Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Friday, December 6, 2013

Buying Memorial Stone For Graves And Cemetery Placement

By Tom Tree


When it comes to the choice of headstones for grave installations it is important to consider the quality and value that are provided by a particular retailer in the craftsmanship of the design. A variety of materials can be selected making the choice for the right marker increasingly difficult. Taking some time to assess the benefits and limitations of each can aid in making the best possible purchase.

Granite has been considered one of the sturdiest structures that is increasingly popular because of the beauty and the longevity that it offers. A specific headstone range that is developed by the substance will not need to be maintained on a regular basis and offers natural resistance against the external environment. Such substances are considered a more expensive choice, but inscriptions will be preserved.

Bronze markers are becoming a popular choice because possesses a number of desirable features including longevity and aesthetics. The resilient material is easy to maintain and is a beautiful option that can be developed in a variety of designs. Bronze is more costly in comparison to materials such as granite and concrete.

Stainless steel is another choice that has received increased attention as it proves most durable and truly unique. Inscriptions can be placed on the headstone including images for a custom and personalized approach. There is the option to have the structure handcrafted or selected from an already manufactured ranges that are offered by reliable and reputable retailers in the industry.

Marble has been considered one of the most attractive materials and a cost effective alternative. It does not possess the natural resistance of steel or granite and often succumbs to environmental elements that will cause the deterioration of the inscriptions. Such options offer greater levels of appeal, but it will sustain damage when it is exposed to acid rain.

A heavy material includes sandstone that is also cost effective, but not a common option because it can be replaced with more durable solutions. Cheaper substances such as slate are porous and will deteriorate over time and exposure to environmental hazards. The qualified supplier can assist in advising on the ranges available and affordable alternatives.

It is necessary to take the time to shop around and compare the variety of materials that are available to develop headstones for grave installation. Adhere to the restrictions as stipulated by the cemetery to ensure that the choice of design including size dimensions are met. Assess the costs for the material, labor, and the installation of markers that prove most affordable and best represent the memory of the deceased.




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