Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Wednesday, January 26, 2011

Ideas That May Help You Get Your Wife Back

By John Taylor


People don't really know what to do when it comes to get back with their wife. They usually do nothing because they feel like it's time to move on.

All these negative thoughts can interfere and lead to a terrible result. You have to stay positive and be optimistic and you have greater chances to get your wife back.

No one said that getting your wife back is an easy thing but you can do it especially if you and your wife are not completely broken up. If things just started to get bad then you still have a chance if you want to. But you can also save your relationship after you two broke up as well.

The most important thing is to keep your calm even if you feel tension from your wife. The hardest thing that you have to overcome is when all hopes of getting back together are lost. You will need to regain that hope and keep fighting.

You need to know that just because you want to make it work it won't necessary work out because when you want to get your wife back you can get all sorts of surprises and you have to be prepared for any kind of ending.

Sometimes you get blinded by a happy ending and you aren't prepared for the worst results. But you have to understand that sometimes good intended efforts don't have the best results.

Keep in mind that this is not the end and a new relationship can appear out of nowhere. This thought will make you feel better and you will be able to fall in love with someone else.

But if you want your wife back you need to be positive and the efforts won't be for nothing.




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Discussing Why People Sometimes Develop A Rebound Relationship

By Lara Jones


You always wonder what to do when your ex is dating someone else. It might mean that he's over you or maybe they are into a rebound relationship which shouldn't bother you so much.

A rebound relationship is basically a relationship they get involved in on a temporary basis. Usually, they only last a couple months, 5-6 months and these are the reasons why?

Many people go for these kind of relationships just because they are hurting a lot as much as you. All they have to do is get involved with someone else in order to relieve themselves of the pain of the breakup. This relationship will be short-lived and after 4-5 months, they will realize that they were never meant to be together.

Your ex will be out of the rebound relationship and before you know it, they will be begging you back in their arms as long as you do things right.

At this moment, the best you can do is to patiently wait and give yourself time to heal over the break up so that you can improve your life. You can go out with your friends, work out a little bit so that you can get back in shape to make your ex jealous of you once again.

As soon as they are out of the rebound relationship, trust me they will, use this opportunity to make their move.

If your ex comes pleading to you, never tell them "I told you so" or any other insults because that will only makes things worse. Instead be there for them and console them in their time of trouble. Show them the good side of yourself which will help in rebuilding the relationship.

With so much hope, your ex will come to their senses and consider giving you a second chance and before you realize, you will have gladly won your ex back in your life.




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