Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Sunday, April 7, 2013

Trichotillomania Treatment in Adults

By David B. Nelson


Treating trichotillomania can basically be done from two major angles; through medication, and through behavioral training. Reports of using medication, as a stand alone form of treating trichotillomania, show a very low success rate. Antidepressants with serotonergic properties, such as those used for people with obsessive compulsive disorders, are among those most typically used for treating trichotillomania, Clomipramine (also known as Anafranil) being the most effective in these cases.[]

This person must be evaluated by a medical professional. A full physical and diagnostic testing of hormones and neurotransmitters must occur. This patient must be evaluated for AIDS and a brain tumor. There are several diseases that are severe enough to result in very irregular symptoms. It is extremely important to be very aggressive in treating this disease. Amino acids therapy for this may be useful and could include 5-HTP, theanine, GABA, and phenylalanine. Chinese herbal patent formulas may be considered along with Chinese liquid herbal extracts. Scalp acupuncture may be very successful in treating this type of illness. It should be done with larger needles for this type of disease. Scalp acupuncture treatments last about thirty minutes to one hour. It may take nine treatments in order to see results. Laser therapy using a cold medical grade laser may work well on this patient. You may need several sessions of cold medical grade laser therapy before you see a significant change.

It is important for this person to sleep well and eat a well balanced diet without nitrates, amines, and food dyes. This person should avoid genetically modified foods, food additives, MSG, tumeric, and drink plenty of pure water to stay fully hydrated. The diet should allow Swiss method decaffeinated coffee or organic coffee and tea. This person should consider trying the Rotation Diet where each food may be eaten once during a four-day period. It is also a good idea to identify and reduce exposure to all allergens. You may want to consider some form of allergy treatment. Convention allergy treatments with shots is one alternative. NAET is a non-painful alternative that incorporates chiropractic and acupuncture with a special diet to treat allergens. This person needs consider a form of regular exercise like the walking, gym, biking, Bikram yoga, hiking, and dancing.

The first and the foremost way to cure trichotillomania is to know almost everything about it. Hair pulling disorder is basically a mental disorder or variance that leads to several horrid consequences like pathological nail biting, gambling, picking ones own skin, setting up fires, stealing and aggressive behavior and pulling own hair. However, several people have different takes on pulling hair disorder. Some experts believe that it is an anxiety disorder, a tic or addiction whereas others believe that it is an Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD). It is interesting to know that the term disorder was given to trichotillomania only 20 years ago.

The foremost danger for these patients is the addiction of pulling own hair in such an extent that it becomes chronic leading to bald spots. Scientists claim that in almost 10% cases, the patients indulge in pulling own hair and eating it. This pathological disorder is called Trichophagia and it eventually causes bezoar or hairball after the ingestion. Individuals suffering from it make use of several pullers like their own fingers, pins, tweezers and much more for pulling own hair. Hence, to cure hair pulling disorder, heavy medical intervention is necessary to avoid several appalling consequences. Several people believe that pulling own hair is done consciously by the patients. However, doctors believe that most of these urges are fulfilled unconsciously.

The onset of the symptoms is between the range of ages from nine to fourteen. Reports claim that more than 75-95% patients suffering from hair pulling disorder are females. The primary symptoms might lead to several other secondary symptoms like depression or panic attacks. The main root cause of pulling hair disorder is still unclear. However, many people believe that it is a genetic disorder. There are several other people who believe that trichotillomania is a learned behavior thereby refuting its genetic basis.

While SSRIs (Selective Serotonin Reuptake Inhibitors) provide generally mixed results on their own, researchers usually recommend using these in conjunction with neuroleptic drugs (antipsychotics) in very low doses as a medical means of trichotillomania therapy. Due to the low success rates of medications as a stand alone form of therapy, these are usually combined with behavioral therapy. Psychoanalysis tends to focus on childhood experiences and unresolved conflicts or issues during early developmental stages of the person's life.

They are as such:Determination of the root cause: This involves a quick study for the care takers. They should observe the components that trigger the trichotillomania symptoms like pulling own hair and eating it. The triggers can be stress, boredom, unhealthy diet, trauma encountered in childhood and many more. Once these triggers are controlled you can cure trichotillomania.Adaptation to stress and its triggers: Many doctors believe that the simplest way to cure trichotillomania is to carefully handle your stress within your tolerance limits.Medications like Prozac, Luvox, Anafranil and so on so forth can cure trichotillomania.Behavioral therapy: This involves meditations and substitution behavior therapy. There therapies reduce the stress levels and urges significantly and thereby helps you to cure trichotillomania.Acceptance: The acceptance of the disorder would miraculously lower your stress and thereby helps you to cure trichotillomania.




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Save My House Tips - You Must Act Now Before Congress Changes The Rules

By Gerda J. Worth


There are a lot of people whose only thought is "How can I save my house"? They bought a little more than they could afford hoping they would be able to grow into the payments. The banks facilitated this idea with adjustable rate mortgages. For a lot of young couples this was a way to enjoy their future dreams today. Who could have predicted a worldwide recession?Now many people are looking for loan modifications. They thought they would be safe when they took out the loan because if they ever got in trouble, they could always sell their home to avoid foreclosure. Along with a global recession, home values fell as much as 50% in some markets.

Actually the huge number of homes that have gone to foreclosure has helped people in this situation. Banks can't handle all the foreclosures and for the first time in history, are modifying home loans. This would have never happened in a normal market. The problem was so widespread that the government has allotted funds to help banks absorb the loss they incur when modifying a mortgage.

Then catch your breath. And with the immediate crisis at bay for at least a little while you can start asking the bigger questions, like: Do I want to keep my house" Do I want to hire an attorney? Which one: a bankruptcy attorney, or an attorney who specializes in loan modifications? These are all big questions that deserve careful thought.

This is a brief overview of how Chapter 13 bankruptcy may affect foreclosure proceedings. Every case is different, and certain factors may affect a debtor's ability to save his or her home. That is why you may find it helpful to consult with a professional. A lawyer who is experienced in handling Chapter 13 bankruptcy proceedings can offer insight as to how your home may be affected if you file. You can also get information about the particular advantages and disadvantages of Chapter 13, such as its ability to protect co-signers or its affects on your credit score. These are all issues that you may want to take into account before making a decision.

But how do I make sure I get this filed right so it stops the sale? You sure don't want to get this wrong, because if you screw up, they could take your house. How about those on-line filing services? You simply don't have time to determine if they will do it right. And what if they don't file on time? There is no substitute for walking into the bankruptcy court with documents that you know are correctly filled out, and handing them to the clerk yourself. You get a time stamped receipt and know you got the job done.

If foreclosure has already begun --meaning a sale date has been made-- you still have time to save your home. The first thing you need to do is contact your lender and find out what arrangements can still be made. Tell them your situation and how much you can afford. Remember that banks don't want to foreclose, they would rather make a deal with you to help you pay your mortgage. In some states you have until the home is sold to reclaim it, and in many states you have a redemption period even after, although once you reach the redemption period you will have all outstanding mortgage balances and attorney fees to pay.

By the way, by researching and comparing the best stop foreclosures services in the market, you will be able to determine the one that meet your specific financial situation, plus the cheaper and quicker options. However, it is advisable going with a trusted and reputable stop foreclosure specialist before making any decision, this way you will save time through specialized advise coming from a seasoned foreclosing advisor and money by getting better results in a shorter span of time. Meaning getting your house out of risk as soon as possible.Maybe you are one of the many many beleaguered homeowners in America, who, through no fault of their own, have fallen victim to the current economic situation and have run into financial difficulties.Maybe this has caused you to fall behind with your mortgage payments. Maybe you've received notice of foreclosure from your bank. Maybe you've received notice of foreclosure pending, or imminent foreclosure.

Here's the thing: none of those means you are in foreclosure.If you get a letter from your bank telling you you are in foreclosure, you are not in foreclosure.Even if you are six months behind with the mortgage and you've received four letters from the bank saying you are in foreclosure, you are not in foreclosure.This is important, so I'll repeat it. You are not in foreclosure because your bank says you are.Only one of two things can notify you officially of foreclosure.A Notice of Trustee Sale.A Notice of Sheriff's Sale.Once you receive either of those, you are officially in foreclosure. Your house will be auctioned, usually in about 90 days' time, depending on which state you live in.

This policy can be purchased from a high Street broker or is often now offered with your mortgage; but a cheaper method is to look for a standalone provider on the internet.However as with all insurance policies there is small print that you must be very aware of to ensure that this is the right policy for you. The first and most important is the "exclusion period". This is defined as from the start date of your policy and during this period you must not be made aware of impending unemployment. Providers vary with the length of this and as unemployment claims have soared so to have the Income protection exclusion periods. It is worth shopping around but the average is about 120 days.

Loan modification is often times an alternative to foreclosure and the recommended first step to short sale. Loan modification is the process of revisiting the original lender, explaining your current financial situation and simply asking for help. There are different options that the lender may suggest. One such option may be interest only payments for a period of time on the current loan where the principle is collected on the back end of the loan. Interest only modification is popular and cuts down the immediate monthly payment. A loan modification is intended to last a set amount of time and designed to change the monthly payment into an affordable rate.A trusted realtor that is experienced as a professional, certified negotiator and understands your situation can sometimes negotiate with your lending institution on your behalf. This agent should understand the entire short sale and loan modification process. Time is of the essence in these sensitive matters. You will literally be one step ahead of foreclosure. Be patient and let your real estate agent work for you.




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