Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Thursday, May 3, 2012

How To Be A Good Vegetarian House Guest

By Owen Jones


Becoming a vegetarian means a massive lifestyle change for the majority of vegetarians and as we all know, lifestyle alterations are the most difficult to make. Ceasing eating meat is as hard for most individuals as is ceasing smoking, stopping drinking alcohol or taking more exercise. However, becoming a vegetarian does not just have an impact on you, it also affects all your friends and family.

It does get easier as you become more experienced at eating alternatives and dealing with people who do not agree with you, but it can be difficult in the start. The hardest situations that you find yourself in regularly are: dining out with friends; going to parties and being a house guest. Perhaps being a house guest is the most difficult, if your host is not a vegetarian, so this article is on how to be a good vegetarian house guest.

If you consume eggs, cheese and fish and drink milk, then you will not be so much of a problem to your host, but if you do not eat those things either then you will have to work harder at how to be a good vegetarian house guest. The first thing to do is make your host aware of the fact that you are a vegetarian (and what sort of vegetarian) as early as you can.

You should not feel guilty about being a vegetarian. After all, if you had an allergy you would not feel ashamed and you would mention it to your host without reluctance. It should not be a problem, most individuals have a friend or two who is a vegetarian and anyway, your hosts will want you to enjoy your vacation, so they will do everything they can to satisfy your dietary needs.

You should discuss what you can and cannot eat with your host as soon as you can after you receive your invitation. You may be able to help your hosts plan the meals or you may be able to make tips as to what you can eat for breakfast and what you can eat for snacks. Vegetarian sandwiches are an excellent snack which anyone can prepare without any problem.

There might be things that you like to eat or drink that a non-vegetarian would not be reasonably expected to have in the fridge. For example, you might like soya milk or you might like a special spread. You cannot expect your host to have such things. It will go a long way to making your hosts feel more at ease with your diet and it will make your stay more enjoyable too.

If you fancy helping entertain your hosts and other guests, you could offer to cook a vegetarian meal for everybody. This may be a fantastic manner of talking of your reasons for becoming a vegetarian and showing individuals how enjoyable vegetarian food can be.

It would also be a useful way to help your hosts with cooking for and entertaining everyone. The best way how to be a good vegetarian house guest is to muck in and strive not to become a nuisance.




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