Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Tuesday, July 13, 2010

Dealing With Grief

By Leola Goldhirsh

Dealing with grief is something that almost all of us have to deal with at some point in our life.

It's only natural for us to find it hard to deal with losing somebody. Its natural for us to grieve. In the rest of this article you will learn some tips to help you get past the grief.

Grieving is totally natural. In fact if you lost somebody that you loved and didn't grief that would be unnatural. The first thing you need to know is that it's OK to grieve.

Starting a new hobby that you find enjoyable is a great way to get over grief. A hobby gives you something to focus on them something to look forward to. It keeps you focused.

Physical exercise is another great grief reliever. Going for a run or a swim is a great way to take your mind off of things and de stress. Whenever I get stressed I find it wonderful to go for a run with my headphones on and get some fresh air. And then afterwards to take a nice shower and then watch a film.

Possibly the best way to help you deal with grief is to start a diary. In your diary you can talk about how you feel and even talk about the person that you miss. Treat your diary like your best friend and tell it everything. This will help get your feelings off your chest and get over grief.

It's important when trying to get over grief that you keep yourself busy. By this I don't mean you should constantly be active I just mean that when you're feeling a bit sad just get up and do something. Tidying up is a good way to get your mind off of the grief.

It's extremely important when you're grieving to remember that you still have a future. It may not seem so while you are grieving but try to think of your future.

Try to remember these tips when you're dealing with grief.

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