Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Sunday, December 29, 2013

Selecting The Right Monument Grave

By Tom Tree


Through the ages, many societies have used stones to show the place where those who have passed on were interred. This practice coined some commonly used modern terms like gravestone, headstone and tombstone. Most modern civilizations still use this method of Burial Marker, though the process of selection has become much more elaborate.

Monuments such as these serve not only as place holders, but as a small testament to the individual that they memorialize. They feature a person's name and the dates of their birth and death, which in a way, immortalizes them for generations to come. Many folks personalize their testaments further by having an epitaph also inscribed upon the stone or into the metal.

The styles in which these monuments are found are virtually endless with so many materials and features from which to choose. They may be thin and flat against the lawn or they may tower high and present an impressive silhouette. Some contain only the very basic information with no frills while others are extremely elaborate and filled with personalization.

The look of one's gravestone might be influenced by multiple contributing factors. The strongest consideration is the personal style and tastes of the individual for whom it is meant because one's eternal monument should be a reflection of that person's likes. The second biggest restraint is usually the budget that has been set aside for this purchase.

Before making a final selection, one should decide the cemetery in which the stone is to be place. For purposes of easy maintenance or uniformity, some locations may have regulations on the types and sizes of gravestones and plaques that will be allowed on the property. It is important to check for such restrictions as it is quite common for such facilities to remove or reject those that do not comply to set standards.

Several materials, including wood, limestone, sandstone, slate, marble and brass are used to make these products. Though all of these have favorable qualities, bronze and granite are by far the most commonly used substances for constructing gravestones. This is primarily because they are both extremely durable, even in the worst climate conditions, easy to maintain, attractive and affordable.

Many people will put a lot of planning into the selection of what is to become their eternal burial marker. This is the item that is going to serve as a testament of an individual's life for generations to follow. One needs to take into consideration not only the personal tastes of the one it will represent, but budget and facility regulations as well, before making a final purchase.




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