"Is my Mum at peace, now she has crossed over? She died when I was very young and living with my Nanna. Am I to blame? Does she forgive me? I need to know she's okay, watching over us and at peace". This question to "Afterlife Phil G" comes from England, and Phil shares his view on this.
Writes another [USA] "Weeks before my husband died (unexpectedly), a thought came in my head that he was going to die of a heart attack. Not long after this he died in his sleep (heart). Should I have taken this as a warning? Am I to blame? I need to know he forgives me. I know visits are possible. Should I have used this 'whisper' to save him?
Phil replies: "When someone crosses over, I feel sure they do not blame us or judge us harshly. So you need to stop thinking those things, and let that go. They accept us as we are, and accept what happened. I feel they have a greater understanding of things, and can see far more than we can imagine. Like a parent who understands their teenage child better than they think, and accepts some things in light of the bigger picture. I find this often in 'reading's.
Whenever I write an article or reply along these lines, there's any number of people who may laugh at my words, but I want YOU to be the judge, to be the proof. You don't need to take my word for it. On my web site I share much free information about contacting the afterlife. I have coached many in my simple technique, of recognizing the signs of contact from family in the Afterlife, and it is from this perspective that I help people to go a step further and ASK or share their concerns of guilt or blame, with the person they miss on 'the other side' and ask for verification to confirm they are not imagining it.
You see, you MAY say I wouldn't know, but you can't say that about yourself. You don't have to write to me, or see a psychic. Follow my advice on the web (philg.net.au). Once you've started understanding the contact you're already having with family and friends in the afterlife, then you can move on. You just ASK them your concerns.
For the lady who lost her husband, talk to him about your warning of a heart attack. For the lady who lost her mother when she was a child, talk to her about your feelings. You were just a child, so I am sure there will be a flood of emotions and thoughts. Talk to them about what's on your mind. In your head, or talk out loud, it doesn't matter. My video 'CoffeeTime' (see 'Afterlife Phil G' on YouTube) provides a good environment to do this, or when you're relaxed and lulling off to sleep, talk to them about what's on your mind. Share your feelings.
You will get caught up in the emotion, but that's fine. Let it happen, flow. Stay in the moment, and forget about the world for a few minutes. That's the reason we don't hear from loved ones in the Afterlife - we're too busy and rushed and concerned about things. Now you're in that moment, let it flow and shut everything else out. Don't worry about if it's real, or imagined.
You will find that, if not immediately, certainly gradually as you stay 'connected', that in between your own words and thoughts, you get images, words, feelings, coming into your mind, randomly, unexpectedly, from no-where. Don't block them. Don't try to analyze them. Don't ask what they mean. Just let those thoughts mingle. If it starts to make sense, go with the flow of the thoughts. Once you start doing this, it becomes really easy. A bit like having a conversation with a friend that starts with boats and ends up talking about cars, and you don't really know how you changed the subject.
Thoughts, images, words, or feelings that randomly enter your head are from the person in the afterlife you want to connect with. Prove it yourself (much information on my web site to help you). The thing here is to accept things as they come through, even if you're not sure or it doesn't make sense. In your cases, I am sure you will feel an enormous weight off your shoulders. You will feel forgiveness and calming, and you can feel it. Now follow my advice to confirm that feeling is real.
"Ghost", the film from the 1980's staring Demi Moore and Patrick Swayze, shows how Patrick Swayze's character still wants to be part of her life, to help her, comfort her, protect her, despite the fact he has died. He struggles to show her that he is with her, because she expects too much proof. Finally it's a silly random remark that shocks her into belief - but she nearly missed the chance. As shown in the film, certainly not all psychics are sincere, but there are some who want to help, and confirm that loved ones who have crossed over are with you - now. Anytime you want them or they want to warn you of something. And regardless of the issues, concerns, or words you want to share, they can hear you, talk to you, and you can verify the experience yourself. - Phil G
Writes another [USA] "Weeks before my husband died (unexpectedly), a thought came in my head that he was going to die of a heart attack. Not long after this he died in his sleep (heart). Should I have taken this as a warning? Am I to blame? I need to know he forgives me. I know visits are possible. Should I have used this 'whisper' to save him?
Phil replies: "When someone crosses over, I feel sure they do not blame us or judge us harshly. So you need to stop thinking those things, and let that go. They accept us as we are, and accept what happened. I feel they have a greater understanding of things, and can see far more than we can imagine. Like a parent who understands their teenage child better than they think, and accepts some things in light of the bigger picture. I find this often in 'reading's.
Whenever I write an article or reply along these lines, there's any number of people who may laugh at my words, but I want YOU to be the judge, to be the proof. You don't need to take my word for it. On my web site I share much free information about contacting the afterlife. I have coached many in my simple technique, of recognizing the signs of contact from family in the Afterlife, and it is from this perspective that I help people to go a step further and ASK or share their concerns of guilt or blame, with the person they miss on 'the other side' and ask for verification to confirm they are not imagining it.
You see, you MAY say I wouldn't know, but you can't say that about yourself. You don't have to write to me, or see a psychic. Follow my advice on the web (philg.net.au). Once you've started understanding the contact you're already having with family and friends in the afterlife, then you can move on. You just ASK them your concerns.
For the lady who lost her husband, talk to him about your warning of a heart attack. For the lady who lost her mother when she was a child, talk to her about your feelings. You were just a child, so I am sure there will be a flood of emotions and thoughts. Talk to them about what's on your mind. In your head, or talk out loud, it doesn't matter. My video 'CoffeeTime' (see 'Afterlife Phil G' on YouTube) provides a good environment to do this, or when you're relaxed and lulling off to sleep, talk to them about what's on your mind. Share your feelings.
You will get caught up in the emotion, but that's fine. Let it happen, flow. Stay in the moment, and forget about the world for a few minutes. That's the reason we don't hear from loved ones in the Afterlife - we're too busy and rushed and concerned about things. Now you're in that moment, let it flow and shut everything else out. Don't worry about if it's real, or imagined.
You will find that, if not immediately, certainly gradually as you stay 'connected', that in between your own words and thoughts, you get images, words, feelings, coming into your mind, randomly, unexpectedly, from no-where. Don't block them. Don't try to analyze them. Don't ask what they mean. Just let those thoughts mingle. If it starts to make sense, go with the flow of the thoughts. Once you start doing this, it becomes really easy. A bit like having a conversation with a friend that starts with boats and ends up talking about cars, and you don't really know how you changed the subject.
Thoughts, images, words, or feelings that randomly enter your head are from the person in the afterlife you want to connect with. Prove it yourself (much information on my web site to help you). The thing here is to accept things as they come through, even if you're not sure or it doesn't make sense. In your cases, I am sure you will feel an enormous weight off your shoulders. You will feel forgiveness and calming, and you can feel it. Now follow my advice to confirm that feeling is real.
"Ghost", the film from the 1980's staring Demi Moore and Patrick Swayze, shows how Patrick Swayze's character still wants to be part of her life, to help her, comfort her, protect her, despite the fact he has died. He struggles to show her that he is with her, because she expects too much proof. Finally it's a silly random remark that shocks her into belief - but she nearly missed the chance. As shown in the film, certainly not all psychics are sincere, but there are some who want to help, and confirm that loved ones who have crossed over are with you - now. Anytime you want them or they want to warn you of something. And regardless of the issues, concerns, or words you want to share, they can hear you, talk to you, and you can verify the experience yourself. - Phil G
About the Author:
Grieving? Mourning the loss of a loved one?? Family and Friends who have gone to 'the other side'are still with you. Afterlife Phil G shares comforting news on Life After Death and shares his simple method of Contacting The Afterlife to find understanding, comfort and answers,, yourself.
