Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Thursday, May 31, 2012

For The Best Plan First Consult Funeral Services Guatemala And Then Your family

By Winston Dunbar


Planning your life will remain incomplete if you do not plan your death. Of course, we do not mean that you should plan when or how you are going to die; that will amount to suicide. Nonetheless, you can always plan how much treatment you are going to accept or how your mortal remains are to be disposed. There is nothing unethical about that. Contrarily, if you care about your family, you will at least get a suitable funeral plan.

There are a number of reasons why one may choose to plan something as unconventional as your own funeral. These include not burdening our dependents with the expenses of funeral which could take a tool on their finances after your death. Everyone knows that going through this phase is tough and you are only making it tougher by not making a provision for the funeral. This could help ease the burden on your dependents and it is possible to do so with the help of funeral services Guatemala.

There are professional service providers in Guatemala which can provide you the kind of assistance which is much needed in planning something as solemn as your last rites. They offer counseling to help come to terms with such a decision and provide you with all the support you need to choose your final mode of disposal. It is possible that you may come across information which is hard to come by elsewhere when consulting a service provider.

Therefore we see that buying such plans in advance can always ensure that your family members will not have to run here and there trying to gather enough funds to give you a grand send off. However, finance is not the only reason why people opt for such plans. Through such purchases they can also dictate what kind of funeral service they would like to have. Indeed, if you buy such a plan while you are still living, you will have everything regimented and your family members will not have to keep worrying if the arrangements they have made would have received your approval.

What is more, if you buy the plans from established service provider, they may offer many added services. Some may even have counseling cells to impart legal knowledge to their clients and make them aware of the different religious and social requirements. However, before, you buy any particular plan; you should also consult your family members about it. Know that a properly arranged funeral is important from the point of view of the mourners too. The rites do help them to come out of the grief and start life a fresh. Therefore, whatever policy you buy should meet their approval as well.

One of the most important yet contentious issues that need to be first sorted out is the mode of disposal of the body. Earlier, there was not much choice in this respect. Christians all over the world buried their dead in the burial ground and if they could, they earmarked the place by putting up a gravestone there. However, today cremating the body is also an equally valid alternative and you will be surprised to know that the Churches today are no longer against the practice. Although burial is the accepted practice, Christianity does not actually forbid it.

However, it must be mentioned that at its core; the Roman Catholic Church still prefers burial to cremation. Indeed, according to the Church cremation should be best avoided unless there are grave reasons for that. For example, if there is an epidemic sweeping through the country, cremation can prevent its spread and under such conditions, one can easily cremate their dead. Wars and government laws are other two significant reasons when one can cremate the dead.

However, these are only some preferred circumstances when you can opt for cremation; the Church will not have any objection even if you go for it for personal reasons only. At the end of the day, it is your life and you should be able to decide what kind of rites you should have. However, that does not mean that you have the liberty to ignore your family's wishes. As I have already said, a funeral is as much important to the survivors as to the departed; without an emotionally fulfilling funeral, they may never experience the closure.




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While Choosing Between Burial And Cremation Guatemala Funeral Homes Can Offer The Best Advice

By Winston Dunbar


Even few years ago, planning for one's own funeral was an unheard of concept; but today, getting a funeral plan in one's life time is as common as getting a life insurance policy. There can be quite a few reasons for such surge in popularity; but if you try to pinpoint one as the prime motivation, finance can easily be termed as such. Let us see why:

* Dependents are not burdened with the funeral cost.

* As you will be making the full payment at the time of the purchase, your surviving family will not be required to pay anything more. Therefore, even if they are short in cash at the time of your death, the funeral arrangement will not be affected by that.

You may have bought life insurance to take care of the needs of your dependents after your death but if they have to take out enough resources from insurance settlement to pay for funeral expenses then they may not be able to meet their needs in an effective manner. It is much easier to opt for burial or cremation Guatemala service providers would offer you memorial plans for both to meet your needs. It might be confusing to choose between cremation and burial but if you give enough time to study the factors related to them then it may not be that difficult to choose.

You can consider all the personal issues associated with choosing a memorial plan beforehand and address any emotional and religious issues with the help of friends, advisors, dependents and the funeral service providers. Choosing between a cremation and burial as modes of final disposal is not as easy as it may sound but one must try his best to understand the concepts associated with these modes of final disposal to know their significance. It would be good to discuss your decision to buy a memorial plan with close ones.

However, having a session with death care counselors may be necessary under some circumstances; but it is never enough. If you do choose cremation over burial, make sure your family members agree with that. Remember, a well organized funeral is essential for the family members too; it helps them to accept death more easily and gives them the satisfaction of knowing they have done whatever they could for you. However, if your choice goes against their ideas of a proper funeral, they may find that very appalling.

This would ease the emotional burden on your close ones and also make it possible to use your arrangements at the right time. You can ask for your service provider in Guatemala to customize the memorial plan to meet your needs properly. If there are any issues, make it a point to discuss the same with your close ones and friends to find out a viable option which can meet your needs. There can be several options placed at your disposal but it would be better to go along with the one which suits your requirements properly.

The main contentious point that can arise is whether to go for burial or cremation. While cremation can be a practical solution to varied problems, burial is generally preferred because of emotional and religious reasons. Remember, only a burial with proper headstone can provide a place for contemplations and remembrance; it allows you to remain close to your family even in death. Moreover, burial is preferred from the religious angle also. Although cremation has been accepted by most of the Churches, the Roman Catholic Church still have some reservation about it.

One major objection to cremation is that the process does not leave any remains for resurrection. Indeed, every Christian believes that on the day of Last Judgment the Lord will resurrect us and for that our remains must be somehow preserved. While we do not have anything to say about the first part, the later one definitely needs to be challenged. It may take more time, but even if you bury them, bodies do disintegrate. The actions of microbes makes sure what came out of dust will one day return to it; it is the law of nature and nothing in this world can prevent that.

Earlier resurrection was a big issue with the Churches; it was believed that our remains must be preserved for such purpose. However, such an argument cannot stand to reason. Even if your body is buried in the strongest casket, it will one day going to disintegrate and what was once made out of dust will go back to it. Cremation not only hastens the process, but also saves our body from being devoured by the microbes. What is more, our Lord is all powerful; He does not remain our mortal remains for resurrection; His Will is enough for that. Therefore, cremation cannot interfere with resurrection. You can rest assured on such matter.




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