Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Saturday, January 28, 2012

How To Reduce The Risk When Ear Candling

By Justine Mejia




Whether you agree or don't agree about the real virtue of Ear Candles for ear candling if you are going to step out of your familiar area then there's the correct way and wrong way to use ear candles and it's quite likely that just about all the negative feedback on ear candling comes from employing the wrong secrets when experiencing ear candling. As with several therapies, especially for non-professional users curious of a new treatment, it's critical to follow the user guide lines that come with your product. Blindly undertaking a new treatment without doing your homework isn't truly advised or makes sense.

The most crucial aspect of using any ear candles is that you don't try to do it by yourself. After all you will be lying down, your vision is away from the candle and the deeper relaxed you are the increase in the risk as the candle burns. Consequently you should always only attempt ear candling with a partner, someone who can be present at all times and literally hold the candle for the whole time it burns. We're dealing with fire of course and the same way that you wouldn't leave your child near a camp fire, you wouldn't want to leave your partner with an ear candle burning as they fall into a deeper state of relaxation with fire quickly approaching their head area!

If you imagine laying down flat with your head on a little pillow, not that much of an angle, then you must always have the ear candle at a ninety degree upright vertical angle to the ear. Read that again. At an upright vertical angle to the ear so the candle isn't leaning in any fashion. If you've ever lent a standard candle in the home, as it burns at an angle, you will know that inside a flash wax can drip off the side. The same thing applies with ear candles, you mostly require the candle in a straight upright position to cut back the chance at all of wax dripping. This is the reason why it is critical that your partner always holds the candle upright for the entire time, roughly eight minutes or so.

When we lay down and can't see behind and above our ear our sense of 'angle ' is fully lost so don't take chances and stick to this rule. However there also are some valuable tips for when using ear candles as you want to enjoy the experience as much as practical and reduce the chance of injury naturally. Some candles that are accessible take the extra responsible step of supplying in their packet what they call a 'protective disk'. What would this be you might ask? Well this disk is deigned to be used in collaboration with the candle kind of like fitting your hand in a glove .. You insert the ear candle into a round disk up to a designated stop mark.

Whilst it is extremely unlikely the disk is designed as an extra precautionary measure to prevent dripping down the side of the candle and venturing towards the ear or head area. A novel design which really gives you extra peace of mind. try hunting down these brands as they have taken the responsible approach to ensure your safety. Can you see where we're heading here .. a partner to hold the candle upright ..an extra protective disk. Days gone by individuals would mock up there own paper plate for the same purpose. There is no need now provided you stick to a brand that supplies these disks.

Ultimately and some might regard this as acute, it is always recommended to fully cover the head, ear area and the face with a pleasant warm damp flannel for total protection. The warmth of the flannel really brings about another level of deep relaxation. So take on board these reasonable pointers to guarantee additional safety for you and also your partner, especially if it's your first time. Some people even add in the bonus light head massage for their partner as they completely relax. You may disagree as to who tries it our first .. As usually the second partner will wish to just drift away and go to sleep .. It actually can have that effect.




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