Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Friday, June 11, 2010

These Magic Moments

By Margaret Hardisty

Mark became furious when his wife, Mindy, had an affair. "He's a jerk!" Mark fumed. That "jerk" was doing the things for her that Mark used to do before they were married. Mr. Jerk made Mindy feel beautiful, desirable and loved. Mark loved his wife deeply, but didn't show it except when he wanted sex. Even then it was nothing much but raw passion. He wasn't able to save his marriage.

Mindy then went on to marry the "jerk" and was doomed to repeat the same patterns of neglect she had been in with Mark. Love Relationship Headquarters sees this same scenario over and over again. That's why we have felt compelled to help people get on a different pathway in their lives.

Women want to be worshipped and adored outside the bedroom as well as within. Of course, she wants that inside the bedroom, too, but if she doesn't get it "outside," she doesn't appreciate what she gets "inside."

Women want to receive attention for other things she is good at. Jerilou complained that her husband plopped down in front of the TV the minute he got home for work, insisted that they eat in front of it, and watched it afterward until bedtime. "I hate to say I'm jealous of the boob tube," she said, "but I feel as if he doesn't know I'm alive. I resent it."

Both of you, if you haven't been filling each other needs to the fullest there is no time like the present to get started. You may be out of practice, or may have never learned exactly how to do this. We are here to help you. Strengthening and saving marriages is our business. It's what we've spent our lives learning how to do. We've seen a lot of successes because our message is unique.

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When Is The Appropriate Time To Start Thinking About Buying A Headstone?

By Tom Tree

No one wants to think about dying. It's an unpleasant thought, but the thing is that we can go about and lose our life at any moment. So, some of you might want to go about and think when is the best time to consider buying a headstone? This is a little hard to say. With this in mind, there are things to consider.

Some will say sooner. They have a design in mind, therefore, they want to know what they are getting. They want it to say something and they don't trust their families to make sure that what they want is what they get. That is just one option.

The first thing is if you have a very dangerous job. Those who risk their life every day is one of those who should think about having plans made ahead of time. One of those things should be buying a headstone. This is something that your family might favor. They might like the fact that this is something that they don't want to have to choose.

Others might find that the family wants a family plot with a family headstone. Therefore, the family should be the ones to choose what they want. They choose to get the headstone early on and with that in mind, they search for something that they both like. This is just another option.

However, sometimes, families like to choose them. They like people to know that the person they buried were amazing family members and more. That is something that gives them comfort. The best thing is to talk with your loved ones to know what they want. Some of them want to do it this way while others choose to do this another way.

This is how some decide when they are going to buy their headstone. When it comes down to it, some don't have the money until they have passed. So, look at what you want. Look at what the family thinks is a good idea. Look at your finances. This could be what tells you what is in your best of interest in ordering your headstone.

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