Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Friday, August 26, 2016

Getting Support From A Depression Hotline

By Karen Mitchell


There are a lot of counselors available to talk to folks who are suffering from depression. Many people make the mistake of leaving this until the last minute until they are suicidal, which is never a good idea. It is not easy suffering on your own, especially when nobody understands what you are going through. This is why a depression hotline is so helpful.

There are counselors that are available during the day and night. They will assist you at all times, which is encouraging. Some of these counselors have even been suffering in the same way and have come through with their issues. This is why they are so compassionate and are able to show so much empathy.

There are also a lot of teenagers which have many issues of their own. They may not be comfortable on the phone. However, there are a lot of other forms of communication. They may be more comfortable texting someone. There are also online chats which are a good way of coping with life. The child may also feel more safe and anonymous in this sort of environment.

The suicide rate among teenagers has increased over the years, and parents don't always know what to look for. The problem is that teens don't always know where to turn because they may be ashamed of what is going on in their life. They don't know of how mom and dad is going to react. For example, bullying and abuse is a big problem.

They may realize that they have a big problem with drugs and alcohol and they may want help. However, they also realize that if they turn to the teacher or their parents, they may end up in a rehab center. Should they phone or text someone they don't know, they will not be threatened in any way. Knowing that they have someone to talk to who they can trust makes this so much easier.

You should also realize that depression can become chronic, and it is never for someone who is simply suicidal. You should not feel bad for phoning someone like this. Volunteers welcome phone calls because they are only too happy to help out. They may not be able to answer specific questions and tell you what to do, but they can definitely guide you.

Usually someone goes into a state of depression when they are feeling this way for more than two weeks. It is important to get some form of support. A lot of people feel that they are not able to call a counselor because they feel this is reserved for someone who is suicidal. However, this is simply not so, because you will feel comforted once you have spoken to someone compassionate.

Some people also don't have the budget to head off to a psychotherapist and this is why they tend to suffer in silence. Counselors who offer their services online do this free of charge. Often, they see this as a calling. They see this as a passion. You may find that they will refer you to other community programs which are also free of charge.




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