Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Wednesday, April 10, 2013

How to Stop Stammering Forever

By David A. Gonzalez


If you want to know how to stop stammering, without having to go and see a speech therapist, then this article is a must read. As you are probably aware, stammering affects a person's speech, and causes the sufferers to often repeat certain words or letters over and over again. If this sounds like you, then I'm sure you want to know exactly how you can speak fluently again, right? Well, I want to show you exactly how to stop stammering right here. The unfortunate fact is that at the moment there is no cure for stammering. Well, I'm not surprised, because stammering, otherwise known as stuttering, is not even a physical condition. It is often to do with bad speaking habits, which you need to stamp out in order to speak fluently.

A lot of sufferers complain that they simply try to get the words out too fast, and therefore cannot get their point across clearly as the stuttering comes in to play. So therefore you need to slow things down! I don't mean talk like a sloth for the rest of your life, but don't rush! Take in deeper breaths and simply talk slower.Here is a fact for you. Stammering is made worse in stressful situations.

The abnormal behaviors that are connected to your stammering takes more effort to change, but it's very effective in self-therapy. These are behaviors that includes prolongations, repetitions and blocks (primary) and also loss of eye contact, jerking with the head, and the use of filler words, such as "ah" and "you know" (secondary). These are behaviors that you need to take control over.

The road to curing your stammer is a hard one, though. You need to be armed with the tried and tested methods if you want to get rid of your stammer completely, and avoid relapse. For some stammerers out there, they may never get rid of their stammer.Often, these people find it so hard to speak to anyone in public, that they go into recluse and simply no longer connect with the outside world.

Although everyone trips over their words from time to time, some people do it on a constant and subconscious level. If you are an adult who has stuttering or stammering problems, then you know how strongly this affects every aspect of your life.When most people feel nervous around meeting someone new, your nerves are taken to a whole new level. This is because you have to worry about whether or not you are going to stutter and how they are going to take it. You are used to people giggling or laughing at you and it really hurts your self-esteem. All you want is for your stuttering to be gone so you can have some confidence in yourself and not stand out any more.

There are some ways to help to stop stuttering in adults and they are easy to do. A great way to overcome your stuttering is to read out loud whenever you can. This will help you to control the pace in which you speak so you can stop your stutter from happening. Another great way to stop stuttering in adults is to take a class such as yoga. Yoga will help you to calm your nerves and also, to control your body and your mind. You will be able to have some control over the way that you speak so your stutter will no longer be an issue. Try these methods to stop your stuttering so you can fit in and feel confident about yourself.

You don't have to struggle through another sentence again. Speaking in front of new people doesn't have to be an issue for you any longer. You can stop your stuttering and stammering and change the way you live your life. If you could discover how to stop stammering instantly and cure your stutter, your life will instantly change for the better. I know exactly how you feel when it comes to wanting to stop stammering for life, because I use to stutter myself.

No, stammering is not a disease, it is a speech problem that very much takes control of how you communicate with others, how others listen to you, and sometimes the way you perform at the job.As a little girl, I use to be embarrassed to talk to people because of my speech problem. Whenever I spoke, people stared at me crazy and laughed at the face expression I made when trying to pronounce certain words.

I hated not knowing how to stop stuttering when I was growing up. It is a very difficult problem to live with. My parents simply said that I would grow out of it, and that it was just a phase. They really didn't understand the wider implications it had on my life! For example, my confidence was pretty low, and I would tend to stay at home as opposed to going out, as I didn't want other people to know how bad my stutter was.I was just about to go off to college, and I still had my stutter. Obviously, I didn't want to be the same person I was in high school and I wanted to learn how to speak fluently and go out and have fun like everyone else. Here are three tips that I found helped me the most.

Kind of confuse? Stuttering never occurs on the words that are said. Stuttering begins when specific words which cause triggering emotional states begin to come up.Did you know that stuttering comes about when not releasing your breath when you speak? When this happens, stuttering becomes part of your conditioning by causing a change in your habitual breathing patterns and this makes talking difficult without the right techniques to correct it. With this little knowledge, you can practice breathing on certain words that triggers your stutter and see how it works for you. Doing this help you stop stammering in under ten minutes! Do you want to be one step away from curing your stutter?




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How and Where to Buy Pepper Spray

By Christopher M. Seymour


With the increasing crime rate across the nation, we need to be more alert and prepared for any instance of crime that may come and threaten us. Pepper spray, also known as OC spray (Oleoresin Capsicum), is just one form of safety measure that can be used to defend ourselves against attackers who intend to hurt or harm you. A small container can easily disperse enough chemical to confuse your attacker by causing temporary blindness for 15-30 minutes, long enough for you to escape. Most of these sprays also contain a UV dye that is not visible to the attacker and takes several days to wear of, this can be of value to the police if the individual is caught. Some also have CS in them, this is similar to riot control gas that police use it causes uncontrolled choking and coughing.

So where do you buy pepper spray and other self-defense products? Most department or outdoors stores usually carry a small selection. They will typically have the small 1/2 oz models, normally in a plastic our leather case and large models that are labeled as bear sprays. If you find it in a discount or club store be sure to check the expiration date, most canister are good for 3 to 4 years if they are close you may not be getting much of a deal. local gun dealers carry a wider selection and may be newer, drawback you are going to pay a premium price to them. You can ask friends and relatives if they have purchased sprays you might be surprised how many other people own them or have looked for sprays also.

Since there are so many sizes and types of pepper spray, you need to think about how and when you might need to use it. There are also pepper gels and pepper foam, having different types of coverages and spray ranges. Sprays range from 10% to 18% strength, and some have identifying dyes and tear gas included in the spray. Also, your state may have restrictions on the type and strength of the pepper spray, so make sure you check. Sizes range from oz. and up. There are sprays that attach to your key chain, some that attach to your car visor, and larger ones to keep in a safe place at home. Whatever size spray you chose, make sure you try a practice spray in a safe place so you're ready if you ever need it.

Many online shops are catering to and offering self-defense sprays. These sites give customer a place to leave feedback about the stores reputation and service as well as prices and promos. Individuals that are interested in buying self-defense sprays or other products, should look a few sites, read there reviews, they should not be all positive, if they are the owner is deleting comments and you may want to just move on. After all no one or business is perfect. There is pretty good competition out there between these sites, so you can get some good deals and there merchandise is normally rather fresh due to boom in internet sales.

Last thought for you there are review websites that can help you find reliable shops to purchase these types of sprays as well as other self-defense products.These reviews often have inquiries like "where do you buy pepper spray?" and other questions commonly asked by interested buyers. By reading the responses of others we can locate information about what self-defense products are bought more and what companies are most reliable. Where ever you decide to go and purchase your spray, please check your local state regulations as to what dealers are allowed to sell these sprays. Also, most states require you to be 18 years of age in order to purchase and carry such products.

A lot of people I have met and talked to say that buying pepper spray is a daunting task. For some reason people think that obtaining such a spray requires you to go out and get some sort of license. They couldn't be farther from the truth. Pepper spray can be bought almost anywhere such as department stores, hardware stores and local gun shops. Believe me when I tell you its not hard to by the hot stuff.

Besides buying pepper spray at a store, you can buy it from several places online. Why go out and waste gas when you can easily get what you want online.Pepper spray's main ingredient is oleoresin capsicum, which is a chemical that is derived from cayenne peppers. The main thing to remember when you buying your spray is to make sure you get the best stuff out there. You want something with the highest amount of active ingredient. Make sure its a hot one so you don't have to worry about your assailant getting back up. That's the ultimate goal here.

When someone is looking for a self defense spray I know they want something that will keep them safe and prevent who knows what. Just buy a spray with a high concentrate and you should be fine. One more thing to consider is your states laws.Most states have no restrictions with concealing and carrying pepper spray. As of this writing there are several states that do not allow pepper spray shipping. They are as follows: out of the U.S.A., to WI, NY, MA or MI. Although they cant be shipped it does not mean that you cant buy them in your state. Check local and federal laws if your not sure. I always tell people to look online first and if they find something that does not mention their state restriction to buy it there. Other than that check local gun/sportsman shops.

Most grown-ups come out in office clothes, toting unwieldy bags and hefty suitcases, hands tied to cell phones and personal effects, none of which makes us ready to come face to face with an attacker. We do not step out of the house anticipating trouble. Most adults have desk jobs and little to no self-defense skills. With the mace pepper spray, literally, attackers do not get to come face to face with us.

One good thing about buying pepper spray is that most of them have several different safety switches and latches which prevent accidental discharge. You don't want pepper spray to go off in your face, trust me, it does not feel good.So when deciding just make sure you use a little common sense. Pick a company that is trust worthy and that has seemingly good products. You want something with a good warranty and you want the best bang for your buck. If you follow what's in this article you should never have a problem. Good Luck!If you want something that will really help you out then check out Buy Pepper Spray, it gives you tons of information about it as well as which ones are better and how to choose the right one for you.




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