Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Thursday, August 25, 2011

Wedding Rings

By Owen Jones


One's wedding ring is often a person's most essential item of jewellery, because of the huge significance that it has for its wearer. It is intended to denote the love that exists between two people. In most countries, the wedding ring is worn on the fourth finger of the left hand - the ring finger, although in Norway, Germany and Russia, it is worn on the fourth finger of the right hand.

It is usually a good idea to have your finger measured by an expert, before buying an expensive ring, because fingers swell and shrink over the course of a life span and a good jeweller will know how much leeway to allow. If the change in the size of your finger is likely to be lasting, it is a good idea to have the ring resized, this is so that it will neither cut into you nor fall off your finger easily.

These days a lot of couples like to go shopping for wedding rings together, because they want to buy a pair of matching rings that both of them likes. However, it does not have to be like that. In fact it never was, because the man bought the ring for his fiancee as a surprise. So, if you do not have the same tastes, do not worry about it.

There are hundreds of styles to choose from and several varieties and qualities of metal too. Yellow gold is still the most popular, but there is white gold and specialist golds too like Welsh gold, which is very rare. Besides gold, platinum and titanium are very popular too.

A fast developing trend is for a couple to design or have designed a unique pair of wedding rings. At first, you would think that this would be very expensive, but it is not necessarily so. If you keep your design moderate and the stones, if any, equally so, then the rings might only cost 10%-20% more than those off the shelf.

Gold is still the most popular metal for a wedding ring, but silver is starting to gain ground too, although it was always looked on as the poor cousin before. Likewise, diamonds are the still the number one stone of choice, but sapphires are also very popular nowadays. Or you could go for plain bands with something like a Celtic knot design.

Shopping for wedding rings can be fun, but it is easy to go over the top and spend much more than you intended to. You could determine how much you can afford and stick to it, not that that always works either. Expect to pay a lot more for the bride's wedding ring than the groom's. This is because the bride's ring usually contains diamonds, whereas the groom's is often a plain band of gold.

You could further personalize your wedding rings with a dedication and a date. Personalized, or unique wedding rings often get handed down through the generations. Maybe, yours will too. Or, if you want to wear your grandmother's handed-down ring, you could personalize it in some way, so that it is both old and yet something of you as well.




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Understanding The Importance Of Past Life Readings

By Samantha Sanderson


If there was a mysterious incidence around the passing of any of your family members or you just want to make sure that they are ok, you can easily do this by talking to a psychic or medium that specializes in past life readings. These will help you to find closure and perhaps give you some answers that you are looking for.

When you have experienced something in your life that you want to know more about, and if you have unresolved feelings or thoughts about a family member who has passed away, you can use the past life readings to get the answers and help you move on. Many psychics can do this and while there are scam artists around, you will have to jut look around and do some research to find the reputable ones.

Many people also find that the past life readings help them to understand a bit more about the person that passed. The readings will also help to confirm any details about the passing that the family has not understood.

When you are given a piece of evidence that tells you that the psychic must be telling the truth, then you can go ahead and get a reading done. Most of the readings are short because the connections that people make are not always that strong. Most of the time, people from the other side just want to send a message to their loved ones, or tell them something important that they never did when they were alive.

The past life readings offer such closure and bring such peace to people. They might hear that their father was proud of them, even though nothing was said, or that they are with other family members who have passed. Little things like letting them know that they are loved can be the most helpful thing a person can hear when they have just lost a family member.

With all the different kinds of psychics that are out there, the ones that do these past life readings are some of the best and you can find plenty of them online.




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