Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Thursday, October 14, 2010

Ideas On How To Reconcile A Shattered Relationship

By Gary Hawks

Breaking up a relationship is the most difficult thing one can do. It is most times a confusing and the most painful things a person can do. Most people will prefer going back to try and win the spouse back.

The relationship affair is a game however. It is very intense and trying to get back to your ex can be difficult. Having dedication alone won't be enough to achieve this. You must research other ideas to make sure you are able to achieve this however.

To get ahead of the game and win your ex back, you must make sure you take things seriously as the decisions you take can be serious and crucial for your life.

When you are absolutely sure that you want the relationship to work, you must dedicate enough time and effort into it. you must really fight for your man and this will take a lot of dedication.

Whenever you are pessimistic you will not get your boyfriend back. If you think that there is something that will not make you getting back your ex possible then you will end up not getting him back. You must be confident and know that you will be able to win him back.

You will not win him back immediately. You have to be patient and work on him patiently to attain the results you want. It is a game that rewards the patient and the one who is willing to go the extra mile.

Don't be too overexcited and think everything will fall into place straight away. You must calmly and carefully work on getting your boyfriend. If you have an expectation that straight away your man will be lose then you will end up disappointed and stranded.

Try to make your husband feel a little bit more special. Admiring your boyfriend will get him to take an interest in you again and make the relationship work again.

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Great Principles To Stay Happy

By Gabby Lark

Are you looking for the ways to stay happy? These suggestions will be valuable and really helpful.

First, remember that only you can make yourself happy. Therefore, pay attention to the good aspects of your life, and focus less on the negative stuff. Be happy, as Barney would also suggest.

Did you make anyone smile today? It is proven from research that smiling help reduce tension, improves the immune system functioning, makes you look much younger and puts you in a good mood. Making someone happy will do a world of good to you. It will make you feel good about yourself.

Make time and go for a walk. Walking reduces the body fats, enhance brain functioning, improves blood circulation, controls the blood's sugar content and helps do away with PMS signs.

Make vegetables and fruits part of your diet. Eating them reduces the likelihood of chronic diseases, certain cancers and strokes. They also reduce the calorie intake. Thus helps in controlling weight.

Make time for reading. It is a good past time. That allows you to enhance your knowledge and vocabulary. In addition, it improves your ability to focus and memory skills.

Get in touch with your friends. Sharing lessens your burden. Friends are those people who are always there for you even when you feel left out.

Try and spend time with someone more than seventy years of age or under 6. You have much to learn from the elderly and their wisdom. The honesty, simplicity and care free attitude of children offers great respite from stress.

Indulge in games. Games help you socialize, help in the development of skills, enhance mental functioning and improve vocabulary. Thus, games allow you to have fun and learn a lot as well.

Finally, enjoy your life to the fullest. Live each day the best you could so that you do not have any regrets at the end of the day or your life.

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