Use Your Head Instead of Your Heart to Get Your Ex Back

By Ricardo d Argence

If you're serious about finding a way to win back love, then it means you're going to have to start using your head and stop following your heart! It really is that simple.

So let's look at this! Your heart is no doubt telling you to drop everything, chase down your ex and make them listen to what you have to say, whether they want to or not.

Your heart feels like all that needs to happen is for your ex to listen and understand how you feel and that your ex will just forget everything that may be wrong with the relationship and then just simply re-start the relationship. However, this is not the case.

To win back love your head would never tell you to do any of that, instead your head would say back off, get a grip and take your time. Guess which one you should be listening to! Yep, your head!

Leave your ex to himself or herself at this time, do not call, do not plan any accidental meetings when you know your ex will be some place particular and do not write love letters to them. Do not try to contact them in any way.

By contacting them, you're making yourself appear desperate, a pain in the butt and someone that no right minded person would even want to be around never mind consider dating again.

When it comes to your ex, you want to increase your value like that rare diamond that is worth more than any other jewel. Give your ex time to wonder where you may be, what you are doing and why you have not tried to contact them. Give this time and before you realize it, your ex will want to contact you.

If you're stuck with a problem and the first person you would usually call is your ex, then you're going to have to figure out how to solve that problem yourself. Not only does this enhance your standing with your ex, because they realize that you can cope on your own, but it also enhances your own standing in your own head.

If you figure out how to cook that favorite meal that your ex used to cook for you � you realize you can cope! If you figure out how to change the oil in your car � again you realize that you can cope!

You can win back love using calmness and good judgment. After doing so, your ex will feel more at ease about contacting you himself or herself. Allowing your passions to run rampant will only lead you to your own disadvantages of getting your ex back.

Tell your heart to hush up and listen to your head, if you want to win back your ex and resume your relationship.

About the Author:

The techniques, principles and advice yourself will get in The Magic Of Making Up have helped hundreds of men and women just like yourself win back the mind, heart and soul of the ones they love.

Comforting Poem On Life After Death By 'Afterlife Phil G'

By Afterlife Phil G

Visitors to the website created by Afterlife Phil G have found much peace in his words of comfort poem. Opening with the beautiful lines: "I have not gone. My body is beyond your reach, but my soul is touching yours."

If you know of someone who is grieving the loss of a loved one, like so many others you may like to print a copy of the full poem from Afterlife Phil G's website on life after death.

"I was recently asked by Joe, in Australia, how to help a friend accept the loss of his wife. He asks: "Everything has been kept the same as if she was still living in the house. Is this wrong?"

"It depends on the age of the person involved. If we are talking about a younger person, who still has their life ahead of them, there is a point where they should move on, let go, but they don't have to live life without being able to contact them. Accepting of the situation, yes, but still being able to retain contact.

For parents who have suffered the loss of a child, or for older people who have lost their partner, it can be of enormous comfort to leave a room untouched, and be able to walk into it and feel as if they are still in the room. This is not just a wish but a reality, and if you follow my advice, you will be able to feel them in the room and verify it.

My 'CoffeeTime' video combined with my poem and thoughts about contacting the afterlife have worked well for many, to sit in a room untouched, or holding an object or photo, and feeling the presence of the one they miss. My website on life after death shares my poem, video and more to help you.

The poem came to me in a light dream a few years ago. Visitors to my site will know that I accidentally found a way for ordinary people to contact family in the afterlife and verify it, and not long after writing my book, I felt a strong need to have something I could share for free, to help a large number of people gain comfort from my simple technique on contacting the afterlife. The result is a poem which came to me one night, which I remembered vividly in the morning, made even more strange by phrasing I would not normally use. It truly is a gift I am pleased to share.

If you miss someone, I hope you will find comfort by visiting either of my websites philg.net.au or afterlifephilg.com and looking at my poem, video or other information. Don't Grieve - theyre still with you. Phil G

About the Author:

Afterlife Phil G helps you contact loved ones in the Afterlife, and verify it. For Life After Death information visit Phil G'scontacting the Afterlife web site.