Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Thursday, July 20, 2017

Interventions Towards Positive Psychological Change

By Thomas Gray


People have various ways to acquire fun. We have specified days or seasons of the year where we set aside resources to spend on such occasions but we ought to know that the virtue of happiness in this life is a cyclic affair. Scholars have hypothesized that being happy can be a stimulating factor towards living a good life. Consider the following tips to help achieve your case of positive psychological change.

Richness and prosperity. These two factors coexist. You will not expect to have the kind of joy a wealthy person has with that of a poor fellow. It can differ, but regardless of the situation, all have some amount of fun they enjoy. It all depends on what you offer to go for and the level of luxury you desire to have at your disposal. Notably, it is your choice that guides the quality of fun you experience.

Buying experience, unlike possessions, yields happiness. The kind of feeling brought about by acquiring the experiential items cannot be compared to that enjoyed by possession of any material things. Having to purchase tickets to show up for that show or performance will most likely give you higher satisfaction than having to buy your best meal or wearing the best garment in fashion.

The science of gratitude. How thankful we are for the favors our buddies do us can make a very big difference in our lives. Research has shown that most of us who are grateful have higher chances of encountering similar advantages in their where about. Learning to say thank you to whoever does you good makes you express the sense of appreciation that the other party will desire to experience.

Complacency and belief. Learn to be satisfied with the advice you are given by your seniors and believe your guts in doing the right thing. Strive to make best arguments and derive the most amicable solutions to challenges that come your way. Empathize with your neighbors for a peaceful coexistence and for you to enjoy life whenever you are associating with them.

Afford a sneer. If you get to remember the best experiences in your life, you find yourself smiling all through. It is a moment that you think how well you performed your assignment to make that valuable achievement. This inevitably motivates you to perfect your input and have better results so as to retrieve such a good feeling repeatedly.

Compassion. You realize that your friends develop some form of likeness when you succeed in your endeavors. It draws to their attention the kind of approach you partake your duties, and they are eager to learn and portray the same to become better and recognized. You can associate with people from different classes because you have what it takes to make a sensible argument whatever the argument may be.

Exercise. Keeping fit is the probably the best way to manage any form of stress. Enrolling for the gym or going to the field to practice will help stretch out your muscles, burn excess calories and help you get the kind of a relief to keep you going. It benefits mental health and enables the free flow of blood to every tissue of the body.




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