Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Saturday, November 13, 2010

Beware Of Early Downhill Signs To Avoid Split Up In A Relationship

By Gerald Smith

Often people who have dated and been in a relationship for a tidy period of time will drop their guard and not realize when the relationship is showing cracks. It is only until one morning when you wake up alone one on your bedside and a note on the pillow.

A sure sign is regarding the frequency or manner in which she says I love you. Does she leave you hanging when you tell her you love her. If this is true, you should urgently start to work towards setting the record straight once again.

Try to trace back to the time when things started going wayward for both of you. See if you have any idea of when the senses died off.

Thinking too much about the problem could lead you to desperate situations half the time. You should relax and probably learn that you were just assuming that she does not care.

There are times when people are simply to tied up with career issues until the relationship takes a few hits. You should pay attention to the changes that she may be going through at the work place and that way get the spark back. Sudden shocks in the life of a partner are the ones that lead to separation.

If there is one thing that can get you on the right track to recovery and get your girlfriend's approval, once again after cheating is to show that you are remorseful and that you want to make amends. Admit that it has been a goof, talk about it over a cup of coffee and turn away that anger welling inside her.

There are some times when the withdrawals are normally in response to your continued engrossment in your own career such that you ignore her. You should make her feel treasured once more by paying attention to her dreams too.

Come up with a few unexpected treats for her. Be spontaneous and have a break from the ordinary. This should serve as the right forum to bond with her and establish the missing connections. Show that you are on a mission to get her back.

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