Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Wednesday, January 26, 2011

Discussing Why People Sometimes Develop A Rebound Relationship

By Lara Jones


You always wonder what to do when your ex is dating someone else. It might mean that he's over you or maybe they are into a rebound relationship which shouldn't bother you so much.

A rebound relationship is basically a relationship they get involved in on a temporary basis. Usually, they only last a couple months, 5-6 months and these are the reasons why?

Many people go for these kind of relationships just because they are hurting a lot as much as you. All they have to do is get involved with someone else in order to relieve themselves of the pain of the breakup. This relationship will be short-lived and after 4-5 months, they will realize that they were never meant to be together.

Your ex will be out of the rebound relationship and before you know it, they will be begging you back in their arms as long as you do things right.

At this moment, the best you can do is to patiently wait and give yourself time to heal over the break up so that you can improve your life. You can go out with your friends, work out a little bit so that you can get back in shape to make your ex jealous of you once again.

As soon as they are out of the rebound relationship, trust me they will, use this opportunity to make their move.

If your ex comes pleading to you, never tell them "I told you so" or any other insults because that will only makes things worse. Instead be there for them and console them in their time of trouble. Show them the good side of yourself which will help in rebuilding the relationship.

With so much hope, your ex will come to their senses and consider giving you a second chance and before you realize, you will have gladly won your ex back in your life.




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