Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Friday, August 20, 2010

The Reason Why We Should Avoid Having Unpleasant Emotions

By Jillian Fox

What you eat as well as what you feel can affect your health. For example, if you ever felt so deeply hurt that you thought it was like somebody was twisting a knife in your wound. Then you felt your heart was being torn into pieces then you can probably guess what it feels like. Try to imagine what stress and bitterness can do to create trouble for the heart.

Negative emotions interfere with the sound state of the heart, and stress is one of them. They cause the blood clots to form in your veins and interrupt the smooth flow of blood in the heart.

Another cause of high blood pressure is negative emotions like fear, anger, and panic because all these will make the blood to boil so to speak. The person then begins to feel some serious headache, or become faint and very tired.

If you are wondering how one can get help, it is by coming to the realization that these negative feelings are causing havoc to your health; and that there is something that you can do about it. Learn how to overcome negativity in order to normalize the flow of blood in your body and the pumping of your heart.

You are in a position to change your destiny by just saying no to stressful and pessimistic demeanor because the truth is that in life you can never be totally free of problems.

Make a great effort to avoid any negative circumstances. It means you will simply have to avoid people who have a negative attitude, and just learn to say "no."

To counteract this negative feeling, just surround yourself with positive minded people. They say misery is out there looking for company but happiness can catch on; do look for people who are not pessimistic in life and who have a happy mien all the time. Hang out with go-getters who have positive mentality about life. Smile and others will smile back to you is a very apt saying.

Do not let the things of life worry you especially when you know there is nothing much you can do about them.

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Understand Abundance Secrets To Enjoy Prosperity In Life

By Karen Cochran

People crave for abundance, even the rich are not content with what they have. In view of this, many books have been written in regards to the abundance secrets. None of them however are really successful in allowing a person to reach the state where every aspect of their life is "good".

Despite these books, ebooks, videos, or what you want to call them, people still complain about how much they are lacking with-"I want a new skirt", "I want to live in a warmer place", "I wish to travel outside the universe, "I want a new house" etc.

Instead of focusing yourself on the negative thing in life, you should make it a habit to stop complaining and think about those people who never seem to stop struggling for survival during their entire lives.

The abundance secrets are not any magic potion or hectic tasks that we should learn because they are already inside us. We will jus be able to reveal it by the time when we realize how to divert our thoughts on the things that we have rather than spending all our time in figuring out the things that we lack.

If we continue to allow our mind to focus only on our struggles and those unfair situations we are trapped in, it is easy for us to become discouraged and we then fail to see the beauty of life.

Open your eyes to the fact that there are many people who are able to overcome these obstacles and end up having a life which is filled with love, money, happiness, and joy. You can have this life as well.

The process of abundance will start as soon as you begin to shift your focus from the problems you have to the goodness of life that you actually take pleasure in. Every living person is capable of manifesting abundance in their life.

The time when you will enjoy everything that you could ever get from life will never come because the more you get something, the more will you crave for more. In view of this, true abundance is that time when you start counting the blessing so you can have it right now if you just keep your focus.

Some people would compare the abundance secrets as being like mature branches of a tree which should all be taken away in order to give way to something which is new and better. People who really understand it however see it more as the mature branches needing to be pruned in order to grow younger branches. Think of a grape vine that increases its produce each year with the help of intensive pruning. Without pruning, the ground will weaken and the crop will start to diminish.

So each time you are in a difficult situation, especially something that concerns your finances, do not be scared because you are at your pruning stage. You will be able to appreciate success much more by changing things gradually and focusing on the positive. Always have faith in your heart and trust your intuition and you will have a great life!

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