Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Saturday, December 31, 2011

Adversity Produces Soul Fiber

By Robert Tait


In the history of nations, opposition, oppression, and persecution have always developed heroes and resulted in glorious freedom. And it is a fact that people of a luxurious climate are weaklings and not so ambitious, while people of a rugged climate and rocky environment are usually strong soldiers and statesmen. This is the law of God.

Adversity is a given to the faithful Christian. It is all who will live Godly that will suffer, not some!This applies to Western as well as Eastern cultures. All our Bible characters were Eastern, a point we often forget.It seems today that the East has a clearer grasp on the life of faith than most people in our Western affluence.Solzhenitsyn was harassed at Harvard when he said revival would come from the East rather than the West. We can talk well about our faith but they live it especially where it is tough to survive. The book on prayer, Kneeling We Triumph, has an article on Accomplishment Thru Travail.He who prays well must be willing to face adversity.Part of Abraham, Jacob, and Joseph had opposition.Moses had much to endure.He turned his back upon Egypt because he saw something better.He had a book on prayer- it was the starry sky and the desert solitude.

Difficulties neutralize laziness. They waken the strongest qualities of the soul. They bring into activity slumbering forces. Being in sound of the enemies' guns all the time keeps one on the jump. We are not called to peace, but to a sword! Jesus prevented the crystallization of the early Church by allowing much persecution to come.

The north wind made the Vikings.We get our tough, strong sisal twine from the sisal plant which is largely grown in Yucatan.

The Family Christian Store that has books on affliction is rare. The book on prayer that talks of warfare will find many who praise it but few who practice it. Character is fiber of the soul. Like wisdom, it can only be gained through experience and often those experiences are the tough ones. We gain so much more in the valley of affliction than cruising through life in the fast lane.

Then tell me not of havens for the soul; Where tides can never come, nor storms molest!; My sailing-spirit seeks no sheltered goad; Naught is more sad than safety:life is best; When every day brings danger for delight; And each new; solemn night; Engulfs our whitening wake with in the whole.




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Get Girls To Like You - How To Pass A Woman's Tests

By Lee Rosenberg


Women test men all the time, both consciously and unconsciously. If you aren't aware of these tests, you will fail. As a result, women will lose attraction and respect for you.

Since this is a short article, I cannot lay out every test women throw at men. But I can share a few.

Test # 1: Fishing For Compliments

Have you ever had a woman ask you if she looked fat? Most men have. Do you know how most men respond?

"No, you don't look fat. You look great."

Why do men do this?

There are several reasons.

One is that they don't want to offend the girl. They want her to think they are a nice guy.

Two is that they are trying to win points with the girl. In other words, they want the girl to like them.

While this may quell a woman's low self-esteem for the moment, it ultimately kills all attraction. When you attempt to win a woman over it turns you into a courtier or sycophant. Women feel no attraction for sycophants.

Here's the way to pass this test: Respond with, "Yeah, you look huge. If you get any bigger, I'm gonna have to get a forklift to move you around."

This may seem mean. But it communicates that you are unwilling to give into her "pity party." As a result, women will respect you and you won't lose any attraction with them.

The exception to this is if the girl truly is overweight.

Test # 2: Buy Me A Drink

Many a man has been at a bar, spotted an attractive woman, approached her, and within a few minutes of conversation, she said, "Get me a drink."

What do most men do?

They buy the girl a drink and she says, "Thank you... but now I'm gonna go talk to my friends."

What is going here?

When you buy a female stranger a drink, it communicates that you don't have enough value to talk to her without buying her a drink. Although it is a nice gesture, it diminishes your value in her eyes. Do not do it.

This will work whether you make your money from marketing, advertising, the finance world, selling autos, or something else.

Whether you're into blogs, gardening, sports, spirituality, religion, traveling the world, being a family man, or health and fitness, this advice will help you.




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