Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Tuesday, March 12, 2013

How To Face The Death Of A Beloved

By Anne Andrews


The loss of a loved one is a painful experience. The death of a beloved, unexpected or not, can be devastating.

Death leaves you with emotional wounds and obscure feelings of emptiness. Are you beginning to lose your sense of purpose because your significant other is no longer by your side? Are you having a tough time moving on and facing the loss of the one you love? Have no fear. Here are effective ways to cope with the death of a significant other:

Accept the loss. Facing the reality of your loved one's death enables you to initiate the process of letting go. Do not attempt to escape reality by focusing on distractions such as drugs or alcohol. Ignoring the anguish you're experiencing may lead to serious consequences like trauma and depression. Try to acquaint with the notion that your beloved is gone. Embracing this simple so will help you achieve peace.

Surround yourself with people who care. Isolating yourself from the rest of the world and keeping your emotions bottled up will only make things worse. During a time of loss, you need people for support. You need the comfort of family and friends who can go through the process of grieving with you.

Talk to people about what you're going through. Express yourself. Talk about your regrets and pains. Interacting with trustworthy individuals can help you overcome the feeling of being alone. This cathartic experience allows you to confront your negative emotions.

Coping with death and grief takes time. The best thing you can do is to let time heal your wounds. Also, steer away from possible stressors that may worsen your agony. If you wish to avoid the hassles of making funeral arrangements, hire a reliable Singapore funeral parlour provider that offers a complete deck of bereavement services and crematorium Singapore services.




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