Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Wednesday, June 15, 2011

Save Your Love Through Counselling Services

By Deborah Sanasi


There is no argument about the point that romantic relationships make people happy. Anyone who is in love is easy to identify because he or she just cannot prevent the distinct glow on the face. Nevertheless, despite happy endings that have been highlighted in books and movies, romantic relationships are definitely not roses and sweet chocolates all the time. There are also periods when couples could feel painful thorns and the bitter side of such unions. These are moments when the individuals involved are put in much pain. Because of this and because of the aim of recovering, they should undergo counselling services.

There is wrong impression that still pervades that seeing a psychiatrist means that something is not right with the person's mind. Or, meeting with counselors means that the relationship is breaking up. This is, of course, an utterly wrong conclusion and it is one borne out of ignorance. It is actually like saying that a person who is taking vitamins and supplements already has cancer. When couples go out to consult with a counselor, it is a sign that they are seeking ways to understand their situation and rescue their relationships. Therefore, they are actually trying to prevent a breakup just as vitamins reduce the possibility of disease.

However, couples should not wait too long before scheduling counselling services. It is important that they immediately see a counsellor once they notice some issues regarding their relationship. There may still be a great number of people who think that this would not really lead anywhere and that it would just be a waste of money and time. They should remember though that breakups that occur despite the counselling are usually caused by delays in seeking external intervention. A relationship that is still rocked by a storm could still be manageable but not one that is already upside-down and is sinking fast. Even the smartest captain could not save a ship that is half-filled with water already.

Although there have been many cases when relationships in distress are saved and have become healthier, it must be accepted that sometimes such counselling is no longer effective. When both partners and the counsellor see that there is just no spark left in the relationship, it is possible that it can no longer be resuscitated. The next stage of the counselling would just have to deal with pains of the involved individuals; the counsellors taking steps to help each of them to overcome the impact and to move on.

Couples who live in New South Wales are lucky because of the number of excellent counselors in the area. They can proceed to any facility that offer this opportunity such as counseling services Norwest as well as those in Glenwood, Stanhope Gardens, and Bella Vista. In terms of accessibility, such services are absolutely easy to enjoy. The only thing that could really stop couples from doing so is themselves and their misimpressions on counseling. Unless they learn to overcome such subjectivisms, they would not find it difficult to secure happy and long-term relationships.




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A Gay Trip Guide For India

By Howie Holben


India is a multidimensional country that has much to offer to any type of traveler. From the snowcapped Himalayas to sunny, sandy beaches and all of the diverse terrain in between, gay trips to India includes a plethora of opportunities for adventure or relaxation in this ever-changing country. Long-known as a nation with a distinct dedication to spirituality and natural healing, a gay vacation to India is an ideal choice for those looking for the opportunity to refocus on what is important in life, reprioritize, and awaken or reawaken their spiritual center.

The multidimensional character of India also allows for gay vacations that focus on exploring sacred, historical and cultural sites, trekking through untouched wilderness, shopping in traditional bazaars and high-end boutiques, indulging in delicious cuisine or learning about life in a rural village.

Folks on a gay vacation in India will likely find that it can be a challenge to locate visible LGBT communities, even in large metropolitan areas. Of course, there are some identifiable gathering and cruising spots, mostly in urban cities. An important step towards equality was taken in 2009 when the Delhi High Court voted to overturn a--8-year-old law that defined same-sex sexual activity as a punishable act under "carnal intercourse against the order of nature." This law has been on the books since the time of British colonial rule and is still enforced throughout India. While Delhi no longer includes same-sex relations under this law, it is still used in the majority of the country to occasionally prosecute both gay and straight people and can result in punishments that include high fines and imprisonment, up to a life sentence.

While activists are fervently working to change this law throughout the country, folks who take a gay trip to India should be aware that both gay and straight people can still be prosecuted under this law, which can result in fines and imprisonment, including life sentences. Nonetheless, there are still some hangouts that can be identified, as well as cruising areas, which can be found in most countries, regardless of conservative laws or beliefs. Both the government and Indian society have mixed feelings about LGBT people, but a continued movement towards acceptance continues to make India an even better destination for gay tours.

While the subject of same-sex relationships may still be somewhat taboo in India, it is a popular destination for gay vacations and most LGBT travelers report no problems during their gay tours. One way to help ensure that you do not experience issues during a gay vacation to India is to participate in an organized tour arranged by a well-established, professional company offering exceptional tour opportunities that cater to the LGBT community. Opting for traveling to India as part of a tour group is a great way to make sure you do not miss some of the most popular attractions, visits to sacred temples and life-changing experiences available when traveling in India. Opting for traveling to India as part of a group is a great way to make sure you do not miss some of the most popular attractions, visits to sacred temples and life-changing experiences available when traveling in India.




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