Death is coming

The closer death creeps up upon me the less I am able to understand the reasons for life or living.

Yes I have experienced a close family member dying and unlike television it takes decades to handle such a thing. To think I am going to put my family through such a thing when I finally leave is more horrific to me than the thought of death itself.

My life was and is still a learning experience but when all said and done what am I to do with all this accumulated learning over my lifetime if I just die. There is no logic or reason to this.

Long ago I became aware that the God story that is sold to the majority is just a nice story to give mankind with a message of a basic layout of how nice life could be if everyone followed these ideas. Not many in life do and if one thinks about it the good and evil structures actually depend on each other. The good that can be experienced in life is only understood as good when there is it's opposite to compare it to. This is not rocket science only common sense in reality. I am not saying we need to experience bad but understanding in it is needed to appreciate the great things many of us can have in our lives. From birth to death there are many ways mankind helps his fellow man. How many ways can you help?


Wednesday, June 15, 2011

Save Your Love Through Counselling Services

By Deborah Sanasi


There is no argument about the point that romantic relationships make people happy. Anyone who is in love is easy to identify because he or she just cannot prevent the distinct glow on the face. Nevertheless, despite happy endings that have been highlighted in books and movies, romantic relationships are definitely not roses and sweet chocolates all the time. There are also periods when couples could feel painful thorns and the bitter side of such unions. These are moments when the individuals involved are put in much pain. Because of this and because of the aim of recovering, they should undergo counselling services.

There is wrong impression that still pervades that seeing a psychiatrist means that something is not right with the person's mind. Or, meeting with counselors means that the relationship is breaking up. This is, of course, an utterly wrong conclusion and it is one borne out of ignorance. It is actually like saying that a person who is taking vitamins and supplements already has cancer. When couples go out to consult with a counselor, it is a sign that they are seeking ways to understand their situation and rescue their relationships. Therefore, they are actually trying to prevent a breakup just as vitamins reduce the possibility of disease.

However, couples should not wait too long before scheduling counselling services. It is important that they immediately see a counsellor once they notice some issues regarding their relationship. There may still be a great number of people who think that this would not really lead anywhere and that it would just be a waste of money and time. They should remember though that breakups that occur despite the counselling are usually caused by delays in seeking external intervention. A relationship that is still rocked by a storm could still be manageable but not one that is already upside-down and is sinking fast. Even the smartest captain could not save a ship that is half-filled with water already.

Although there have been many cases when relationships in distress are saved and have become healthier, it must be accepted that sometimes such counselling is no longer effective. When both partners and the counsellor see that there is just no spark left in the relationship, it is possible that it can no longer be resuscitated. The next stage of the counselling would just have to deal with pains of the involved individuals; the counsellors taking steps to help each of them to overcome the impact and to move on.

Couples who live in New South Wales are lucky because of the number of excellent counselors in the area. They can proceed to any facility that offer this opportunity such as counseling services Norwest as well as those in Glenwood, Stanhope Gardens, and Bella Vista. In terms of accessibility, such services are absolutely easy to enjoy. The only thing that could really stop couples from doing so is themselves and their misimpressions on counseling. Unless they learn to overcome such subjectivisms, they would not find it difficult to secure happy and long-term relationships.




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