Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Sunday, November 14, 2010

The Keys To A Lasting Relationship

By Eve Swift

There are times when we all suffer from some sort of relationship problems. All of us at one time or another has experienced arguments during our relationships. It is true to say that some of these arguments have even got quite heated at times.

Conflicts always have been and probably always will be a part of long term relationships. You would be hard pressed to find any long term relationship that has not had its fair share of shouting matches along the way.

Many relationships have sadly broken up because of these conflicts and we know that it can be hard to try to win your ex back after such a conflict. If however you get to the stage where you do want to win back your ex then there are a few simple things you should think about beforehand.

Take a long look at yourself in the mirror and remember how you used to act when you first met your ex. Then try to think about how you acted once you became a serious item. Scrutinize the changes and see if you can get back to the person you used to be. If you manage to succeed then your chances of winning her back will be much better.

Break ups can cause a lot of pain but it is important that you do not let her know how much you are suffering. Accepting the situation and allowing yourself time to think about things is a good way to keep calm about the break up.

Try to remember all the good times that you had when you were together. Thinking about the bad times may prevent you from ever trying to get back together again.

Whatever happens after your break up, do not let her talk you into the position of just being friends. Given the previous intimacy of your relationship this is doomed to failure from the outset as there will inevitably be jealousy lingering.

Let her know that your main aim is to win her back and not just remain friends. This sort of friendship will cause nothing but hurt in the long haul.

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Cosmic Ordering For Beginners

By Julie Fargo

All of us have some desires and cosmic ordering refers to a process where these desires are identified and an order is placed to the cosmos for their fulfillment. You need to place an order to the cosmos with no worries or doubt in your mind.

Once you are clear about your desire and have placed an order to cosmos, just leave it there and wait for it to get achieved by the cosmos in its very own creative way. With cosmic ordering it is possible to get what you desire. This controls your positive energy and fulfills your desires. The theorists have come up with a new age scientific theory for cosmic ordering.

New Age theorists offer the following scientific theory for Cosmic Ordering. According to them it is the electro magnetic signals that control our reality or the world around us. Magnetic charge is given out by our emotions and electrical charge by our thoughts. If it is possible to tune your thoughts and emotions and harness the power of the charge produced, you will be able to efficiently control the universe which surrounds you and get what you desire.

To begin with this process you need to be absolutely clear on what is desired by you and imagine those desires as getting fulfilled. You should also be clear whether fulfillment of those desires give you any happiness or not. These desires should appeal to your heart and upon their fulfillment you should feel happy. Now place an order to the universe and imagine them as getting fulfilled.

When you are clear about your desires, you should begin to imagine them. With this imagination your emotions and thoughts will get tuned. Imagine as if the desire already exists and you have achieved it. You need to feel happy with the achievement of this desire. Once the thought process and the process of imagination are done on your desires, simply forget about those. This actually means that you have imagined something, placed an order for it and now are waiting for it to get fulfilled. You need to place the order to the cosmos and then leave it to the cosmos to fulfill your desire.

There are benefits attached to cosmic ordering. It helps you to remain focused. It has been reflected through research that you are likely to achieve your desires once you write them down. Your self confidence gets a boost once you start believing that something is possible.

You also experience positive experiences. With positive energy going to the cosmos, the reflection of this is through receiving positive opportunities and people and you eventually get healthier. Positive thinking promotes improvement in health and less tress.

Do the following this to ensure that you complete cosmic ordering process. Decide on what your goals are and do not lose faith or doubt their accomplishment. Make a note of these goals and keep them in a place that you could re read from. I reiterate that faith should not be lost and with this belief you will finally see them getting fulfilled. You will eventually see a change in your life with fulfillment of your goals.

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