Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Friday, March 18, 2011

Help For Couples Trying To Get Pregnant

By Angela Bishop


When a couple decide that they want a baby, they are usually in a hurry trying to get pregnant. Sometimes it does not happen as quickly as they want it to. When it does not happen quick enough, couples usually tend to start searching for natural remedies before they head over to the doctor.

Couples should be realistic about the process of pregnancy so that they are not unduly disappointed. Around twenty percent of couples will probably experience difficulty in conceiving a child. Many of these issues are related to being infertile and they can be treated. Making some healthy lifestyle changes can change this and the couples can soon be on their way to having a healthy child.

The time it takes for conception to happen varies from couple to couple. Timing is critical when want to conceive. The sperm needs to be waiting for the egg to appear. Eggs survive for only one day and sperm can survive for as much as five days. This is why there is much sperm needed for when the egg ovulates.

It has been revealed by research that couples that are in their late twenties to mid thirties have a forty percent probability of conceiving if they have sex forty eight hours before ovulation takes place. Should the male be more than five years older than the women then this probability will become lower. Women are most fertile in their twenties.

When women have not been able to conceive after twelve months they are usually considered to be infertile. This is on the assumption that they have been regular unprotected sex. Women who have multiple miscarriages will also be deemed to be infertile. Infertility can be divided into two groups and these are primary and secondary infertility.

Experts and successful parents have made many suggestions over the years as to how couples that are trying to get pregnant should go about it. Suggestions include dietary tips, sexual positions, ways to time intercourse and things to avoid. Natural remedies and supplements may also be helpful in improving health concerns that are causing infertility.




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Four Different Mental States Binaural Beats Can Help You Achieve

By Dan Murphy


You may know that utilizing binaural beats lets you to achieve various states of mind. This is achieved by "tuning" your brain into various frequencies. Once your mind is focused on these various frequencies, it is easier to obtain the state you are looking for such as relaxation, positive thinking, increasing your memory, better focus, and more.

Over the last 150 years, scientists have found that various frequencies can be associated with various states of mind. For an example, a frequency of 1 to 3 Hz (Hertz, or changes per minute) may be associated with deeper sleep. Binaural beats allow you to listen to a certain frequency to allow you to achieve different states of mind. And in today's world (versus 150 years ago), it's easier to change your brainwave frequencies with just a CD or MP3 player and headphones.

To get your brain to tune into a specific frequency, slightly different sounds can be delivered to each ear. In the case of binaural beats (there are also other beats called isochronic and monaural beats, but we'll use binaural for the discussion here), a tone is played in in each ear. One tone may be 100 Hz, the other may be played at 108 Hz. This creates a binaural "beat" with the same frequency as the difference of the two (8 Hz). In this case, 8 Hz matches with the theta state of mind which is useful for for creating ideas.

The frequencies which the binaural beats can focus on are referred to as theta, beta, alpha and delta states. These four categories each target different frequencies and thus different states of mind. There is a chance you have heard of these states previously, and these are commonly referenced when discussing binaural beats.

The first category is the beta frequencies. This is the range from 13 Hz to 25 Hz. This range is used to obtain a state of alertness, and reduce anxiety and stress.

The second frequency range would be the alpha frequencies. The alpha frequencies are from 8 to 12 Hz. When the binaural beat is delivered in this range, it assists in "superlearning," positive thinking, and also a state of light relaxation.

From 4 to 7 Hz, you can experience benefits that include deeper relaxation (which is great for meditating), improving your memory, focus, and more. This is the theta range.

Delta frequencies occur at less than 4 Hz. Deep, dreamless sleep, an increase in immune functions, lucid dreaming and losing awareness of your body can occur in this range.

As you can see, using binaural beats in the various ranges can trigger a huge array of mental states, resulting in a multitude of benefits for those who give them a try.




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