Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Saturday, July 25, 2009

An Introduction To Life Insurance

By Rodney Daniel Bolton

Life insurance (or assurance) is and agreement between an insurance providing company and the individual that takes out a policy with them. The agreement is based idea that for a recurring fee, the insurance company will payout an agreed sum to the beneficiaries of the insured (most of the time this will be family) upon the insureds death.

In some countries it is normal to have funeral expenses covered in a insurance policy, but in the UK, companies tend to simply pay out a lump sum to the beneficiaries of the insured upon his/her demise.

A life insurance policy will contain contract terms and these terms will include death circumstances for which the insured will not be covered, and the ones for which they will be. Death circumstances that will generally not be covered by life insurance are suicide, riot or war.

Life based contracts will usually fall into two different categories, protection policies and investment policies. Protection policies are those that provide a benefit to those parties specified in the contract, usually a lump sum, in the event of a specified scenario. Investment policies are where the main objective is to facilitate the growth of capital by regular or single premiums. Common forms (in the US anyway) are whole life, universal life and variable life policies.

The beneficiary is the person(s) who will receive the payout upon the death of the insured person and can be changed at any time by the policy holder unless the beneficiary is irrevocable in which case the policy holder must have express permission from the beneficiary in order to make any changes regarding the beneficiary.

The policy holder and the insured are not necessarily the same person (although they usually are) but someone can take out a policy to cover someone else's life, for example, a wife could take out a policy on her husbands life, making her the policy holder and him the insured.

In these scenarios, insurance companies want to limit the people who can take out a policy another persons life to only the people who would suffer a genuine loss, emotional or otherwise, if the insured was to die. This is to stop people taking out policies on other peoples lives because this person is on the point of death but its not obvious, and to stop providing a motive to murder. People may consider taking out an insurance policy on someone who is worth a lot of money with themselves as the beneficiary and then proceed to kill that person for the cash reward. Granted this is extreme and a rarity but it had been known to happen before insurance companies clamped down.

Life insurance, like most other types of insurance is basically an agreement between the insurance provider and the insured that for a recurring fee, the aforementioned beneficiary/beneficiaries of the policy will receive the proceeds of the contract (usually a lump sum) upon the occurrence of one of the terms of the contract, in the case of life insurance, this will usually be the insureds death.

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How to Get Back Together With My Ex - 5 Magical Guidelines That You Have Not Thought About

By Anne Torres

1) Avoid pleading and being that annoying ex-girlfriend who cannot get over the breakup. I'm trying to decipher how to get back together with my ex, not how to be the butt of his and his friends' jokes!

2) Return to doing the things I loved to do before he and I started dating. Yes, I want to get back together with my ex, but sitting around crying over him isn't doing me any good. I sacrificed a lot of things when we got together and I want to do something fun with my time.

3) Slowly open the lines of communication with him. I refuse to call him 100 times a day or send him a million text messages! But I will say a friendly, "Hi!" when I see him. After all, if he thinks I'm doing well and am happy, he will surely wonder why I'm so happy without him and perhaps he'll start wondering how to get back together with me.

4) I will softly let him know that I still care for him profoundly but I refuse to tie my happiness to whether I'm with him or not. I will mean this when I say it because I know it is true no matter how terrible I feel inside or how much I miss him or how much I want to get back together with my ex.

5) I am going to rejoin my old clubs and activities. After all, this is where he and I initially met - who knows? Maybe he'll join me and this will be how to get back together with my ex before too long!

While manipulating somebody is not something a person should do, sometimes we must take steps to get what we want. I hope he doesn't feel manipulated by my show of happiness without him. I just want him to see that I am still a great person who loves to have fun and he'll remember all the reasons we got together in the first place without my belittling myself or making him hate me.

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