Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Friday, April 6, 2012

The Psychology of Abuse and the Trauma Afterward

By Charlie Toorchwood


Child abuse causes trauma and other psychological effects to any child. One effect of child abuse injury is the victim growing up to become abusers themselves or worse, becoming violent perpetrators. Many bad guys who finish up in prison are victims of child abuse due to their infancy psychological shock. Child abuse incidents can't be undone. Through counseling and visiting a psychologist, techniques of coping can be learned to cope with agitation and depression caused by child abuse.

Some common psychological effects due to child abuse are alcohol addiction, drug dependance, anger management, and low to no self esteem. Psychological effects from child abuse trauma can be minimized with a bit of help from a psychologist and through counseling. Consulting a psychologist may help to lessen the feelings brought up by the memories of abuse, and in a few cases it can help to deal with the effects that have developed over an entire life.

Getting rid of the results of abuseIf either your companion or you are hurting your child, asking for help from a psychological therapist or couples counseling needs to be done immediately. You or a loved one can face anger management classes, parenting counseling, drug reliance and alcohol addiction cures to help handle the behavioral challenges.

Stopping the effects of abuse.

If you have suffered child abuse in the past and have been coping with its effects, you might want to seek counseling which may help to address depression, anxiousness, grief, loss, and other forms of behavioral challenges.

These counseling sessions may help you to learn the simplest way to reduce the effects that child abuse had on you or on the one that you love. Don't forget you've got to also know your limits and care for yourself. Work on creating a good network of family you can always rely upon




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