Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Thursday, June 3, 2010

A Bit Of Advice When Breaking Up With Your Special Someone

By George Trasher

You may have found yourself in the position of having to end a relationship. Chances are you found it to be a difficult situation, especially if the relationship had been an extended one.

Most relationships don't come to an unexpected end, but many still do, and that's not going to end anytime soon. People change in their outlooks and opinions as they grow older, and our new attitudes are not always compatible with our old relationships.

If you find yourself in a relationship that simply isn't working, it's best to end it quickly rather than wait to see if things change. No one wants to be in a relationship if their partner is unhappy, and you're wasting both your time and your partner's time by drawing out a relationship that isn't working.

The least you can do for your partner is let them know soon that the relationship isn't working so that they can start moving past the relationship sooner. The end of a relationship is always hard on everyone, but the sooner it ends, the sooner your partner can start the recovery process.

By spending time in an unhappy relationship, you're wasting your own time, as well. You could be enjoying the single life or you could be spending time with someone who's a better match for you.

If you do find yourself in the unenviable position of having to end a relationship, here's my advice for you. Don't have this important discussion via text message, email, or phone. If you've been dating less than two months, it may be acceptable, but not if the relationship has lasted longer than that.

If you do have to break up with someone, it's much better to do it in person, in a public place. A breakup can be an awkward time for both of you and being in public reduces the chances that the situation will turn ugly. It also provides a convenient point where you can go your separate ways; you don't have this luxury if you conduct the breakup at your home, when you will be faced with asking your partner to leave at some point.

Breaking up is always going to be an unpleasant experience, no matter the circumstances. Still, sometimes it just needs to be done. Be confident that your decision is for the better and that you'll both overcome this difficult time.

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What You Can Do To Create Abundance And Prosperity

By Pete Rivers

you can really be whatever you want. This is the statement we usually see everywhere. We have come to think that the statement is too common and trivial to be true. However, if you read self help books, you can see many tips on how to improve your life by changing how you feel. This is mind power. And this is true. If you do exactly as what described in those books, you will be able to find happiness and prosperity. This article will guide you through abundance and prosperity so that you know how to change your life for the better.

You should believe that you are the owner of your own destiny. No one else except you and only you that can control your life.

You are responsible for your happiness and wealth in life. Broken relationship, bad job, increase in bill amount at the end of the month are the result of what you have done and what you have thought. Being responsible for your own future is the first step to controlling your future.

If you want your marriage to get better, you should actually start changing how you interact with your spouse. Simply have a belief is not enough, take an action and you will be amazed at what you can achieve.

To live better, it is imperative that you think better. Thinking better means think positively and actively. You can now start focusing on good things in your life, good things in your relationship. Start to realize how lucky and fortunate you are. Appreciate what you currently have. Your house, your families, your friends are just some of the things you should feel lucky because you have. How on earth can you have more if you don't appreciate what you currently possess?

You should avoid blaming others for what happens in your life. You are the person who is responsible for your own life, not your neighbor or your parents. You should realize that and start focusing on how to change yourself in order to have a better life.

There is a very effective method you can try in order to see the true power of mind power. For now, stop thinking about how much money you have to earn, instead think about how much money you already have. And instead of thinking about your debts, think about your having more money than what you have to pay for what you have.

The three things you should focus on are: appreciate what you have, the money you have and that you are happy and lucky. If you want to have an abundant life, then you should start to think that you have manifested abundance.

Abundance and prosperity are the thing all of us want to achieve during the course of our lives. They have a close relationship. By practising the tips showed in this article, you will be able to create abundance and wealth on your own.

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