Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Friday, June 11, 2010

When Is The Appropriate Time To Start Thinking About Buying A Headstone?

By Tom Tree

No one wants to think about dying. It's an unpleasant thought, but the thing is that we can go about and lose our life at any moment. So, some of you might want to go about and think when is the best time to consider buying a headstone? This is a little hard to say. With this in mind, there are things to consider.

Some will say sooner. They have a design in mind, therefore, they want to know what they are getting. They want it to say something and they don't trust their families to make sure that what they want is what they get. That is just one option.

The first thing is if you have a very dangerous job. Those who risk their life every day is one of those who should think about having plans made ahead of time. One of those things should be buying a headstone. This is something that your family might favor. They might like the fact that this is something that they don't want to have to choose.

Others might find that the family wants a family plot with a family headstone. Therefore, the family should be the ones to choose what they want. They choose to get the headstone early on and with that in mind, they search for something that they both like. This is just another option.

However, sometimes, families like to choose them. They like people to know that the person they buried were amazing family members and more. That is something that gives them comfort. The best thing is to talk with your loved ones to know what they want. Some of them want to do it this way while others choose to do this another way.

This is how some decide when they are going to buy their headstone. When it comes down to it, some don't have the money until they have passed. So, look at what you want. Look at what the family thinks is a good idea. Look at your finances. This could be what tells you what is in your best of interest in ordering your headstone.

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