Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Thursday, February 9, 2012

Mental Abuse In Relationships: The Facts

By Christina Koehler


Relationships seem like a walk within the park while they're smooth and nice with a loving contact to it, making a complete number of an aroma. But what if it is going all wrong, and what if the partner adjustments to a totally other particular person to what you've got expected and skilled so far? It becomes a complete disaster if the turning element has also been passed. Well, this is the reason it's so important to identify mentally abusive relationships once you can.

Mentally abusive relationships are most commonly regarded as to be a downfall for anyone's non-public life in addition to the profession. It may just make issues glance horrible and every step you place forward will move haywire.

Mentally abusive relationships could be formed by both party. Mostly it's noted that men are more abusive against women. Trying to make the girl feel bad approximately her and all the time placing her down will result in a major mental disorder on the girl and she's going to enhance a terror towards the man. Thus the benefits are taken by means of the person to control the woman. This form of a situation could be very much visual in relationships even if both of them have were given in to it happily. Womans shyness and her humiliation in opposition to her family and friends to tell the real scenario will steer clear of her from breaking apart with the relationships. In some circumstances the person will even try to forcefully keep the woman in the relationship with warnings. This is a particularly disgraceful scenario in mentally abusive relationships.

Many of these relationships then again wont final for long. But it's sure to provide you with some scars which can be laborious to erase while you breakup with it. Many bad feelings will get constructed inside you once you find yourself with mentally abusive relationships.

Sometimes other people to find relationships going within the improper path after sometime. Some aggressive personalities will are seeking weaker other people to dominate. Once they find that person, by means of nature they turn out to be abusive and will make a hell to their partner. This is the place you must absolutely be aware not to get caught easily and be a very simple prey to any person with an intention of dumping you off after they get what they want. Realistically talking many mentally abusing relationships will happen once one celebration builds the need to get separated. Their natural tendencies would be to be aggressive and be abusive to the other.

Educate your self and take some time to avoid stepping into to mentally abusive relationships. After all it might decide what your existence goes to be in future.




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