Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Tuesday, February 15, 2011

Ignoring Hard-To-Deal-With Personalities In Your Workplace

By Debbie R. Blanchard


You may have met people as co-workers or bullies that are very difficult to get along with other people. But this does not mean that it is impossible to get along with when you know them.

If in the normal interaction with such people you do not swallow your pride and rage it may be impossible to interact. Leaving the issue or just humbling yourself is not the only way out.

People have been taught how to deal with such people either by just preparing themselves while others have been taught to smile at them. But smiling is more preferred because as you smile there is a positive angle.

By just smiling you may clear the tension and get the ball rolling though it may seem unreasonable. But when you smile let it be genuine, thinking about whatever part you like about them might help. And just may be they might beam back.

Remember that these are not devils as you may think of them and you may be surprised of what you might find out if you go deeper and get to know who they really are.

Do not be like everyone else who say that; it is easy to disk like peter if he is arrogant and kind of abrasive. Do what other do not even imagine try to like him.

You know that his arrogance is because he is insecure and he is trying to deal with being at a new place and the people making him nervous.

A person become more than a caricature to you when you get to understand when the cause a of his or her behaviors they turn and become persons with real concerns .you cannot hate a person once you get to know them for you only hate those who you do not have a clue where they are coming from. But it only takes you a little time, patience and heart to get to know them and see beyond the surface or what they throw at you.




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Motivational Tips: How To Excel In Entrepreneurship

By Fred Mosby


Do not you thing that there is something innate about setting targets and trying to achieve them. We like to do that a bit too often. However, if you want to achieve a lot, then we should be ready to put in the necessary amount of effort to get to that goal.

You can just show up in boxing ring and expect to win. In order to achieve something in the boxing arena one needs build up the resistance power. Most importantly, one must first learn how to box.

We, as humans, are fond of setting goals. We do this on regular basis. Therefore, it would not be wrong to label us as goal oriented creatures. We always have something on our mind that we want to achieve.

This feeling of desiring something is really important. It makes us work hard to achieve our goal. Adrenaline is the name given to this feeling in boxing field. Ambition is what we call it in business world.

Preparation comes in handy in anything that you are doing be it sports or business. You have to sacrifice your time but it is all worth it in the end.

If you are starting a new business, then you will have to work like an athlete. You will face great many challenges. You will face challenge from others and from within yourself. You will have to maintain your faith in yourself. You will have to ignore your demons and past failures, and not let them get into your way.

The bottom line is that you should make arrangements well in advance. Successful people start preparing before the actual deal begins itself. You should follow the suite. If your business requires you to get trained, then do that. If it requires you to engage in research, by all mean do that.l

If you want to achieve and get to your goals, try to understand as to what is required of you. Keep in mind what Robert Evans once said. Luck comes our way when we are ready and prepared to make the best use of an opportunity.




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