Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Friday, December 31, 2010

Saving Your Relationship With Your Guy

By Alison Sealy


If you look back at the last conversation that you had with your boyfriend you could be getting a little bit confused because maybe it was an argument or maybe he acted like he doesn't have feelings for you anymore.

Well, he just probably acted that way from instinct but he really still likes you and deep don he still have feelings for you. The relationship could have a second chance if you know how to have a good getting back together conversation.

This depends on him mostly, but with the right words you can revive your relationship. Here are some tips hat can be useful.

In this conversation, try to avoid talking about why he should give you a second chance. If you want to have the expected results you need to focus this conversation on his wishes.

This conversation shouldn't take place right after you broke up. Spend some time and think about what he really wants and needs from a perfect relationship.

The main character in this conversation should definitely be him. The good moments of the relationship should be another point in this conversation. Don't bring up all the bad moments and feeling because it will definitely ruin your chances of getting back together. Mention the fact that your relationship was very good and fill him up with all the good moments.

Men don' want to look cheesy and he might not be impressed at first but if you mention how well you know him you might get to his feelings. You can also say that you feel like you are soul mates and this can surly guarantee success.

This is only the first move that you need to make but probably the hardest one. Having this conversation will allow you to make further moves. Following these tips you have all the chances of getting your relationship back.




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What Exactly Is Premonition?

By Katherine Allen


A bad future event which is about to take place is associated with premonition. Premonition refers to a state when one is able to predict future events which may not be necessarily pleasant.

Generally this kind of sensation occurs before accidents, deaths, disasters or other events which are emotionally charged. An event which is about to take place in the future and is an indication of something bad that is about to take place, something unpleasant is referred to as premonition.

Premonition sensation and precognition are known to be closely associated. There is hardly any clear-cut separation between them. However these two are different from each other. Some of the sensations linked with premonitions are connected with certain circumstances like gloominess, pain, physical restlessness where no possible justifications can be given. There can be no explanation of the feelings given with these conditions but yes we are sure that these feelings do occur. Precognition alternatively has more precision. Precognition is concerned with hallucination about an event or dreams whose probable future likelihood is there.

When premonitions occur in a state of our full awakeness, they are more predominant rather than those which take place in our dreams. This is so because in the dreams these are often disguised as symbols which often do not get noticed. On the other hand if these symbols often recur in dreams, one learns to be familiar with emotional tones or unique symbols.

Sometimes one gets early intuitive warnings by premonitions yet the registration of these in the conscious mind does not take place since they are very faint. However, the subconscious mind registers the intuitive warnings apparently. In a nutshell premonition is also defined as anticipation of an event with no any obvious motive.

Some individuals who get premonitions have a guilt factor associated with these and are sometimes too scared to talk about it. However if a premonition occurs then it should be discussed in the open in order to avoid any kind of adverse impact of that premonition. It's a gifted ability that one possesses.

Incase you happen to be the one in possession of this ability or know someone who is blessed with this condition, you may always suggest that person or for that matter you must speak about it openly with no glitches whatsoever. Imagine you have the power to stop an adversity to take place. So why not make use of this affectively instead of associating it with a negative feeling of guilt.

Viewing this condition as boon and bane is done by the two differing schools of thought on premonitions. The first school of thought views this as a boon and has a belief that the blessed person has the ability to avert an adverse situation and surroundings from a disastrous event or at the most the impact that could take place with this. The second school of thought viewing this as bane views this ability as an unpleasant thing to happen.




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