Afterlife Phil G shares his mailbag to help Lisa from Britain to connect with her father in the Afterlife: "I lost my father, I sense him near, but my thoughts are so mixed up I can't actually know if it's his thoughts or mine..."
"Sensing contact with the afterlife doesn't mean you can easily understand or believe the contact is real or clear, especially if it's someone very close to you - you need to find a way to verify things the contact is real, and not just imagined."
I had the same problem (visitors to my website on contacting the afterlife will know my discovery was accidental, back in 2002) and it's why I developed my simple technique. Firstly, if you sense him around, then he's there. I know some would think that's a nave statement, but it's true and you can verify it yourself in time.
I assume you're past the stage of believing in life after death, and family and friends in the Afterlife are contactable. So we'll move on to knowing the difference between your own thoughts, and those of someone who's 'coming through' to you. The first step, even if you're pretty good at 'feeling' a connection, is to become relaxed. Like a deep meditation phase.
On my web site on contacting the afterlife, I share many ideas to help, most of it free, including instructions, a YouTube video, and a list of books and guides to help. But the starting point is relaxing. I find it hard to get clear detail if I am busy, rushed, or thinking about too many things. So the first step is to be very relaxed, to the point of not being aware of anything else around you. Whilst I suggest my own audio guide "Contact Family in the Afterlife yourself", any meditation will do.
In order to get clear messages or feelings is to discern the difference between the thoughts in your head, and the INCOMING thoughts. One key is to not ask for specific 'signs', but to accept whatever comes through. Maybe you won't get what you're expecting, but gradually you will get things clearly, becoming easier the more you try.
What you need to do next is separate your thoughts from those you are receiving those in the Afterlife. I find the starting point is to be very relaxed, but then to try NOT to get any specific thoughts, and accept whatever comes through. You may not get what you want right now, but you will start to sense things, often that seem odd or insignificant, but it will become clearer the more you try.
Lastly, you want to verify what just happened is not your own thoughts, and my suggestion is to ask for something you don't know, or something you're forgotten. Something you don't know can be anything. In my wife's case, the final 'proof' she needed to verify I was sharing messages from her father was for me to ask if she had knocked a round cylinder containing a bunch of pens and pencils off her desk today? Something I didn't know, and did not even know about the cylinder.
In my book 'Soul Matters " the Voice Within' I talk about my Grandma coming through (who passed away when I was about 7) showing me a plate with a 'scone' on it. I had no idea what this meant, until I heard her soft voice say "don't you remember the scones?' - then I remembered. I had asked my mum many times to make scones like my Grandma (who's British, and they make scones completely different from Australians!). I had completely forgotten that.
So ask, and trust the answer, even if what you get does not make sense - and over the next few hours or days it will, and it will verify your connection. In your case, I understand you already sense him near, and don't really need to know how to connect clearly with him, but I've shared these things because I feel if you do these small simple steps, you'll go from sensing he's with you to getting clear messages and being able to verify it's real.
I hope this works for you. Tell me how you get on in a few months by using the feedback link on the website (philg.net.au). I'm sure you'll get the clarity and proof you desire.
Phil G
"Sensing contact with the afterlife doesn't mean you can easily understand or believe the contact is real or clear, especially if it's someone very close to you - you need to find a way to verify things the contact is real, and not just imagined."
I had the same problem (visitors to my website on contacting the afterlife will know my discovery was accidental, back in 2002) and it's why I developed my simple technique. Firstly, if you sense him around, then he's there. I know some would think that's a nave statement, but it's true and you can verify it yourself in time.
I assume you're past the stage of believing in life after death, and family and friends in the Afterlife are contactable. So we'll move on to knowing the difference between your own thoughts, and those of someone who's 'coming through' to you. The first step, even if you're pretty good at 'feeling' a connection, is to become relaxed. Like a deep meditation phase.
On my web site on contacting the afterlife, I share many ideas to help, most of it free, including instructions, a YouTube video, and a list of books and guides to help. But the starting point is relaxing. I find it hard to get clear detail if I am busy, rushed, or thinking about too many things. So the first step is to be very relaxed, to the point of not being aware of anything else around you. Whilst I suggest my own audio guide "Contact Family in the Afterlife yourself", any meditation will do.
In order to get clear messages or feelings is to discern the difference between the thoughts in your head, and the INCOMING thoughts. One key is to not ask for specific 'signs', but to accept whatever comes through. Maybe you won't get what you're expecting, but gradually you will get things clearly, becoming easier the more you try.
What you need to do next is separate your thoughts from those you are receiving those in the Afterlife. I find the starting point is to be very relaxed, but then to try NOT to get any specific thoughts, and accept whatever comes through. You may not get what you want right now, but you will start to sense things, often that seem odd or insignificant, but it will become clearer the more you try.
Lastly, you want to verify what just happened is not your own thoughts, and my suggestion is to ask for something you don't know, or something you're forgotten. Something you don't know can be anything. In my wife's case, the final 'proof' she needed to verify I was sharing messages from her father was for me to ask if she had knocked a round cylinder containing a bunch of pens and pencils off her desk today? Something I didn't know, and did not even know about the cylinder.
In my book 'Soul Matters " the Voice Within' I talk about my Grandma coming through (who passed away when I was about 7) showing me a plate with a 'scone' on it. I had no idea what this meant, until I heard her soft voice say "don't you remember the scones?' - then I remembered. I had asked my mum many times to make scones like my Grandma (who's British, and they make scones completely different from Australians!). I had completely forgotten that.
So ask, and trust the answer, even if what you get does not make sense - and over the next few hours or days it will, and it will verify your connection. In your case, I understand you already sense him near, and don't really need to know how to connect clearly with him, but I've shared these things because I feel if you do these small simple steps, you'll go from sensing he's with you to getting clear messages and being able to verify it's real.
I hope this works for you. Tell me how you get on in a few months by using the feedback link on the website (philg.net.au). I'm sure you'll get the clarity and proof you desire.
Phil G
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Miss someone special? Family who have passed away are still with you. Afterlife Phil G shares his views on Life After Death and on Contacting the Afterlife, giving hope to ordinary people around the world.
