Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Tuesday, February 22, 2011

Ways To Easily Recover From A Split Up

By Dawn Williams


In a relationship, we sometimes feel great happiness but on the other hand, we also feel the great sadness it brings when relationships end. This is where each and every person is different. We all feel the pain but there are some people who tend to go on with their lives while others have a harder time coping.

You may feel like you are alone in this world but there are people who are willing to help you. These are your friends and your family. Plus, with these tips, you will surely get your life back in no time.

No kind of explanation or logic you put into it will bring everything back. It's natural to deny the breakup at first but the longer you stay in this phase the harder it will be to move forward. As complicated the situation may be, you have to accept that what you once have is now gone.

Learn from this experience and start it with loving yourself again. Instead of staying on a corner the whole day, crying yourself to sleep and listen to sad songs while you're at it, you should transform this negativity into something very productive.

Blame is something you should take out of your vocabulary when dealing with pain. You may want to blame yourself for doing such things but no one should be blamed for your broken relationships. Look into the brighter side and see what is in store for you other than blaming yourself.

To fully grasp the fact that you need to get over someone, stop trying to communicate with everyone he knows or every friend of his. You do still feel the need to talk to his friends but try to understand that the more you do this the more you prolong your path to getting over.

Write down how you feel right now at this moment. You may want to have a journal and a pen every time you go out and just write down everything you feel. If you are hurt then right down what made you feel it and how you overcame it. Then you can easily read it again and see how you have dealt with it.

Gather your friends and enjoy a good time together. You can pick up a new hobby or you can rejoin your basketball team or any sport that you like. Sweating it all out can do wonders to your body and soul.




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How To Start Healing A Broken Heart

By Suzanne D. Baker


Healing a broken heart is not possible if you do not let go of the pain you are going through.

There is no exact method to follow on how to heal a broken heart but you can always start the healing process.

Some people find writing break-up poems very effective. By expressing how they feel and letting out their emotions, it helps relieve them of the pain and allow the healing process to happen.

Some people who keep journals find this very effective as they can put down into words all the pain they are going through. Writing is a perfect way to start healing.

Others would think of getting into a rebound relationship as a form of getting over a broken relationship. This is definitely a bad idea as it will cause you to think of your ex all the more.

If you are still hoping to have your ex back and weighing the possibility, here are some tips you need to consider.

First, never cling to him. Although this can be very hard especially if you truly love him, yet, men do not like clingy women. They need a breathing room. The more you hold on to him, the more he wants to leave.

Through letting go, he might begin to see what he is really missing in life. This may be very difficult on your part, but it is a risk that you have to take. If you keep holding on to him, one way or the other, you will eventually lose him.

You may wonder how long should you wait for him? The more you resist the urge to call him, the sooner he might realize your worth.

Finally, if he does not come back, then it is a sign that your relationship is not meant to be. It is better that you realize it now than waiting a longer time to discover the truth. Again, it can be painful but you will survive.




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