Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Sunday, December 22, 2013

How To Buy Burial Stones

By Tom Tree


When it comes to the purchase of grave markers careful consideration and time will need to be taken to make the best possible choice. The memorial structures are erected in honor of the spirit of a loved one who has passed on. The choice of stones should be based on factors such as the cost, craftsmanship, material, and overall size.

The purchase of a grave marker is not a simple one and involves a complete assessment of the selections that are available including its costs. With the range of monuments that are available including an upright post, flatter plaque or customized stones. A web search can aid in viewing images of the various styles and sizes that can be sought.

Most cemeteries will include regulatory requirements that have to be met with regards to the size of the structures that are permitted for placement. It is important to make these considerations before proceeding with a purchase that could waste a great deal of time and money. Take the time to consult with personnel to determine the rules that are put in place.

The materials that are available for purchase include concrete, wood, and bronze that may prove most desirable for the design of a particular headstone. One of the most popular stones includes granite that is durable, reliable, and most beautiful when polished and delivers a high quality shine. The use of bronze and granite will deliver the longest lasting properties that will not have to be regularly maintained.

There is the option to purchase a marker from a specialized store or a cemetery. An assessment of the options available can be sought online or with a brochure provided by the facility. Take the time to discuss the designs of interest with personnel and view the ranges that are available to determine whether it delivers quality.

If you are going to use the services of a store based supplier or online retailer compare the value that is provided by each. Web purchases will need to be made from a reputable business that offers exceptional quality and attention to detail. Taking a fair amount of time to assess the costs involved will aid in the selection of durable and aesthetic structures.

Grave Markers should be selected based on thorough research to determine the value and cost effectiveness of materials. The cemetery will advise on regulations that should be put in place for particular styles. Completing homework into the options available can assist in the creation of a memorable piece.




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