Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Wednesday, March 7, 2012

What is the Best Coronation Method

By Logan Hutts


What is the Best Option -- Traditional Funeral and Burial or Cremation?

It is really truly that a loss of a loved one could also mean loss or money since you really need to shed for the funeral and burial. When you are grieving, you also have to think for these. If you do not have over $10000, you can never give your departed loved ones a traditional funeral and burial. In order that you can save from all of these, cremation is there. It will decrease your expenses for the funeral and burial.

Several reasons would explain that cremation is a reasonable option that you can have if you want to save. In cremation, the family can still have the time for viewing and funeral service also. They can are offered this after the cremation process. Through this, they can even save since they need not set a budget for embalming and other preparations.

Traditional funeral and viewing won't also happen when the cremation process is chosen. Most of the time, people who select cremation would go for a memorial service right after the cremation process.

The casket that you need for the traditional burial would already let you spend some money. This will not be the case in cremation for the body will just be simply placed in a box that is designed to be placed in the cremation oven. In the traditional funeral and burial, you also have to buy a lot for the grave site. This is expensive and it can cost you to more than 15000 dollars. On top of this expense, you need to spend for the maintenance of the grave after the burial.

The traditional funeral and burial can really be very expensive rather than cremation in the sense that all things like the funeral service from the home to the church and then the bringing of the body from the church to the final grave site is all absent in cremation. Expenses can be incurred during the process like transportation and etc.

One you already have $695-$1365, you can already afford cremation. Cremation price can even be more or less than this based on your location. This is a lot lesser rather than the traditional funeral and burial service.

The best memorial that families could ever give to their loved ones is through having a living memorial of them. This could give both them and their departed loved ones peace and tranquility.

It would be better that you select decorative urns and add some personal touch in it rather than buy a casket. You can never see the casket after the day of the burial. Getting some memorial bookmarks is also a good idea so that you can pay tribute to their lives.

There is also uniquely designed bench that you can choose. Use this and set your own little garden with all the favorite things of your deceased loved ones. This is a sort of a personal memorial and this is very accessible.

When you compare both the cremation and traditional funeral and burial, cremation is a lot cheaper. Families can have more savings if ever they opt for cremation when paying their last honors for their departing loved ones.At times, we could even be facing financial difficulties in order to give our deceased loved ones the best funeral and burial that we could offer since we are never sure if they left us with the amount that could cover it.




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