Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Thursday, June 10, 2010

How To Create Abundance In Your Life

By Jak Spinks

Being in the state to create abundance involves ones total body, physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual. Likewise, its benefits go in all of those aspects. You must learn to harness this state both internally and externally. It begins with deep introspection; you must allow yourself to heal from past hurts and unpleasant experiences. It is indeed a challenging process.

There is always a point in your life where you will be unhappy. You become unhappy with your job, your career, your home life, your marriage, your friendships, and more. This unhappiness is caused by the not being able to create abundance in your life. Abundant life is not about material possessions that you can acquire. Look at the rich, no matter how much money they have it seems as though they are always struggling with something. They do not need their riches to be happy. They are missing out on abundant life.

To create abundance, you need to begin evaluating your life values first. You also need to evaluate your thoughts, what you believe in, and your emotions. You need to begin changing what you are not happy with. No matter where you are in life you can always take time to find abundant life. Train your mind to think more positively and more logical even when you are in the middle of troubles. When you do this you will notice a drastic change.

The world is full of the spirit of abundance life. Sadly, most people get through this life never being able to experience and feel that. Open up yourself and prepare to receive it and you are well on your way. Negative thoughts and feelings block the reception of abundance. Unforgiveness, shame, hatred, bitterness, anger, anxiety, and many other negative emotions keep you from perceiving and receiving abundance. Get rid of all those negativity.

If you want to create abundance, you have to brave yourself enough to confront and triumph over your personal demons. If you keep surrendering yourself to failure and hurt, you will just increase your chances of repetitive failure and hurt. Overcome fearfulness; whenever you brace yourself for the worst, it almost always happens. Learn to be done with the past and every negative thing that is there. Aim to accept any future experience with positivity. Do this and you will surely achieve abundance.

Changes are to be welcomed though difficult they may be. Welcome positive changes and aim to make the best out of everything you go through. Live and work in a positive perception of the world and grab every opportunity to make positive changes in your life. As you see each one keep your focus on. This holistic attitude gets you abundance.

One you are accomplishing your goals you cannot allow it to stop there. It is important to continue everyday to create abundance you need to be happy. Lose the selfishness in your life. Its one of the easier things to give into but selfishness can take over the body. You will become even more generous when you create abundance when you begin to share with others. Let other people see how well it looks on you and they will try it themselves. Do not focus on yourself; your aches and pains, your work, your life. Instead focus on helping someone out and you will change yourself as well as others.

Focus more on developing and pursuing close relationships with people. This should be desired much more than financial gain. Focus on simple happiness and worthwhile activities that make others happy too. By doing these things you will find yourself with a healthy mind and body and achieve all your goals. Develop positive values, pursue them, and you will find yourself living an abundant life.

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Easy Ways To Avoid Traffic Tickets

By Adriana Noton

Traffic tickets can come at a very inconvenient time in your life. Many times people will get tickets that they cannot afford due to other bills that take priority. If you do not want to run the risk of traffic tickets, look to this guide for new pointers. There are great ways that you can use to your advantage in order to get out of a ticket and stay out of getting tickets.

Having a brightly colored car is a good way to gain the attention of a police officer. In studies it has been proven that a bright red car is more likely to get pulled over than a white or a black car. Try to keep your car from having too many bells and whistles. This will also attract attention that you surely do not want from a police officer!

If you are trying to find a new store or neighborhood, you may run into different speed limits. It is important that you take note of the changes within speed limits so that you drive within them. Those who do not end up getting numerous traffic tickets simply because they cannot open their eyes or take their foot off the gas pedal!

Watching out for police when on the roads is just one thing that you have to worry about. There are traffic cameras being installed that will now take your picture and your license number if you are going over the speed limit. You will need to be going a significant amount over the limit in order to trip the cameras and recieve a speeding ticket. Keep it within 5 miles above the limit and you should be alright!

If you do get pulled over by a police officer you need to make sure that you remain as calm as possible. People often get nervous and will calm up and stay silent when the officer is talking with them. You need to stay calm, have all of your information ready and explain your situation to the officer. If you can do this without crying or blubbering, you are more likely to avoid traffic tickets.

Do not give off the impression that you did nothing wrong. There are some people that will have an attitude against the police that can easily get them tickets. Look the officer in the eye, be honest and you should be alright. If you act like you are being mistreated even when you are not, you could drive off with a fresh traffic ticket.

Keep your voice steady and talk with the officer in a reasonable manner. When the two people can communicate within this situation, there is less likely to be a ticket issued. If you get mad or upset, you are only causing problems for yourself. Let the officer explain what you were doing to get stopped in the first place and go from there.

It is not very hard to avoid traffic tickets. Ensure that you have everything legal within your car and you do not break the law. If you have a broken headlight or tail light, you are more likely to get a simple warning to have it fixed. If the officer pulls you over a second time and you have not fixed the problem, you will surely get a ticket. Do what you can to pay attention while driving and stay out of trouble!

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