Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Wednesday, October 20, 2010

Easy Methods To Win Your Lover Back

By Anna Gray

Before contacting your ex and telling her that you want her back, think about what happened in your relationship. Keep in mind that as long as you don't realize your mistakes, the same thing will happen over and over again. Remember every argument you had and try to see if it was you who was at fault. If it was you, think carefully and try to find the correct way of handling that situation. Doing this will help you realize your mistakes and will allow you to accept and move on to the next stage of your relationship.

The usual problem when couples break up is lack of communication. If you really love your girlfriend then you would do anything just to keep lines open. You will never be too busy for her. You can call her up and ask her if you can go out to meet up. Make sure that you get your act right once she's there. It pays to practice saying what you need to say if you are easily confused. Upon meeting her, let her talk and don't be the guy who rambles away. If she sees that you're willing to change and that you are honest and sincere about your apology, she might change her mind and give you a second chance.

Acknowledging your errors is one way to show your ex-girlfriend that you really want to fix everything. It may be hard for your ego and pride, but learning when and when not to lower your pride is essential for every relationship to work.

One reason men and their girlfriends break up is because of bad habits. This will be the ultimate sacrifice for you. Are you willing to give up something you really love to do just to show her how much you love her? For example cutting down on smoking just because she asked to is a big step in your life. Now if you really want to have her back, then you will try to quit.

Women love men who are successful. Showing your ex that you can strive hard and be successful in life may make her realize that you are worth getting back to. Being successful is a very difficult thing to do and you really have to work hard to earn that title.

Follow these tips and for sure you and your ex will be back together in no time. Once the two of you are back together, please don't go back to who you were. Prove to her that she was right in taking the risk of getting back with you.

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