Women test men all the time, both consciously and unconsciously. If you aren't aware of these tests, you will fail. As a result, women will lose attraction and respect for you.
Since this is a short article, I cannot lay out every test women throw at men. But I can share a few.
Test # 1: Fishing For Compliments
Have you ever had a woman ask you if she looked fat? Most men have. Do you know how most men respond?
"No, you don't look fat. You look great."
Why do men do this?
There are several reasons.
One is that they don't want to offend the girl. They want her to think they are a nice guy.
Two is that they are trying to win points with the girl. In other words, they want the girl to like them.
While this may quell a woman's low self-esteem for the moment, it ultimately kills all attraction. When you attempt to win a woman over it turns you into a courtier or sycophant. Women feel no attraction for sycophants.
Here's the way to pass this test: Respond with, "Yeah, you look huge. If you get any bigger, I'm gonna have to get a forklift to move you around."
This may seem mean. But it communicates that you are unwilling to give into her "pity party." As a result, women will respect you and you won't lose any attraction with them.
The exception to this is if the girl truly is overweight.
Test # 2: Buy Me A Drink
Many a man has been at a bar, spotted an attractive woman, approached her, and within a few minutes of conversation, she said, "Get me a drink."
What do most men do?
They buy the girl a drink and she says, "Thank you... but now I'm gonna go talk to my friends."
What is going here?
When you buy a female stranger a drink, it communicates that you don't have enough value to talk to her without buying her a drink. Although it is a nice gesture, it diminishes your value in her eyes. Do not do it.
This will work whether you make your money from marketing, advertising, the finance world, selling autos, or something else.
Whether you're into blogs, gardening, sports, spirituality, religion, traveling the world, being a family man, or health and fitness, this advice will help you.
Since this is a short article, I cannot lay out every test women throw at men. But I can share a few.
Test # 1: Fishing For Compliments
Have you ever had a woman ask you if she looked fat? Most men have. Do you know how most men respond?
"No, you don't look fat. You look great."
Why do men do this?
There are several reasons.
One is that they don't want to offend the girl. They want her to think they are a nice guy.
Two is that they are trying to win points with the girl. In other words, they want the girl to like them.
While this may quell a woman's low self-esteem for the moment, it ultimately kills all attraction. When you attempt to win a woman over it turns you into a courtier or sycophant. Women feel no attraction for sycophants.
Here's the way to pass this test: Respond with, "Yeah, you look huge. If you get any bigger, I'm gonna have to get a forklift to move you around."
This may seem mean. But it communicates that you are unwilling to give into her "pity party." As a result, women will respect you and you won't lose any attraction with them.
The exception to this is if the girl truly is overweight.
Test # 2: Buy Me A Drink
Many a man has been at a bar, spotted an attractive woman, approached her, and within a few minutes of conversation, she said, "Get me a drink."
What do most men do?
They buy the girl a drink and she says, "Thank you... but now I'm gonna go talk to my friends."
What is going here?
When you buy a female stranger a drink, it communicates that you don't have enough value to talk to her without buying her a drink. Although it is a nice gesture, it diminishes your value in her eyes. Do not do it.
This will work whether you make your money from marketing, advertising, the finance world, selling autos, or something else.
Whether you're into blogs, gardening, sports, spirituality, religion, traveling the world, being a family man, or health and fitness, this advice will help you.
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