Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Saturday, January 29, 2011

The Power Of Subconscious Mind Is Simply Incredible!

By Kevin J Lockwood


Let's face it; the human mind is more than likely one of the most powerful things in all creation and as such, one shouldn't ever under estimate the power of the subconscious mind. Irrespective of what you do or what you say, it all comes from your mind, and in certain circumstances, your actions take place on a conscious level.

A perfect example of this can be witnessed when we sit down to watch TV. In some cases we don't like what we're watching and so we decide to change channels and watch something else instead. This is an action of the conscious mind. On other occasions, we reach for the remote and we flick through the different channels for no apparent reason. This of course is an action on the subconscious level, but have you ever stopped to think about what made you do it? Because this was an action on the subconscious level you probably never gave it a second thought.

How does something like this actually happen? In all probability, something came on TV which you don't really like and your subconscious mind, knowing it was something you don't like, triggered a reaction so that you wouldn't have to endure it. This just goes to show how much of an impact your subconscious mind can have on the way a person behaves. This type of occurrence also helps to emphasize the importance of training yourself to use the power of your subconscious mind so that you can use it to improve the quality of your life to an extent you probably never believed to be possible.

Providing you can learn how to harness and control the power of your subconscious, you'll be able to live the type of life you long for. Unfortunately, most people are brought up believing that there are many dangers lurking in the subconscious mind. Admittedly, mankind needs to understand the undesirable side of human psychology but if we spend too much time focusing on the negative aspects, we're bound to encounter negative experiences.

This is exactly why it is so important for people to focus on the positive aspects of their mind, and why they should look for ways in which they can use the power of the subconscious mind in order to improve their life. Contrary to what you may be thinking, this doesn't necessarily have to be a complex process, but instead, it's a series of simple processes which make it all possible. Providing you follow these simple processes, you'll discover that it is in fact possible to put the power of the subconscious mind to work, so that you in turn can develop to your full potential. Let's go ahead and take a quick look at some of the things you can do in order to achieve this.

One of the easiest ways to gain control over the subconscious mind is by using affirmations. Essentially, affirmations require you to remind yourself consistently of a certain aspect of your life in order to bring about a desired change.

If for example you found yourself in a situation where you were required to complete a task for which you believed you were not ready, you would more than likely experience a feeling of fatigue. This is essentially the way your body responds to a stressful scenario, but unfortunately it can leave you feeling drained and without energy. By using affirmations, it is possible for a person to overcome this condition which in turn would allow them to complete the task as it should ideally be completed.

The desired goal can be achieved by means of affirmations. In other words you need to remind yourself continuously and consistently that you stand to gain numerous benefits by completing the task successfully. You could go and stand in front of a mirror and tell yourself that by the time you've finished the plans, it will be the best looking home in the world.

Affirmations can of course help you in more ways than one. In fact, if you've never been successful at giving up a smoking, then affirmations can help you do just that. Affirmations, either spoken or written, allow you to gain access to the power of your subconscious mind.

Of course affirmation is not the only way to gain control over the power of the subconscious mind. In fact, post hypnotic suggestion has also proven to be successful and as such, it is a method which is often used. Post hypnotic suggestion can be done either by self hypnosis or by using the services of a qualified hypnotherapist. Those who choose to do it by means of self hypnosis will more often than not make use of various hypnosis audio recordings.

In more recent times, a new process has surfaced which attempts to synchronize the brain waves. This process takes advantage of new technology known as by binaural beats which are essentially different sound frequencies which you listen to through a set of headphones. The two frequencies are slightly different which means that a different frequency is heard in each ear and this helps to synchronize the two hemispheres of the brain. Interestingly enough, this process helps you to achieve a meditative state of mind almost instantaneously, at which point it becomes easier for your conscious mind to communicate with your subconscious mind.

In fact, this whole process can be taken a lot further, as has been demonstrated by Buddhist monks for centuries. As you may have already have heard, some monks have so much control over their subconscious minds, that they're able to exhibit what could best be described as being supernatural powers in that they are able to levitate.

By utilizing the power of your subconscious mind you can in essence manipulate physical matter on a subatomic level, and this has been proven beyond all doubt. In fact, several movies and books have gone to great lengths to explain this in scientific terms, and as a result, this phenomenon has come to be known as the 'Law of Attraction'. Providing you are able to communicate successfully with your subconscious mind, it is possible to get whatever you want out of life. Rather than just being theoretically possible, it's is a physical law proven by means of quantum physics.

Even though this may sound quite unbelievable, quantum physics is able to show us that the ancient religions have been right all along when they say that the reality we live in the simply a product of our mind. Interestingly enough, quantum physics has also been able to help us understand other amazing powers such as how certain people can be psychic.

One thing is for certain and that is that the subconscious mind is significantly more powerful than what people tend to realize. As such, you should never overlook or ignore the potential benefits you to stand to gain once you discover how to control and manipulate your subconscious mind. Not only will it enable you to change certain behavior traits such as bad habits, but it will also allow you to live a life you never thought possible.




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Losing A Loved One: Facing Sadness

By Ellen D. Dukes


Statistics have shown that people at the age of 18 are experiencing forms of depression and even children do feel depression. Depression is a critical form of grief in which a person who has experienced grief is not able to cope well with the loss of a loved one. With that, it is very important that you know how to treat and communicate with people with grief and depression.

Acceptance is the main key to getting through grief but in order for you to accept what is right infront of you, there are stages in which you have to go through. There will be periods of denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and then comes acceptance. It is much better to accept the things rather than ignore them.

Learn to live with grief. If not, learn how to cope with grief. If grief is taking over your life, it will take form into depression where you will experience disinterest to everything you find interesting before. The moment this happens, it will be tougher to manage.

Be in tune with your feelings. Do not try to suppress them. Talk to your family and friends and admit if you are having difficulties accepting the fact that a loved one is good. They will surely understand what you are feeling and would help you go through the process.

Take things one step at a time. Do not try to push things you want to do. You might end up skipping the normal process of grieving. Most of the time, taking things hard and fast would suppress your emotions.

Do the things that you really love to do. If you love going outdoors then by all means do what you need to do to cope with your feelings. Do not bound yourself inside a room and pretend that everything is okay. Be out there.

Get back to your routine if possible. You might be doing a lot of things together with your loved one who just passed away but learn to do them alone. Put yourself on a daily routine to let the days pass by.

Always remember that you are not alone and that you have family and friends who are around you that you can talk to when you feel sad. Trust in them that everything will be alright.




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