Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Tuesday, July 13, 2010

Dealing With Grief

By Leola Goldhirsh

Dealing with grief is something that almost all of us have to deal with at some point in our life.

It's only natural for us to find it hard to deal with losing somebody. Its natural for us to grieve. In the rest of this article you will learn some tips to help you get past the grief.

Grieving is totally natural. In fact if you lost somebody that you loved and didn't grief that would be unnatural. The first thing you need to know is that it's OK to grieve.

Starting a new hobby that you find enjoyable is a great way to get over grief. A hobby gives you something to focus on them something to look forward to. It keeps you focused.

Physical exercise is another great grief reliever. Going for a run or a swim is a great way to take your mind off of things and de stress. Whenever I get stressed I find it wonderful to go for a run with my headphones on and get some fresh air. And then afterwards to take a nice shower and then watch a film.

Possibly the best way to help you deal with grief is to start a diary. In your diary you can talk about how you feel and even talk about the person that you miss. Treat your diary like your best friend and tell it everything. This will help get your feelings off your chest and get over grief.

It's important when trying to get over grief that you keep yourself busy. By this I don't mean you should constantly be active I just mean that when you're feeling a bit sad just get up and do something. Tidying up is a good way to get your mind off of the grief.

It's extremely important when you're grieving to remember that you still have a future. It may not seem so while you are grieving but try to think of your future.

Try to remember these tips when you're dealing with grief.

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Understanding The World Of The Psychic

By Charles Blair

If you are a person who can perceive information from the surroundings which is otherwise hidden from others, or in other words, cannot be perceived from the usual five senses of sight, hearing, smell, taste and touch, then you can be termed as a psychic. Thus, a psychic is someone who has the gift of sixth sense or extra sensory perception.

Many a times it happens that if a loved one is thousands of miles away, one can see him/her meeting an accident or winning a cup, one may also dream about certain things which later on come true. There are numerous such examples of psychic experiences in the world where science cannot always explain the cause. The most common psychic experiences are those of telepathy, precognition and clairvoyance.

If you perceive what the person sitting next to you is thinking in his mind, you are a psychic with the power of telepathy. That is, you have the ability to mind read and in further advanced stages might also be able to infuse your own thoughts into the minds of others.

If a psychic has the special ability to gain knowledge about the future, then the psychic is known to have the power of precognition. Thus, accurate prediction of future events or incidents by a psychic is the result of his precognitive abilities. This type of psychic power is the most common in the world and needless to say that it is also the most popular, owing to the fact the humans have an innate desire to know about what the future holds for them.

Thirdly, if you have highly developed clear viewing capabilities and can experience 'seeing' things which others cannot, than you are a psychic clairvoyant. Examples of clairvoyance might be ability to see a loved one who is far away, ability to see the aura of another person or even ability to see spirits, so on and so forth.

Other powers or abilities that a psychic might have, can be that of ability to move things with mind power, ability to levitate off the ground, ability to perceive the field of energies in different colours coming out from an individual, ability to float out from your physical body during sleep, ability to communicate with spirits, etc.

If a person wants to find out whether he is a psychic or not then he can get himself tested. Nowadays, hundreds of online psychic tests can be availed of with a few clicks in front of your computer which can tell you whether you are a psychic or not. You can get yourself tested by a research institute in a clinical set up which would give you more accurate and detailed results in case you want to know the extent of your psychic abilities.

The oldest and highly popular test of zener cards tests both existence as well as intensity. Here a deck of cards is used with each card having a symbol. The process starts with the removal of a card after which you need to state that cards symbol using your extra sensory perceptions. This goes on till the deck is finished and thereafter the score is given based on the test's inbuilt algorithms to reflect whether you have 'no ability', 'some ability', 'significant ability' or 'very significant ability' thereof. If you find that you are a true psychic having significant or higher abilities, be sure to put your power to good use so that it comes to the help of other fellow human beings.

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