown. What not many people realize is that hospital gowns are made of very strong fabrics and fibers. These fibers are chosen because they can endure the rigorous use the hospital puts them through. The fabrics endure multiple washes without fading or losing any threads. Despite being very durable these standard hospital gowns are very uncomfortable for the patient to wear.

The gowns do succeed at being very durable but at the cost of comfort to the patient. The material is often times very thick and can cause rashes in some patients. Also with hospitals buying standard issue gowns they dont always carry the right size for people, often times supplying the patients with a gown that is either to large or small. Not to mention people with Mysophobia (germaphobes/germaphobia as they are more commonly known) will not like the idea of wearing something that has been used by another person. Regardless of how much it has been washed.

Purchasing a night gown will greatly improve the patients stay at a hospital. You will be able to find a gown that fits your loved one perfectly because youll be able to find gowns that come in a wider variety of sizes. The fabric the gowns are made of are more breathable than the hospital gowns. The softer fabric decreasing the likelihood of skin irritation. Also purchasing multiple gowns will give your loved one the chance to wear more than one, if he or she feels that wearing only one gown is too revealing.

With your love and support the patient will no longer have to suffer through the lonely and depressing feelings they are bound to feel while confined to their hospital bed. Keeping them happy is one of the best ways to make them feel better about their situation.

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Depressions At A Glance

By Anne Durrell

Depression is an illness that affects not only your mood and thoughts but also the entire body. It can affect the way you ponder things, eat as well as sleep and how you view yourself too.

When someone is depressed he or she cannot get away with it even with a strong will. However most depressions can be treated even it has been plaguing for years.

Symptoms vary intensely from person to person, depending on the type of depression it is and what occasioned it as well as how long it has been allowed to progress. A person with depression may have troubles concerning decision-making and concentration.

Many depressed people usually have problems with short term memory. Mostly always think negative. Some may be said to suffer from poor self esteem and pessimism. People with a very serious depressions may even have self destructive thoughts.

They may feel very tired and very irritable. Many people who are depressed often feel helpless and hopeless, and they suffer greatly from any work productivity, in other words they often feel uncomfortable with daily activities.

They do not eat properly, either overeat or do not eat enough, as well as suffering through sleeping problems, where they either sleep erratically or not at all, and some oversleep. Others suffer a plethora of aches and pains, while some are simply increasingly restless.

The very best advice is if you feel as if you may be depressed, then at least go to a psychiatrist once.

In order to receive the correct diagnosis, be sure and tell the psychiatrist every symptom you may have, and not omit anything out of the ordinary for yourself, even if you feel it may be unimportant.

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Anne Durrell originally comes from Lodi, CA, USA. She has written many articles about Depressions. Other guide you may be interested in reading: child depression tips, and depression treatments guide!

Do You Want Your Husband Back? How to Do it

By Ricardo d Argence

Sometimes marriages crumble rather quickly and other times they can take years to deteriorate. Either way it is never an easy thing to go through. Many women that find themselves in this situation find themselves saying I want my husband back.

If you aren't willing to let your marriage die, if you aren't willing to let it fall apart right before your very eyes, then do something about it. Here are some things that can help you get that love back when "I want my husband back."

1. Realize that it wasn't just you and it wasn't just him. It was the both of you. If you are willing to make changes in the way you approach the marriage, your husband might be willing to. Some of it comes down to the way you look at the situation.

2. Think about what makes you happy as well as what makes your husband happy. Make sure that you are both willing to make sacrifices to make to other happy.

3. Start with where you are in life and see where you are in life. Look at what it is that makes you happy and drives you. Look for the same thing with your husband. Try to find common ground. If there is love there, you will find that common ground.

4. It is important that you and your husband do something together that makes you both happy. Think about the things that you used to love to do together. Take a walk, go to the beach, have a nice dinner or go for a hike. Find something that you can do alone together to work on building your relationship. A little romance never hurt anyone, but it is important that you dont go over the top.

5. It is important that you let your husband know just how much he means to you. You should do this but recognizing the things that he has said that he needs from you. You need to take the appropriate steps to prove to him that he is worth saving your marriage for. While you shouldnt expect him to do the same, you will find that he is likely to start giving a little in your direction as well. Your reason for changing needs to be because you love your husband and you want to fix your marriage. This is where being selfish is not an option.

You have to know that it may not be possible to get back the relationship to the level it was when it was at it's peak. Just because "I want my husband back" doesn't mean that it is the best thing to get it back to the way that it was.

It is important to remember that just because your relationship is at a low point; it wont always be that way. Many times it hitting all time lows in a relationship can help to build a healthier stronger relationship in the future. It takes a lot of hard work and dedication, but getting your husband back will be worth it in the end.

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Things to Have in Mind if You Want to Recover a Lost Love

By Ricardo d Argence

If you want to win back lost love that is from a long time ago there may be an uphill battle ahead for you. If you are like many, you have reached a point in your life that you realize that things might have been better for you if you had taken that other path.

Maybe you thought the grass was greener. Maybe there was a litany of things you did wrong, or they did wrong, that drove you apart. Maybe you just miss a time you've idealized in your memory, putting gold pixie dust on cherished memories. If you want to move past the pixie dust and self delusion, follow these tips.

First, make sure that there is nothing in your life right now that may missing out on. The mistake you may have made in the past was that you didnt take advantage of the opportunities that you had at that moment. Make sure that you dont make the same mistake again by missing out on something potentially good.

A life built on regretful reflection isn't the one you want to lead. Look for love now, in your current relationship rather than spend the rest of your life going What if... Also, think about your current partner " jilting him or her so you can go chase an old flame is going to do bad things to their self esteem. Does going after an old flame make you look selfish? Chances are, it does.

It's also worthwhile to ask if they've moved on. Quite honestly, time wounds all heels, and heals all wounds. Just because you're not happy with your present partner and are longing for what you gave up doesn't mean they're feeling the same way about you. Trying to re-open a dormant relationship could hurt both of you.

Ask yourself if they're happy and content. If they are, leave well enough alone. All you'll do by dredging up might have beens is make both of you miserable. That may seem cool in movies, but it sucks in real life.

Everyone changes over time. You changed. They've changed. Events may well have made you entirely different people. The circumstances that your old relationship had don't exist any more. If you're going to make the second go around, focus not on the past, but on the future you want to build together.

Nothing reeks more of desperation than suddenly appearing in someone else's life. Start out slowly, read the signs carefully, and move cautiously. Even if you are obsessed and desperate, that's only appealing in stupid movies. In real life, it's creepy.

Build up to it slowly. Don't tell them how much you love them and can't live without them. (If you can't live without me, why aren't you dead yet? is a good phrase to remember.) Take the time to know them, befriend them, and let them know you, and how you've changed for the better.

As with any relationship, look forward. Forgive the past, learn from the past, and let it lie on its own. What matters is proving that the future you can have together is worth pursuing.

You need to make the most of the chances you're given, and you need to focus on what you (and they) stand to gain from linking up again. Take advantage of today, so that tomorrow is not full of regrets for choices left unmade. If you're going to have a chance at making this love work again, you need to live in the moment, not the past.

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So there you have it. Some useful steps to get your ex back. Recover the magic of that moments with the one you love.