Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Thursday, August 9, 2018

Why You Should Invest In Online Memorial Website

By Timothy Gibson


After the departure of a loved one, for whatever reasons, family members and close friends look for ways of making the presence valuable. Today, the Internet offers manifold options when looking for winning ways of memorializing the loved and lost. To create a presence, an online memorial website is effective. You can create on own or seek help from experts.

Ever since the evolution of the websites, many people are able to leave messages expressing disbelief, sorrow, and support to the loved ones whether they are known or not. A general social media account, though helpful, are sometimes untraceable if the user posts other messages. With the memorial services, the main goal is to go through the hard phase and one compelling thing is the traceability of the messages even after years.

As you learn about the differences in websites, you will come to terms with a large collection of unique features. Some of the basic options are countless stories, photos, songs, and virtual candles. The upgraded version, on the other hand, allows users to include a wide range of verses from religious books, enhance video capability, and make donations whenever they desire. You have the final word and can also change the privacy status as desired.

The sites are beneficial because you can send invitations to as many people as you desire, create a guestbook and include instructions for checking in and attaching a note. Additionally, you have the freedom to add videos, stories, photos, inspirational notes and any other thing that can be relevant to the topic.

The blossoming of websites is a phenomenon that is worth celebrating as it has opened up the lines of communication. This might look like an ordinary thing but when criminal investigations are ongoing, you will appreciate getting a means of passing a message if you cannot bear the sight of murder and suicide. Some members are unable to take in the news and the quick links are helpful.

The connections are beneficial because people handle matters in an orderly manner. After identifying a suitable site and creating an account using the few steps, members enjoy a trial period. The offer allows conversational threads where you can talk about preparations. This is where you will meet individuals who may be willing to help the grievers. The good thing is the sharing of personal messages and creating memos so that participants can see the duties allocated to volunteers.

There are negative and positive comments about the genuineness of displayed emotions. Despite the negativity, as long as a website is set in the right way, it gives enough time for reflection as you can see how the departed related with different people. No one is restricted from using the sites as long as the messages are for the benefit of the grieving members.

The interconnection between the services and technology has taken communication to a whole new level. Instead of struggling to travel across countries to connect with friends and family, an online message saves the day. Even though it does not replace the need for actual connection, it comes in handy when you are on a tight schedule or when going through financial constraints.




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