Recovering from an unexpected break up can be very hard to do, especially if you were the one that was dumped. Sadly, this is something that most everyone experiences in life at one time or another.
Don't forget that sooner or later you will move on and get over the breakup. You are the only one that can decide how long that will take and how hard it will be. One thing that you can do to make it easier is to try and avoid being with the friends of your ex.
There are some people that will say the best think to do is to get rid of everything that reminds you of your ex. I don't think that's a good idea, because you can risk thinking about that person even more as you try and not think about them.
Try and take it slow and easy for a while, and don't be too hard on yourself over the breakup. Don't obsess with focusing on stuff that reminds you of them, but don't try and avoid everything either.
If you are getting tired of people treating you differently, you have to stop sulking in front of them. Cry when you are alone, but try and become part of life again with your friends and go out.
The key thing to remember and cling to is that over time, things will get better. You will move on to a different stage in life, and will find the right person at the right time.
The thing that helped me was I reminded myself that I wasn't the only one to experience a breakup, and many do daily. It happens to anyone and almost everyone, and even though it stinks, people do move on and live life once again, and so will you.
Don't forget that sooner or later you will move on and get over the breakup. You are the only one that can decide how long that will take and how hard it will be. One thing that you can do to make it easier is to try and avoid being with the friends of your ex.
There are some people that will say the best think to do is to get rid of everything that reminds you of your ex. I don't think that's a good idea, because you can risk thinking about that person even more as you try and not think about them.
Try and take it slow and easy for a while, and don't be too hard on yourself over the breakup. Don't obsess with focusing on stuff that reminds you of them, but don't try and avoid everything either.
If you are getting tired of people treating you differently, you have to stop sulking in front of them. Cry when you are alone, but try and become part of life again with your friends and go out.
The key thing to remember and cling to is that over time, things will get better. You will move on to a different stage in life, and will find the right person at the right time.
The thing that helped me was I reminded myself that I wasn't the only one to experience a breakup, and many do daily. It happens to anyone and almost everyone, and even though it stinks, people do move on and live life once again, and so will you.
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