Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Thursday, February 7, 2013

Meaningful Family Collaborations For A Funeral

By Cindy Campbell


Loss in the family brings emotional pain]. Each family member takes a break from their usual lives to focus on their dead. Regular activities from important business meetings to simple coffee dates are set-aside to support their family in time of mourning. Organizing the funeral is the top priority.

Yet, taking attention of the funeral arrangements is not as simple as making coffee. There are many tasks involved in supervising a funeral. The death in the family becomes an event for members to work together as a team. The common grief moves the family and relatives to repair relationships. Petty and serious conflicts are put aside for the sake of the departed.

Even while having morning coffee, particulars of the funeral could be discussed like provisions with the morgue, treatment of the corpse, the type of the coffin, the rituals of the wake, cuisine to be served, flowers, announcements, public notices, and many other responsibilities.

Another good option for bereaved families is to hire a funeral services seeing, like casket services Singapore company to take care of all details and tasks of the affair. Christian funeral Singapore makes definite their customers are well taken care of. Assigning the funeral services Singapore bestow the family members quality time together. With less interference, the relatives are focused on rebuilding relationships and renewing kin with each other. This way, the loss in the family becomes more meaningful for everyone. Bonds are rekindled like a warm pot of freshly brewed coffee.

Because the demise of a family member could already cause stress, hiring a funeral services management company is ideal. This way, the kin would not be anxious about other arrangements and they could just concentrate on attending to relatives. Funeral services save the family time time and lessen their stress.




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