Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Tuesday, February 12, 2013

The Pains Of Going Through A Loved One's Demise

By Jamie Brown


Death comes when you least expect it. Like an expert thief, it lurks amongst the shadows, and catches you off guard. Its only difference from a thief is that it doesn't take with it your jewelry or your cash. It robs you of your most precious acquisition: life. When death knocks, no one can say no. It can simply take away the life of your kid, the life of your partner, the life of your parent, the life of your buddy, without seeking your approval.

The idea of death brings out a myriad of emotions. Some individuals get stuck living in retrospect, hoping they could touch their beloved departed once again. Some become mad at of deities while others drown in waves of remorse.

Successfully dominating the pains of death has only been enjoyed by a chosen few. Majority of bereaved individuals continue to get lost in a deep emotional sea of sorrow, anguish and pain.

Do you consider yourself a prisoner of the past? Are you haunted by your loved one's current demise? Are you feeling the pains of being buried under a pile of consuming emotions? The best thing to remember while going through this phase is this: It's okay to cry.

It's normal to make yourself susceptible to pain and grief. But at some point, you must pick up the pace once again and live life with hope. Why? Because that is what your beloved departed wants for you: a normal life. Talk to friends about how you feel. Seek help if possible. Do worthwhile activities that inspire you. Lastly, avoid all possible stressors. Repel the added upset of funeral preparation with the assistance of a funeral director Singapore. You may then talk about funeral and Singapore caskets services suited for your loved one. Hiring professional funeral preparation services will give your departed the respect and honour he or she deserves even after life.




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Families Are Assisted To Find Closure By Funeral Director Singapore

By Melissa Powell


It doesn't matter where it is we live in the world; all people have at least one thing in common. Each of us is not exactly happy to talking about funeral planning. At the same time that is true, all of us at at critical times in our lives are going to find themselves having to deal with how to make plans to lay a loved one to rest. A few people do this in advance for themselves so their loved ones are spared the chore of having to go through it. A professional funeral director Singapore makes this a less complicated task.

The work of a funeral director Singapore is aid family members select the way the final tribute will be handled. It doesn't matter if funeral services Singapore or other locations in the world, paying respects to the person who has passed helps the hearts and minds of those left behind move on with their lives. A Buddhist funeral Singapore service may be a bit different than one arranged for a Christian family member, but saying goodbye has no religious bounds.

at times known as undertakers or morticians. It depends on the cultural practices of the family in question, these individuals prepare the deceased for burial. In many cases, that means it is embalmed to slow the deterioration that normally takes place until the funeral is held. At other times, cremation is selected and the ashes delivered to the family. Either way, the body is treated with respect for the person and their family.|Other names used by professional funeral director Singapore are mortician as well as undertaker. Of course it all depends on the family cultural practices, but as a rule these individuals are very careful to prepare the body of the deceased. There are times when this means performing embalming procedures to preserve the body long enough for funeral services to take place. In other instances, it may mean making sure that cremation of the body is performed correctly.|A funeral director Singapore is a well trained professional who is qualified in mortician and undertaking skills. It naturally depends upon the traditions and cultural values that are important to a family, they prepare bodies for burial. This often means being involved throughout the embalming process, but it may

As a funeral director Singapore is assisting families plan funerals, they often receive special requests from family members. often times these requests involve how the deceased should be placed in the casket, the way their hair and makeup is done, as well as the way they should be dressed. As good professionals, they understand how critical it is that they attend to their requests with the utmost of care as they help families deal with such grief.

With all of this in mind; it is simpler to see how critical it is to have the services provided by a funeral director Singapore. By giving this important moment of goodbye into the capable hands of these professionals, families are given more time to sort out the emotions involved with funerals. Through this method they get to spend more time honoring memories and reassuring one another that everything will be okay.




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