Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Friday, February 4, 2011

The Important Function Of Friends In Our Day To Day Life

By Jesse McGraw


We all know how important friends are with our lives. When we live alone in a place far from our comfort zone, we get to feel lonely and we might feel the need to have some friends for comfort. Here are ways on how friends can affect your life.

The best quality of having a friend is that you do not feel to on a show. Your friend knows who you really are. You can easily cut down the chase and get on the discussions that matter. There is no need for you to feel that awkward first glance and awkward introduction that you feel when you meet someone.

Remember having a friend over when you feel like you are the ugliest person in the world and your friend tells you there is nothing to prove about your beauty than being yourself. Your friend is your instant self-esteem gratification which you might need every now and then.

Bestfriends will always be honest with us. It is because no best friend wants you to feel sad or betrayed which is why they will always tell the blunt truth whether that would be your overly stuffed dress or your messy hairstyle.

We all have different opinions on a certain topic. Get into a discussion with your friends and see what they have to say on things that you think are good and bad. You will be surprised at how your friends have different points of view than you have.

Friends are people you want to discuss and plan things with. They are the world's best people. They understand how you feel and how you would react to things which make your entire relationship with your friend comfortable.

Loyalty is another important aspect in friendship. If you find yourself having to think twice about telling your friend a secret or a plan without anything backfiring, then you might want to find someone you can really trust.

Your friend is your own personal sound board. You can easily talk about your dreams in life and what you want to do two or three years from now. It is in that level of friendship that you find yourself lucky that you have that person with you.




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Refrain From Text Bombing And Calling Your Ex When Drunk

By Amelia Page


When you are going through a break up this will be a very sensitive time and things may not go that easily. This may not be a great time to make big decisions or try to get your ex back.

It's okay to make mistakes because we all do. You need to make sure you are not making the wrong mistakes at this point.

During a breakdown from your break up, two mistakes you want to avoid are drunk dialing and text message overload. You don't want to make matters worse by saying things you shouldn't at such a sensitive time for both of you.

1. Text bombing: is when you text and call an extreme amount. If you are doing this with moderation, it's not so bad.

Even if the calls and texts are done over time and spread out, you could still really mess things up for yourself with your ex. If they are calling or texting you, you shouldn't be calling or texting them. That is unless you want to add to the tension and lessen the chances of getting your ex back.

2. Dialing them when drunk: this will normally happen after you have been drinking and during a breakup, this leads to loneliness. You may say things you wouldn't normally say with your sober mind.

It may not seem this way to you, but your ex will take this as weakness and desperation. To you it will seem like a good idea because you fill you are putting yourself out there and pouring your heart out.

Try to keep from doing either of the above. I know it will be hard, but that person will have your respect the next day and most importantly, you will have your own. If you find yourself picking up or about to hit send on that message or that call, think of the consequences and put the phone back down. Don't kill yourself and your dignity from call or text overload.




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