Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Wednesday, July 6, 2011

Gay Holiday Tours To Egypt

By Howie Holben


Egypt hosts a wide variety of historical, cultural and religious sites, which makes the entire country fascinating. Gay travel to Egypt can include anything from taking a cruise on the Nile, crossing the desert on a camel, shopping in open-air souks, and taking in the awe-inspiring Great Pyramids of Giza, to shopping and dining in modern cities and relaxing on the pristine white sands of world-famous beaches. From the Temple of Edfu and the burial tombs in the Valley of Kings, to browsing through the Khan al Khalili Bazaar or visiting King Tutankhamun's treasures in the Egyptian Museum in Cairo, Egypt truly has endless offerings. Folks planning a gay vacation to Africa will not want to pass up the mystique and allure of Egypt, which is an excellent choice for gay travel.

While Egypt is a great destination for gay vacations, there are some points of interest to members of the LGBT community. The Egyptian government has become more aggressive in its efforts to arrest and imprison gay men in recent years, including a very public trial of over 50 men arrested on a boat hosting a night club in 2001 and several undercover sting operations in gathering spots, online chat rooms and other venues, which have led to arrests and imprisonment.

While Egyptian men are usually the focus of these raids and online undercover operations, local women and male and female tourists have also been arrested. There are no laws that specifically ban same-sex sexual activity conducted in private between consenting adults; however, laws against debauchery, contempt for religion and other similar behaviors have been used in recent years to persecute members of the LGBT community in Egypt.

That being said, this does not at all mean that Egypt should be avoided when it comes to gay vacation travel, or that visitors will be confronted with constant homophobia from locals. In contrast, most travelers who have taken Egyptian gay vacations have found the locals to be welcoming and warm, and have reported no issues with the police or government during their stay. While there is no real, visible LGBT community in most parts of the country, there are well-known gathering places in Luxor, Alexandria, Dahab, Aswan, Cairo and other larger cities. Of course, discretion is important when visiting local hotspots, since the police force is also aware of these hangouts.

Egypt is a land of mystery with several must-see historical and cultural attractions. To experience some of the best offerings of Egypt, while also helping to ensure a safe trip without hassles, those seeking gay vacations to Egypt should consider taking in this intriguing country as part of a gay travel tour, or at the very least, going through a travel agency that is aware of issues of concern to the LGBT community and is able to provide the information necessary for safe, fulfilling gay vacations to Egypt.




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The Causes Of Drug and Alcohol Addiction Relapse by John Bibb

By Rome Batchelor


RELAPSE (ree -laps) To slip back; to return to a former state - either in health or morals. Source: Webster's Dictionary.

Alcohol and drug addiction is a chronic, progressive and fatal disease if untreated. Due to the severity of the disease, relapse is a particular concern in the treatment of addiction.

According to the staff of The Owl's Nest Recovery Community in Florence, SC, "The act of drinking or drugging is the end of the process. The symptoms can take place weeks and sometimes months and years before the relapse actually occurs." Through a variety of workshops and educational seminars, The Owl's Nest emphasizes this condition as a mental obsession. This three-part illness includes:

Illness of the mind Illness of the body Illness of the spirit

In short, the illness of the mind occurs when an addict realizes they can't not use, but use anyway. It has become a mental obsession or an idea that drives out all other thoughts. The addicted person believes, "This time will be different." They believe in a lie. With the illness of the body, the addict can't use. Their use has become an allergy - an abnormal reaction to a common substance. Once they put the substance in their body they can't stop. This begins the phenomenon of craving. The illness of the spirit is when the addict can't change. The addict becomes blocked from God because of resentments, guilt, shame, and/or fear. "Self" becomes much more important than the "spirit" and over time this becomes overwhelming and the addict falls deeper and deeper into their addiction.

When dealing with addiction, we know that while the addict keeps away from their substance of choice, they may have the ability to do so for months or even years. They act or may even react like other men or women. We are also certain that once they take any addictive substance into their system, something happens, both in the bodily and mental sense. This makes it almost impossible for the addicted person to stop. Therefore, the primary problem of the addict centers in the mind, rather than in the body. They experience an overwhelming sense of powerlessness over their drink or drug - becoming unable to leave it alone, no matter how strong the need, want or urge.

For the alcoholic or addict, whether in a detox in Tampa, FL for cocaine addiction or a rehab in Florence, SC, for dependence on opiates, asking for help is not a sign of weakness. It is the start of a lifelong journey free from the bondage of self and an introduction to a new beginning. The 12 Steps of Alcoholics Anonymous has been used in rehab centers throughout the world. In any meeting, anywhere, AA members share their experience, strength, and hope in order to stay sober and help other alcoholics. It is not uncommon to hear an AA member refer to a relapse as a SLIP - - - an acronym for "Sobriety Loses Its Priority". Addicts and alcoholics in recovery are not good people doing bad things, but sick people trying to get better.

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