Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Tuesday, December 4, 2012

Common Casket Options

By Michal Henderson


Death is unavoidable for all. But understanding that fact doesn't make it less painful for the surviving family members. Still, when the time comes for a family member to die, we have to make plans for their funeral. There are lots of things that need to be organised in a funeral service. And probably the most expensive thing in the service is the casket. In Singapore, caskets cost from a thousand dollars and up, depending on the type and make.

Caskets are sometimes alternately called coffins because they have the same use, which is to hold the body of the deceased person. They have slight distinctions, though. Coffins are pointed hexagonal or sometimes octagonal box that has a wider width at the shoulder and smaller dimensions at the head. A casket, meanwhile, is a rectangular box that has the same width and height from top to bottom. It is typically padded, and has divided cover for viewing.

The most common material used for coffins is wood, whereas for caskets it's either metal or wood. For wood, there are pine, oak, mahogany, and maple. Metal caskets are usually made from copper or stainless steel. There are even caskets that are made from gold, platinum, or other expensive materials. These caskets normally can be custom-built and purchased in advance.

The material used to build the casket does not matter to a lot of people, though. Many of them only care about how the casket looks. They can choose from the usual casket colours, such as white, black, grey, and in the natural wooden veneer, or from a non-traditional shade, which normally is the favourite colour of the demised. As for the appearance of the casket, they can either choose a half-couch or a full-couch. This determines the outer lid of the casket. Full-couch means the full body of the deceased can be shown, while half-couch can expose only the upper body part.

In Singapore, many funeral homes offer Casket services besides other funeral necessities. Caskets aren't refundable after use, of course, but there are memorial homes that allow casket rental for those who select cremation since caskets are only needed during the memorial service for the viewing. Fitting and delivery are also usually included in most casket services in Singapore if the family of the dead opted not to buy from the funeral home.




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