How to Attract the Perfect Relationship

By Kyle Larson

For those of us that are single, we may be scouring the world and online for that special individual who we can intimately share our life with. You may have used the theory behind the law of attraction to manifest your ideal man or women into reality.

When using the law of attraction, trying to get the right thoughts and feelings to surface can be tricky. It's not easy to feel the emotions of a loving relationship when you are single and alone. The following visualization may help you with this problem. In this visualization I will be referring to your partner in the feminine pronoun (she/her), but of course it can pertain to either gender depending on your personal preference.

Imagine dining at a fancy restaurant with your significant other seated next to you. It is a romantic evening and a moment for the two of you to be alone together.

Following dinner the two of you go for a walk along the coastline. Listen intently to the pounding of the ocean waves. You stop to look at the sky as you hold her waist around your arms. You see a falling star, and wish for this night to never end.

She invites you back to her place. You have a seat on the couch while she prepares two glasses of champagne. She pops in a DVD, dim the lights, and hands you your glass and takes a seat next to you.

It doesn't matter what movie is playing, because neither of you are paying attention. The two of you are facing each other. After a few refills of wine, you begin to feel a little tipsy. The next thing you know, everything blacks out.

You awake in bed the next morning, though this is not your bedroom, this is hers, and she is in bed with you, still asleep. You don't quite remember what happened last night, but you could see your clothes, and hers, strewn over the floor. That pretty much sums up what happened last night.

You stroke her hair as she continues to slumber. There is an overwhelming feeling of joy in your heart, that you are in her life, and she in yours. Remain in this state of bliss for as long as you choose to.

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Ways To Deal With A Breakup Faster

By Kelly Stamford

Everyone you come across has likely gone through a break up at one point or another in life. They are known to be painful. There is a heavy emotional burden that comes with a breakup. The loneliness is also unbearable but in times like that, one should take hid that friends are there.

A breakup ordeal can leave one really wounded internally from the hardship. The best thing you should do if you happen to go through that is to intervene with the following ideas to arrest the pain.

Accepting to swallow the bitter peal and accepting that there has been a breakup is a big decision, to be frank. It is only until you learn to accept things that you will learn to keep on advancing with your own life. If it was beyond your control, get used to it and move on.

You need to take the positives from all break ups. You must have learnt a certain lesson the moment you broke up with your ex. Use this to strengthen your understanding of the next relationship you will get into. It will boost your chances of avoiding certain goofs.

There will come random bouts of self hatred. People find a lot of solace in blaming things they did or characters inherent to them. This is not what you should be thinking about right now. Avoid pointing fingers.

You can stay out of your ex's way if need be. Many a times, you will be tempted to just wish it all didn't happen. You wish you could be holding each other once again. Resist that urge that comes, making you want to even go and look at his house from afar.

Turn on the creativity and go out to conquer new possibilities that you have never bothered before. Engage in different and new activity.

It is wise to take to the pen if you want to keep the emotions in the cage. Writing after a break up is known to be therapy. If you have all those ravaging feelings of animosity within you, loosen their leashes by writing them a journal.

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